Have you found the secret to a happy marriage? What advice would you give your children on their wedding day? Today, Doug continues to unpack marriage advice from 20 older men. PLUS: The Friday rant.

 

Listener questions and comments:

• Lorna - What do you do when your spouse is a narcissist? We have been married for 30 years and have adult children. (12:01)
• Paul - Marriage is a chance for sacrifice. (19:46)
• Nancy - My husband worked in construction, and he worked on the side. He made a living and took care of our 14 children. (38:37)
• Deedee - I’m a widow. Is it possible to have a good second marriage compared to your first husband? (44:18)

 

Resources:

 

Marriage Unhindered

https://www.marriageunhindered.com/

 

Rekindled Hearts Marriage Bundle

https://relevantradio.store/collections/books/products/marriage-bundle

 

Happy Marriage for Life

https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

 

Advice from older men

1. Argue to understand, not to win.
2. Be complete people as individuals.
3. Remember that creativity is key.
4. Prioritize each other.
5. Let go of selfishness.
6. Respect your spouse even if it means passing up a good joke.
7. Have each other’s backs.
8. Learn to cook for each other.
9. Reaffirm your commitment.
10. Check in with each other.
11. Let them vent.
12. Stay faithful.
13. Mind your money.
14. Pick your battles.
15. Be generous with signs of affection.
16. Be best friends.
17. Remember that she is important.
18. Retain your individuality.
19. Kiss like you mean it.
20. Marry the right person.
21. Doug’s advice: The man has the last word: ‘Yes, dear.’