Ever wonder how police departments differ and how you choose the right one? Want to know why there is such an issue with police mental health and how they deal with mental health in the public? We approach all of these topics with a special 2 guest episode this week. 

All of us are passionate about mental health and know there is a struggle between learning how to compartmentalize so you don't fall apart on a scene and the need to seek therapy. For all the legal guidelines in the lawbook, there are a thousand blurry lines in police and how the adminstration handles each internal issue. However, although all three individuals on this episode have had a completely different policing career, they all come to the same conclusion that changes need to be made. 

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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In this episode your host answer questions from you guys. Fluffer episodes are the mini episodes we do every now and then to address any questions our audience has. If you have a questions for next Fluffer episode, email or message us and we will put it on the list. This week we cover adrenaline, new leadership, finding normalcy, and questions about podcasting in general. 

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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This one is a difficult one as we talk to a friend of mine that lost her husband to suicide. He was an active narcotics agent and due to a complex set of events, he chose to end his life. She goes into the tale of how confusing it is when your spouse or loved one makes this decision, and how it reverberates through your life long after they are buried. Not only were there uncharted and unbelievable difficulties in telling her children about their father's death, but the difficulties continued. There are so many issues families face when there loved one has died and she goes into detail about how she was able to finally grasp on to all the legalities that no one talks about. 

By the end of the podcast, she will talk about how she was able to heal from it. Almost a decade since her husband's suicide, she finally has been able to find true happiness again. And part of that happiness is her investment on fixing a problem she did not create, the management of the surviving spouse. She is the founder of a ministry called RESTORE HOPE 61  . It is to help the surviving family members naigate the new normal of a loved one being gone. Please check out the site and see if there is anything you can help with or if there is anyone you know that may need it. They are there to help. 

Dedicated to Agent Rushbrook. 

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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This week we talk to Paul Nash about how he got addicted to gambling, and how he was able to overcome the decade long addiction. We also go into the topics about why gambling is such a dangerous addiction. Although it may not kill you like drugs or alcohol can, the mental toll and monetary devastation can lead to suicidal ideation or worse. 

Not only did Paul readjust his life to take gambling completely out of it, but he was also able to change his relationship with food to look an immense amount of weight as well. In his recovery, he recovered a whole new life and appreciate for healthy habits. Now, he hopes to grow more knowledge on the dangers of gambling, and how to better see the signs in friends/relatives that might have a hidden problem. 

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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BATTLE FOR SPARTAN SWIM AND DIVE

This interview explores the impactful journey of a coach who navigated personal tragedy, career transitions, and the importance of resilience and perspective in sports and life. In this in-depth interview, Coach Matt Gianiodis shares his experiences coaching at Michigan State, the challenges faced during program cuts, and insights into athlete development and leadership. Discover the behind-the-scenes realities of college athletics, leadership lessons, and the importance of legacy and followership. In this engaging interview, Coach Matt Gianiodis shares insights from his coaching career, memorable stories from college days, and reflections on life and mentorship. Discover how relationships, influence, and personal growth shape a fulfilling journey.

Key Topics

• Handling tragedy in sports
• Leadership and resilience
• Career transitions and growth College coaching experiences
• Impact of program cuts on athletes and staff
• Leadership lessons in sports
• Building team followership and culture Coaching philosophy and lessons learned
• Memorable college sports stories and friendships
• The impact of mentorship and influence in sports and life

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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This week we talk to Brad Wendes who has a plethora of experience in the world of parkour. Although his exposure in the the mainstream sense with Ninja Warrior, Britain's Got Talent, and the vast number of productions he has been a part of is intriguing, the most intriguing part of his accomplishments is what he had to trudge through behind closed doors. 

He not only survived situations that should have deflated all ambition to reach his goals, but he now is using that effort and focus to give back to his community. He invests in the youth and promotes a healthy workforce by way of example. After this discussion, if you should ever find yourself at a point where giving up seems like the only option, Brad will give you a few options on how to crawl out. And let there be no mistake, there is never an easy fix to a complex problem, there is time, dedication, and grit. Brad now knows his purpose to is to help build a better world  so perhaps the next generation can keep building. 

Want more information or looking to find an amazing organization? 

Here is Brad Wendes website or check out Team Kinetix! Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Backgrounds
02:59 Transitioning from Law Enforcement to Podcasting
05:55 Reflections on 9/11 and Its Impact
11:51 Parenting in a Fearful World
14:58 The Evolution of Parkour as a Sport
17:54 Personal Journey into Parkour and Performance
22:25 Adventures and Misadventures in Performance
24:52 The Impact of Coaching and Community Engagement
26:43 Legacy of Altruism and Personal Growth
30:23 Challenges in Youth Engagement and Crime Prevention
36:27 Navigating Personal Loss and Mental Health
45:10 Resilience Through Adversity and the COVID Experience
47:57 Navigating Post-Lockdown Challenges
49:54 Addressing Youth Employment and NEETs
52:39 Building a Community-Focused Not-for-Profit
56:42 Mentorship and Empowering Young People
01:01:30 Coping with Loss and Mental Health
01:06:22 The Importance of Grit and Resilience
01:08:44 Future Aspirations and Leaving a Legacy
01:13:31 Building a Respectful Workplace Culture
01:15:51 The Importance of Shared Experiences
01:19:32 Lessons from Sports and Coaching
01:21:52 Finding Purpose After Loss
01:25:46 The Challenge of Balancing Ethics and Success
01:29:44 The Power of Kindness
01:31:34 Unexpected Opportunities from Simple Acts
01:36:07 Reflections on Life and Future Aspirations

