The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy, but that may not be what you're experiencing if you're missing someone who's passed away. Our guest on this episode is grief crisis consultant Harold Ivan Smith, who's written many books on grief including, "A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss While Others are Celebrating". In this interview, he shares some great advice for how to enjoy this time of year while also celebrating the memory of our loved ones who have died. His website is http://www.haroldivansmith.com/ Note: This episode was previously aired. Our sponsor, Blissy, sells 100% Mulberry silk pillowcases, sleep masks and other products to help you get a great night's sleep! Silk is what's best for your hair and skin. It reduces frizz, tangles and prevents breakage. You'll love the way your skin looks and the way your hair feels after sleeping on a Blissy pillowcase. Blissy's pillowcases regulate temperature keeping you cool at night. They're hypoallergenic, machine-washable and durable. They're available in many different prints and colors and make great gifts because there's an option for everyone, even kids. With the holidays just around the corner, why not give the gift of better sleep? Blissy products come in gift-ready packaging! Sleep better with Blissy and use code NOBODY to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/NOBODY