**NOTE We recommend listening to Ep 52 first! This is the second part of that episode.**

This one’s raw, real, and healing. 💔💬 In Part 2 of our session with relationship coach Chloe, we go deep into the emotional fallout from a separate play experience gone wrong: a broken condom agreement, a breach of trust, and the lingering ache of unspoken fears. Anna confronts her body’s visceral “no” while Aiden fights to be believed. We share the tools Chloe gave us to move forward—from how to feel the ick without letting it run the show to how to rebuild trust when our gut screams otherwise.

If you've ever struggled with trust, jealousy, or feeling safe after something goes sideways, this episode is for you. We’re not sugarcoating anything—there are apologies, hard truths, and even a little laughter. We also dive into how we’re rewriting our “relationship constitution” to define what privacy, honesty, and emotional safety mean for us now. ❤️‍🔥 You’ll walk away with tools and insights to navigate your own love, open or not.

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In this candid and emotionally charged episode, we welcome back relationship coach Chloe Prentoulis for an on-air coaching session after a challenging event in our open relationship. Together, we navigate the aftermath of jealousy, trust breaches, and the struggle to balance what we know intellectually with what we feel emotionally.

This one was tough, y’all. With Chloe’s guidance, we unpack our fears, communicate our needs, and work to rebuild trust using practical tools and “nonviolent communication” protocols. This conversation offers a rare, unfiltered look at the complexities of non-monogamy and the ongoing work it takes for us to stay connected and resilient.

If you’re seeking honest insight into the realities of open relationships and the courage it takes to grow together, this episode is for you.

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Email: [email protected] Phone 949-482-2464

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This one’s raw, y’all. After our separate play experiences at the Christmas party (Aiden with Jasmine, Anna with Tony), we thought we’d processed everything. But it turns out...not even close.

In this episode, we invite you into a super intimate, real-time recording where Anna finally drops the mask and shares all the big, messy, insecure thoughts she was too embarrassed to say the day before. Intrusive thoughts, catastrophizing, jealousy spirals, and worst-case-scenario fear — all laid bare.

You’ll hear us reading our personal, raw notes to each other, sorting through trust, safety, and what it means to really support your partner when they’re hurting—even if it means hearing things you don’t want to hear. If you’ve ever told yourself “I’m fine” when you weren’t, or struggled with the aftermath of separate play, we hope this gives you permission to be human too. ❤️ Plus: two emotional voice memos, a lot of reassurance, and the moment we realized we’re way more aligned than we thought.

Tune in, feel seen, and remember–the only way through is through. 🌀

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In this milestone 50th episode, we celebrate the launch of Season 3 of Hacking Love with an in-depth description of a recent sexy Christmas party we attended. What started with wild anticipation turned into a night full of unexpected interactions, new feelings, and real-time opportunities for growth. We hit some major milestones, both personally and as a couple, during this event.

Aiden finally gets his first (voluntary) solo play experience, a significant step that brings up various emotions and new opportunities to process them. Meanwhile, Anna navigates her own interactions and boundaries with new men, finding new ways to articulate her needs and handle persistent attention. (Hint, guys: she loves massages!)

Through detailed recounting, we both reflect on moments of excitement, feelings of arousal (and jealousy) and the complexities of engaging with new people. Our 're-appreciation sex' afterwards takes on a new layer of depth, underscoring just how much these experiences strengthen can our relationship.

Despite challenges, the ability to communicate and process everything can bring you closer than ever. This episode is packed with honesty, vulnerability, and the sexy tension that comes when love and adventure collide.

Join us as we navigate anticipation, interactions, and our reflections, kicking off the new season three with a night of adventure and authentic sharing. 💬❤️

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🎉 Bonus 2 Hour Season Finale Episode! 🎉

Season 2 goes out with a bang in Episode 49 of Hacking Love and wow, do we cover a lot 😏❤️ From gearing up for a sexy party to unpacking how recent adventures are shaping our relationship, this episode is a full emotional rollercoaster.

Aiden shares what it is like stepping into a potential new connection and the excitement, nerves, and feelings that come along with it 💫 Meanwhile, Anna gets real about navigating boundaries, sitting with big reactions, and owning her own curiosity and desires 🔥

Expect laughter, vulnerability, and some very honest conversations as we explore growth, communication, and the sometimes messy magic of opening up while staying deeply connected as a primary partnership 💬✨

If you have ever wrestled with jealousy, questioned your boundaries, or wondered how love keeps evolving, this episode is for you. Come hang out with us for a candid, heartfelt, and surprisingly funny season finale 💕🎧

With love,

Anna & Aiden 💕

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Come for the vows, stay for the vibes 💍🔥

Fresh off our festival-themed specatacle of a wedding (let's just say it got a little crazy 😜), we get real about what married life looks like for two people who want slightly different things from an open lifestyle. This one’s candid, tender, and a little spicy—as we do.

In this episode:

• 💫 Wedding recap: festival-formal fits, our first marital disagreement (in the form of a DJ battle), roller skates, and a sky that cleared just for us
• 🔄 “Team sport” vs. “solo sparks”: navigating mismatched play styles without keeping score
• 🧠 Jealousy, communication, and growth: sitting with big feelings instead of running from them
• 🎯 Our new ground rules(ish): less pressure, more presence, and letting experiences unfold
• 📲 The texts to another man that re-opened a door… and how inclusion keeps trust strong.

