What happens when you realize the label you’ve been using might not fit anymore? In this episode, we take a hard look at where we really belong in the ENM world—are we swingers, open, monogamish, or something in between? Where might you fall? 🤔💭

From redefining our play style to unpacking hidden fantasies (like Anna's cheating kink 👀🔥), this conversation is raw and real. If you’ve ever questioned your desires, struggled to speak up in the moment, or found yourself re-evaluating what you really want from non-monogamy, you won’t want to miss this one! 🎙️💡

Thank you for listening!

❤️ Anna & Aiden

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In this episode, we start with a totally relatable email from a listener asking for advice on how to approach the topic of opening her marriage with her (currently reluctant) husband, whom she adores.. 💌 Her questions are likely some that many of you have too--especially if you're new to the idea of opening up.

🙋🏽‍♂️ What happens when it's the MAN who's hesitant? (HINT: The approach is the same regardless of which parter it is!)

💗 How can you create a safe space for conversation without pressure and create more honesty and intimacy in a marriage--regardless of whether you play right away (or ever!)?

😰 How do you deal with jealousy and the fear of losing your partner?

😱 And god forbid, what if you run into someone you know at a lifestyle event?

We dive deep into real talk on what worked for us, including how to set boundaries, build trust, and avoid common pitfalls.

💥 Key moments: Aiden and Anna both share how the initial fears they had when opening up have shifted, and Anna discusses her curiosity about separate dating. Plus, we explore playful strategies (like card games and fantasy discussions) that can open up intimacy and turn up the heat, without pressure to involve others--yet.🌟✨

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🎉 Hey Fam! 🔥 We’re back with Episode 25 where we share some unexpected lessons about boundaries and connection.

Ever felt overwhelmed by lifestyle expectations? 😱 Same here. Anna discovers the perfect force field for anxiety at play parties! 🦫 Meanwhile, Aidan shares insights from his rave days about “cuddle puddle” culture, where physical touch doesn’t always mean sex—a revelation that challenges Anna's perspective on what it means to cuddle. Or is Aiden or just adorably clueless about women’s signals? 🤔

Sexual boundaries are complex, and our podcast proves everyone’s experience is unique. Healthy boundaries strengthen relationships by creating mutual understanding and respect. Consent and comfort are ALWAYS the priority.

Would you feel comfortable at a LS party like this? Is it different for men and women? Let us know at [email protected] 💕. 📧✨

Ever wonder where you land on the "lifestyle spectrum"? In this episode, we share specific questions to help determine what kind of approach may apply to those interested in the lifestyle. Join us as we explore the span of relationship models from strict monogamy to polyamory, as we share our personal anecdotes along the way.

Key highlights include intriguing discussions on jealousy, attachment styles, and cultivating deeper intimacy. Plus, don't miss the wild update on Aiden's priapism incident and the unexpected outcome!

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In this deeply honest episode, we open up about our relationship challenges, past wounds, and the ongoing journey of healing and growth. On air and in real time, we discover how the scars of old relationships, our own breakup, and childhood traumas cause old patterns to resurface, and continue to shape our present dynamics.

We uncover the importance of empathy, consistent honest communication, and quick repair in maintaining a healthy connection. 💬❤️

This episode is for anyone who’s struggled with expressing their true selves or navigating the lingering impact of past pain. We share our most personal insights on overcoming insecurities and fears, and how we’re learning to grow together despite it all. 🌟

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#Healing #Relationships #Growth #Vulnerability #Empathy #SelfDiscovery

Ep 22 is packed with heat 🔥 and a big lesson learned. We’re spilling the details about our latest adventure—a steamy session with a long-awaited couple that took our connection to bold new levels. But it’s not all fun and games—this wild night led to an unexpected trip to the ER. (Worth it! 🙌).

We’re beyond grateful for your support—keep those emails coming! ✨

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Ep 22 is packed with heat 🔥 and a BIG lesson learned 😳 . We’re spilling the details about our latest adventure—a steamy 4-hour session with a long-awaited couple that took our connection to bold new levels 🚀. Of course, no wild night is complete without a trip to the emergency room! 🚑 (Hint: It was worth it! 🙌).

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In this episode, Aiden arrives home with a box of sexy questions, leading to an unexpectedly hilarious and insightful evening of revelations, laughs, and maybe some blushes. Join us as we delve into the most intimate conversations, games, pushing boundaries, and ask yourself how you might answer them!

Enjoy! 💖

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Inspired by a Reddit post titled 'My Wife Had Better Sex with Someone Else,' we explore our own fears and revelations when faced with the idea that our partner might experience 'better' sex outside the relationship. We delve into our own personal insecurities and discuss how the complexities of emotional and physical connections can create both challenges and opportunities for growth in our relationship. Through candid conversations about jealousy, trust, and intimacy, we uncover the ways in which alternative relationship models can actually strengthen the bond between partners.

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Join us as we dive into Anna's recent coffee date experience and the "nervousitement" that comes with meeting a stranger on a first date. Anna recounts her jitters leading up to the date and how Aidan encouraged her to step out of her comfort zone. From a last-minute mole inspections to heartfelt reflections on trust and autonomy, Anna shares her thoughts on the date itself, highlighting her initial impressions and the importance of honesty in dating profiles. We also discuss the broader challenges of being single in the lifestyle and the unique dynamics that come with it. Meanwhile, Aidan provides his perspective on what it's like to be the partner staying at home, offering candid insights into his own feelings of slight jealousy and support. We wrap up with a candid conversation about what happens when "coming out" to friends and others who might not fully understand the concept of ENM.

Enjoy! 💖

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