Hardcore Soft Skills Podcast

This is the final episode of the season two. This season we have featured mini master classes from well-known experts so listen to the previous episodes from Season 1 and Season 2 to learn more.

In this episode we discuss Emotional Intelligence. In my IO Psychology classes this semester we talked a lot about this concept which was by the coined by Peter Salovey and John Meyer, but popularized by Daniel Goleman. It refers to the idea that just as we have cognitive intelligence or IQ, we also have EQ or ability to manage our emotions and those of others.

My guest today wrote a book which addresses EQ and other non-technical skills like self-awareness using a highly technical approach. Gilbert Eijkelenboom wrote the book People Skills for Analytical Thinkers (https://www.mindspeaking.com/book). What I love about this book is that it uses very relatable language for those of us who work in tech and provides very pertinent advice.

Gilbert is a former Data and Analytics Consultant and founder MIndspeaking (mindspeaking.com), a company which helps data scientist and analysts develop soft skills for business . We talked about his career as poker player, his own journey to become more emotionally intelligent and he gives specific steps you can apply as well.

You can view some free training here: https://www.mindspeaking.com/free-course

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In today's episode we will talk again about the skill of Creativity.

(You can listen for the previous episode here: https://www.hardcoresoftskillspodcast.com/creativity-natalie-nixon-phd/)

Noah Askin (https://noahaskin.com/) is an Assistant Professor of Organizational Behavior at INSEAD business school, located in France, where he teaches Organizational Design and Leadership. Noah is interested in social and cultural networks, creativity and innovation. His current research is focused on areas such as music chart and industry dynamics, and what factors contribute to creativity. I met Noah during one of his 15-minute office hours (https://noahaskin.com/office-hours/)

Since the pandemic started, he decided to open the calendar to anyone to chat about anything for 15 minutes.

We will talk about this experience, his research in music and elements for creativity.

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You can see her TEDx Talk here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTS95OchFOE

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We consider creativity as a territory that belongs to the people in music and art, but creativity is a skill we all have and can cultivate.

My guest today helps people build what she calls creative confidence. Natalie Nixon is a creativity strategist with a background in cultural anthropology, fashion, and service design, who now focuses on helping companies innovate.

She is also the author of the book The Creativity Leap: Unleash Curiosity, Innovation and Intuition at Work where she discusses how to apply creativity tools and techniques with real-world stories of innovative people and businesses.

In this episode we talked about specific techniques for creativity, the importance of rigor, and wonder.

You can find more information about Natalie via https://www.figure8thinking.com/about/

Download the Wonder Rigor Tip Sheet via: https://creativityleap.figure8thinking.com/wonder-rigor-tips

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You can see her TEDx Talk here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTS95OchFOE

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Storytelling is not an art reserved for authors. Regardless of your job, you need to start integrating the art of telling stories either if you are selling a product or if you are selling yourself.

In this episode, Amy Blaschka has made a career offering stories as a service. From her degree in film to her three decades spent branding products, places and people, Amy has understood the power of weaving a compelling tale. She is asocial media ghost writer, and also a longtime contributor for Forbes (https://www.forbes.com/sites/amyblaschka/)

We speak about her work, what makes a good story and some techniques to create good stories.

To get in touch with Amy, visit her website: https://www.amyblaschka.com/

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The book Getting Things Done, by David Allen, was published over 20 years ago and today is it as relevant as ever. The book, has which been published in 30 languages, has turned into a whole methodology called GTD and it is now being taught by coaches all over the world.

I spoke with David about the origins of GTD, and he shared specific actions you can take now to enjoy your life.

For more information about GTD go to https://gettingthingsdone.com/

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Conflict is unavoidable at work, no matter if you work in an office or remotely. If you wish you had a step by step guide for addressing conflict, Dr. Paul Marciano just wrote it. Doctor Marciano, also known as the Respect Doctor, just launched his book Let's Talk About It: Turning Confrontation into Collaboration at Work. The book gives concrete steps on dealing with conflict based on situations, personality and even how to deal with it remotely.

Dr. Paul earned his PhD in Clinical Psychology from Yale University and he is also the author of the book Carrots and Sticks Don't Work.

In this episode he shares some of the advice from his book and specific things we can do now to deal with conflicts successfully.

To connect with Dr. Paul, connect via https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulmarciano/

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Forming teams is certainly not an easy task and there is no easy formula to follow. There are many books addressing how to recruit and improve teams with very different approaches. One of the recent books I read on the topic fascinated me because it proposed a different yet successful approach. The book The Talent War (https://thetalentwar.com/) proposes that just as it is done in successful special forces teams, hiring should be based on character, not on skill.

The Talent War was written by two former members of the US military, Mike Sarraille and George Randle. I spoke with George about his own experience serving in the military, the motivation to write this book and he shares critical advice for those who are recruiting and those who want to be recruited.

You can find out more about the book and George's work via https://www.efoverwatch.com/

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Empathy at work can bring great business value and increase our ability to become better leaders. In this episode we speak with Mimi Nicklin is the bestselling author of Softening The Edge, the host of the 'Empathy for Breakfast' show (www.empathyforbreakfast.com) and the 'Secrets of The Gap' podcast. She is an experienced marketer, communications strategist, and an empathy advocate. She spoke from her home in Dubai and we discussed the need for empathy at work and how we can start building up this skill. Let's listen.

You can find out more about Mimi on her website www.miminicklin.com or via Instagram

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Networking is an essential skill which can determine the success in our careers. However, many of us neglect it or do not know the correct way to do it. In this episode, Jordan Harbinger (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/), Wall-Street attorney turned podcaster, shares how networking has driven the success of his career.

To access Jordan's free Networking course, go to https://www.jordanharbinger.com/courses/

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Negotiation is not about winners or losers, playing tough or misleading. It is about seeking a deal where everyone can benefit. In this episode we learn how to become better negotiators from Diana Buttu, a lawyer specializing in negotiations, international law, and international human rights law. Buttu worked as a negotiator on the Israeli-Palestinian negotiations, serving as the only female negotiator during her five-year tenure. She also currently teaches at the Harvard Extension School.

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Connect with Yadi via LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/yadiraycaro/ or email her at [email protected]