If you’re exploring openness as a couple (or even newlyweds!) or just trying to honor two truths in one relationship—this convo is your permission slip to be honest, messy, and loving at the same time. 🖤 Enjoy!

With love,

Anna & Aiden 💕

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Hey loves! Episode 47 of Hacking Love is here 💫 After a little hiatus, we’re back—ready to dive into your questions and celebrate some juicy milestones.

This episode, we unpack our solo date processing… and let’s just say things have only gotten hotter. Expect a steamy recap of our recent intimate adventures—emotional, physical, and yes, how Anna probed Aiden’s “depths” 🤌🍑😉

We also dig into: ✨ How substances ❄️ 🥃 🐴 💊 can affect play in the lifestyle ✨ The growth (and heat) that comes from leaning into discomfort ✨ Why complacency in monogamy can be a hidden trap.

As always, you’ll get our raw, funny, and deeply personal take on love, sex, and the messy magic of open relationships. 🔥

In this milestone episode, we dive into a story that’s equal parts unexpected, vulnerable, and thrilling. Solo dates have always fascinated (and unsettled) us — the idea of stepping into new experiences alone, with all the possibilities and what-ifs. For Anna, that curiosity became very real during a recent work trip.

What started as a simple evening away turned into an unforgettable adventure: an intriguing doctor, a flirtatious dinner, and a set of circumstances neither of us saw coming. In real time, we share the emotions, the anxieties, and the excitement of what happens when trust is tested — and when desire sparks in new ways.

Join us for the full play-by-play: the lead-up, the encounter, and the raw reflections afterward. This episode is packed with honesty, vulnerability, and the sexy tension that comes when love and adventure collide.

Tune in to hear how one solo date deepened our connection, challenged our comfort zones, and left us closer than ever. 💬❤️

With love,

Anna & Aiden 💕

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We’re back, loves — and this one is packed. 💌 After taking a little break, we return with stories, lessons, and laughter from our latest adventures in love, dating, and the lifestyle.

In our last episode, we made a bold offer: what if we could actually date you, our listeners? We thought it was a genius hack — bypass the apps, cut through the noise, and connect with amazing people who already know our vibe. Here we reveal what happened when we put ourselves out there…This foolishness taught us more than we expected about connection, vulnerability, and how sometimes it's big leap for people to really put themselves out there.

Also, Superman nd Wonderwoman are back in our orbit — and things get complicated. From a surprise drink night out to political dealbreakers (yes, politics can be a major cockblock), we found ourselves balancing values and desire in ways we didn’t see coming. What started as a simple meetup turned into one of the hottest nights we’ve had in awhile… just not in the way we imagined. 😉

We also take you inside an epic party that brought together our overlapping worlds — burners, ravers, tantra friends, poly folks, and a swirl of open-minded humans in one gorgeous mansion with DJs, fire dancers, cuddle piles, and secret playrooms. We share what went down, the surprises that came our way, and how being “fake swingers” in a mostly poly crowd taught us even more about our own preferences.

This episode isn’t just about hookups and experiments. As usual, we dive deep into:

• Why trust and reassurance are the true foundation of open relationships
• How to balance individuation with partnership without losing connection
• Why empathy (even in the lifestyle) matters as much as attraction
• And how “hacking love” is as much about growing as a couple and individuals, as it is about finding sexy fun!

At the heart of it all? We’re here to explore love, intimacy, and the messy, hilarious, beautiful journey of connection — with plenty of laughs along the way. 💕

With love,

Anna & Aiden 💕

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So, we had a bit of a wild idea: What if some of you actually wanted to date us? 😳 Or at least hang out and be friends? 👫

After 44 episodes of us sharing our amusing and often arduous journey of trying to find that elusive "unicorn" 4-way connection with a couple, we know the best connections come from friendship and shared energy, not necessarily dating apps.

And we just realized that we have already have a massive group of potential friends out there who are listening to us all the time!

So here's our pitch: You already know nearly everything about us. Our preferences, insecurities, sexual stuff, banter, health routines, weird jokes — you name it. 😅 Now, we’d love to meet some of you. 👀

If you’ve ever listened and thought, “Damn, we’d totally vibe with them,” this is your chance to reach out. 💌

We’re inviting couples to:

📹 Make a short video together answering a few questions:

• Are you in the lifestyle (or curious)?
• What draws you to us / the podcast?
• Where do you live and can you travel? ✈️
• What hesitations and hopes do you have?

👉 Send it to: [email protected]

And, so you have some idea of what we look like, for fun we asked AI to generate an “approximate” photo of us. 🤖🧑‍🤝‍🧑 It got pretty close - we think! We’ve posted it to our Facebook group.

Our keywords here are playful, vulnerable, and curious—less “sexy stranger hookup,” more “cool friends first, maybe more if it’s mutual.” ✨ Whether anyone bites or not, we promise to keep it fun and will respond to everyone who reaches out, We will also plan to share what happens in upcoming episodes. 🎧

And if no one responds? Even funnier.

So if you’re feeling curious, brave, and aligned with our vibe… we’d love to meet you. 💛

With love, weirdness, and zero expectations,

Anna & Aiden 💕

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