#GrowNOW The Podcast

How many times have we repeated the phrases : “well, this is reality” or “I cannot ignore the reality”. Why are these phrases tricky, even if they may not seem like that at first? Why do we assume that just because we see things a certain way and call it “reality” , we expect everyone else to see it the same way?

How lucid are we when taking a decision, or judging a situation?

That the fun topic of today’s episode, the first one from a series of 3 dedicated to the topic of lucidity in relationships.

Which connection in your life felt unfinished, too short or worth revisiting? Is there a type of relationship that you feel didn’t receive the proper care, attention or time became of any reason? It can be a love, family or business relationship .

Have you ever considered looking at your relationships as a multi seasonal show? A drama, a thriller? Some relationships can go smooth for 2-3 seasons then go off the rails only to make an appearance in season 6. Putting this frame on it, how fun do they become?

Instead of looking with pessimism at a type of relationship in your life that is going not so great, how about waiting for the next season? Anticipating, preparing?

Age is not a taboo subject but it can be a touchy one, considering we change with the passing of the years and then one day we look in the mirror and see a completely different person then the one we had imagined. Men and women, age is a subject better left for the privacy of our mind.

But what about relationships where there is an age difference, or a difference in appearance that is really visible for those around us? How do we approach the topic?

What does a big age difference have to do with anything when it comes to dating someone? If your desire was to meet someone tonight and a much younger person seems interested, is that still such a taboo in our society?

We know by now that the things we put limitations one, are usually the ones that are limited.

Did it ever happen to you that a problem that seems enormous at midday, sort of becomes more accessible the more you talk with an old friend? Or even if you make one small decision, it clears the air l, just to give you enough time to see the solution.

Changing the course of a problem is not that difficult but it does take awareness. And today’s episode is one of those moments.

When we have an emotional experience, the emotional attachment to whatever happened it higher than the memory of what truly happened.

Most of the time in relationships, we tend to forget what we were fighting about, but the hurt feeling is lingering for a long time.

Today’s episode focuses on how to override some ingrained beliefs about relationships and how to change the “destiny” in our favor.

There is a common understanding or knowledge among people that life has ups and downs, that love might end in pain, that somehow we can draw the short stick in life. There is a certain level of comfort in accepting this. And yet, the trick is to override this escape door.

And today’s episode is exactly about how to do it.

Sometimes we go so deep into our old story that we truly believe it. Because there has to be another explanation, right? Why would I repeat the same negative experiences willingly? It has to be my fate, my destiny.

Today’s episode focuses on how to recognize and adjust our questions and take accountability.

The most common blockage when trying to manifest with a new story , is how the old blockages sort of stay present, stopping us from reaching the next steps. This episode focuses on how to stop the blockages earlier and allow them to be replaced by what we truly want.