Doug shares how to have a happy marriage according to the advice from 20 older men.

Listener questions and comments:

• Vito - I know the secret: Include the Lord in everything in your marriage. (11:07)
• Christie - Seriously you need to pray for your spouse and with your spouse. It’s hard to stay mad when you pray with and for them. Also, have two bathrooms if possible. (12:35)
• Peter - My wife and I were married for 55 years. We went to marriage counseling and talked about things before we got married. We had lots of discussion before and during the marriage. (15:07)
• Erika - 25 years of marriage taught me not to go to bed mad. You say goodnight and you say I love you. (20:08)
• Kimmie - When you fight, always think before you say something because you can't take something back. (22:27)
• Dan - I think that codependency is the key to a happy marriage. (24:37)
• Michelle I have been married for 41 years. I think physical intimacy is important throughout the marriage. (27:52)
• Mary - What do you do as far as a man desiring the marital act when there are factors that make it impossible for us. (38:24)
• Keith - What if both people are Catholic but there is a medical issue and the woman can’t perform? (43:12)

 

Resources:

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

 

Advice from older men

1. Argue to understand, not to win.
2. Be complete people as individuals.
3. Remember that creativity is key.
4. Prioritize each other.
5. Let go of selfishness.
6. Respect your spouse even if it means passing up a good joke.
7. Have each other’s backs.
8. Learn to cook for each other.
9. Reaffirm your commitment.
10. Let them vent.
11. Be faithful.