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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In this conversation, Tess and Earl discuss the evolution of active shooter training, the importance of military experience in crisis management, and the challenges of transitioning to civilian life. Earl shares insights from his military background, emphasizing the need for effective training that includes the fight component in active shooter situations. They also explore the significance of honoring fallen heroes, maintaining a positive mindset in crisis training, and the value of personal hobbies like metal detecting as a means of coping with the stresses of their professions. In this engaging conversation, Earl shares his passion for metal detecting, recounting thrilling finds like a Japanese knee mortar and a wedding ring rescue. He discusses his competitive shooting experiences and the joy of teaching others, including his journey to becoming a Santa Claus. Earl emphasizes the importance of active shooter preparedness and lifelong learning, showcasing his dedication to both personal hobbies and community service.

Find Earl and his team at https://mobilemarksmanship.com/Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts
03:01 Active Shooter Training Evolution
06:02 The Importance of Fighting Back
08:52 School Safety and Preparedness
11:41 Earl's Military Background and Transition
14:54 The Last Six Seconds: A Tribute to Marines
32:48 Maintaining Connections in Service
36:29 Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life
42:11 Finding Joy in Hobbies and Interests
55:40 The Magic of Santa Claus
01:00:58 Becoming a Professional Santa
01:05:27 The Importance of Active Shooter Training
01:09:49 Teaching with Passion and Purpose
01:13:01 The Challenges of Know-It-All Students
01:15:20 The Value of Continuous Learning
01:19:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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In this episode, our host introduces the concept of 'Fluffer' episodes—quick, candid Q&A sessions—and your will probably regret listening to it. But thats ok, that is what we do. These will be quick episodes so we can address some of the questions you all have had for us or to delve into previous episodes a little more. Have questions? Email us and we will answer them on our next Fluffer episode!
Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Fluffer Episodes
00:39 Purpose of Podcasting
04:54 Leadership Challenges in Police Departments
08:13 Dating Experiences and Perspectives
12:56 New Stuff

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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You guys made it to the season finale. This episode your Host gets interviewed by a past guest, Chass. Now, they go off the rails quite a bit due to a tragic event that happened a week prior, but we promise real conversations in this, and that is what you got. Please be weary, the F-bomb is used quite a bit in here but you put cops and emotions in a room together, and cussing is what you get. Actually, I think you might get that regardless. We cover a lot of topics but mostly police leadership, your hosts past experiences in policing, and touch on our reaction to an officer's recent death. 

We have more to come with season 2 but due to the time constraints we will pause for a bit just to get some stuff up and running again. Again, if you want to be a guest or have any questions/inquiries, please email us at the address provided. Be safe, and know that no matter what you are going through, someone else out there is going through it too. You are not aloe in it. 

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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In this engaging conversation, Tucker shares a candid account of his experiences in law enforcement, touching on the challenges and humorous moments that come with the job. Tucker recounts his early days in the academy, the camaraderie formed with fellow recruits, and the unique challenges of navigating police work. The conversation flows into anecdotes about their time in the field, including humorous mishaps and the realities of police life, such as dealing with paperwork and public speaking. Throughout, Tucker's humor and authenticity shine through, making for an entertaining and insightful dialogue about the complexities of being a police officer. Tucker recounts a memorable night of arrests, highlighting the unpredictability of police work and the importance of having a supportive partner. The discussion shifts to the emotional toll of the job, particularly in the context of peer support and the impact of traumatic events on officers. Tucker emphasizes the significance of mental health and the need for open conversations about grief and support within the police community. 

As the conversation progresses, Tucker discusses his transition to civilian life and the establishment of his farm, "Tuckered Out Farms," where he aims to create a sustainable lifestyle. He shares insights into the challenges of building a business while managing family life and the importance of hobbies outside of law enforcement. The episode concludes with a heartfelt reflection on the bonds formed in the police force and the ongoing journey of personal growth and healing.

For More information on Tucker'd Out Farms, Follow their Facebook Page where they will announce activities and items up for the season.

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TRIGGER WARNING should be assumed with all episodes. This is real life with real problems. But along with that is real advice on how they got through it. Listen long enough and you may find the thing that gets you over that next hurdle. Feel  free to reach out if you would like to be a guest or share with someone you think should be. We are always looking for new people that have a story to tell. 

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