This conversation delves into the experiences of a law enforcement officers as he navigates the complexities of his roles, including the impact of trauma, the importance of camaraderie, and the evolution of policing. The discussion highlights the significance of self-acceptance, humor as a coping mechanism, and the necessity of debriefing after critical incidents. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, the speakers explore the challenges faced by officers and the resilience required to overcome them. In this conversation, they discusses the emotional and psychological challenges faced by law enforcement officers, particularly in the aftermath of traumatic events. The guest reflects on his experiences, and the significance of mentorship in shaping future officers. The conversation highlights the complexities of emotional processing in policing and the necessity of building a supportive community among officers.

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Happy Holidays everyone. Although we thought about taking this week off, we all know Christmas is an important time to remind those that feel alone, that they are not alone. Therefore, this week it felt extra important to release this episode about a non profit that steps up to help veterans. Bearded Warriors was built because there were cracks seen in resources offered and instead of getting upset over it, they decided to solve it. Because of this determination and grit, Bearded Warriors is quickly becoming a staple resource for veterans. Even outside of the veteran community, they have made real impacts by selling shirts where all proceeds go to a fallen officers family. 

In this episode, Ty goes into how it started, what Bearded Warriors is, and how you can be a part of it. Here is there website where you can find links to several other platforms they are on. And if you are looking to donate this holiday season, please consider them. 

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This episode is a story of a Police Sergeant. He has ben active throughout his career which brings good with the bad. You learn a lot quickly, but you also have to see a lot to learn it. In policing there is a so much bad that you see every single day. Gallows humor bring some light to it in order to carry on to the next call which you will see in here. But, sometimes there are calls or just dealing with the organization that supersede any kind of gallows humor that is available. If you are looking to get into a job that involves Emergency Services, you may want to give this one a listen. It isn't a sugar coated version of being the hero cop, it is the real emotions and thankless day to day you will experience. It is a marathon of trauma, sprinkled in with some sprints of laughter with those you experience it with. This sergeant does a great job of showing his passion for the job while also the content with how it is portrayed. Hand down, best career on earth for those that can do it. But, if you aren't careful, can also cut your life short literally and figuratively. 

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This week Tess and guest explore the complexities of trauma, relationships, and personal struggles. Guest shares her experiences with age-gap relationships, family dynamics, and the impact of substance abuse on her life. They discuss the challenges of mental health, the cycle of violence, and the journey towards recovery. Through humor and candid storytelling, they highlight the importance of understanding and navigating these difficult topics. In this conversation, Guest shares her journey through a tumultuous relationship marked by emotional abuse and trust issues. She discusses the escalation of conflict, the impact of family dynamics, and the struggle to find support while navigating her escape from a toxic environment. Guest reflects on the generational trauma within her family and her determination to rebuild her life, pursue her dreams, and foster healthier relationships. Her story highlights the importance of self-discovery, healing, and the pursuit of happiness amidst adversity. In this conversation, Guest and Tess explore the complexities of happiness, contentment, and the impact of toxic relationships. They discuss the concept of 'Death Grip Syndrome' in men, the 'Manic Pixie Dream Girl' trope, and the cycle of domestic violence. The dialogue is interspersed with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into self-discovery after leaving unhealthy relationships. Guest shares her journey of finding herself and the importance of recognizing and addressing trauma, while Tess provides a supportive and engaging perspective throughout the discussion.

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This episode is dedicated to Billy Clardy- End of Watch December 6, 2019. In 2020 everyone remembers that COVID traumatized a generation, but before that hit in full force, this department was already suffering from an indescribable loss. Billy Clardy was murdered in the line of duty during a takedown. This podcast episode is to further facilitate his name permanently being out in the ether no matter how many years pass. He was a positive impact to everyone he came in contact with and to lose that type of a person is shattering to a community. Therefore, here is to you Billy. Here is to the legacy of trained officers and agents that you left behind. Here is to your family that uphold the loving nature you promoted. And here is to you. A man that can't die because your legacy won't let you. 

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In this episode Tess talks to Tory. Although this is a hard topic to cover because both individuals love and respect the policing career, it is a topic that must be discussed none the less. Tory tells his story of being a new officer and dealing with a senior officer offering a bribe after Tory found a large amount of cocaine. He was ecstatic to have discovered such a great bust, when that happiness was quickly crushed by an officer looking to gain money from it. This event is highly unusual, at least at this department, and it lead to in in-depth stressful situation for the then young cop. Although after it was done he tried to continue to thrive, events that unfolded afterwards pointed him in the direction of leaving the department. That choice was extremely difficult for him, but it appears to have been the more lucrative one. He is now a successful business owner and has used that adversity, to help him thrive in other ways.

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This week we explore the multifaceted world of emergency medical services (EMS), discussing the importance of trust, collaboration, and mental health awareness. The guest shares memorable experiences from her career, highlighting the emotional toll of the job and the significance of compassion in patient care. We also delve into the challenges faced by EMS personnel, the impact of public perception, and the role of peer support in navigating difficult situations. The discussion emphasizes personal growth and the evolving nature of EMS, with a focus on the importance of kindness and understanding in the field. Oh, and we also laugh and crap we shouldn't and talk about dogs!

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This conversation delves into the complexities of alcoholism, recovery, and the impact of trauma, particularly within the military context. Alex shares his personal journey of overcoming addiction, the role of peer support, and the importance of open discussions about mental health. The dialogue emphasizes the need for better resources and understanding, highlighting the significance of shared experiences in healing and recovery. They discuss the disconnect between military personnel and civilian society, the importance of vulnerability in high-stress professions, and the transformative power of seeking help and support. Alex shares his journey of recovery from addiction, his passion for engineering, and his current role at NASA, proving that even when you hit a speed bump, if you do the work you can still accomplish what you had hoped for. 

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In part II of Kevin's interview we continue his story of traumatic events. However, this week we delve into his  experience with the murder of a friend, and coming close to being next. He delves into how he analyzed this mentally, for good or for bad, and what kind of a toll it took on his personal life. Luckily, this did not end how a lot do, and he was able to find the grit and support to continue on. I hope this episode speaks to those that are currently thinking there is no one that can empathize with their mental strife. I hope it teaches listeners to wait, ask for help, and see that people will show up for you. There is also some pretty inappropriate Gallows Humor as always, so you have been warned. Listen on and please respect the stories and those willing to be candid as that is a hard thing to come by sometimes.

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This conversation explores the multifaceted experiences of a law enforcement officer, touching on health scares, military experiences, the impact of trauma, and the importance of humor in coping with difficult situations. The discussion also delves into the challenges of training new officers, the emotional toll of child-related cases, and the significance of support from family and friends during times of grief. It delves into the profound impact of grief and loss, particularly in the context of personal tragedy. Kevin shares his experiences of navigating the complexities of grief, the importance of having a support system, and the struggle to find purpose after losing a loved one. We also touch on the importance of seeking help, the effectiveness of EMDR therapy, and challenges of confronting personal demons. 

This Episode is dedicated to Kevin's first born daughter, Emma. 

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