Having It A.L.L.

What games are you playing in life? Depending on your context around the word "game" you might answer this question in many ways. My response is MANY, because I believe we're all playing many games in our lives.....and we're all WINNING at the games we're playing! In today's bonus episode I'm sharing with you a not-so-secret (yet still super effective) strategy that top performers in all fields use to win at the games they're playing

Do you have toxic people in your life? How about in your inner circle? Are there folks in your life who are constantly bringing negativity and noise into your world? And what are the things you should be reviewing and thinking about when preparing for marriage?

These are the questions I answer in today's episode of the podcast! The topics today were suggested by YOU and all have to do with OTHERS. Last week I focused on SELF, and today we're focusing on OTHERS (next week is LIFE).

I get fiery in this one, so buckle up for some real talk!

If you want to share an idea with me, reach out on Instagram @matthew_bivens. 

What does it mean to be your authentic self? How do you tackle moving through your biggest fears? What does the phrase "having it all" mean to you personally? Today's episode is a cool one, because I'm answering your questions about authenticity, fear and having it all! Over the next few episodes I'll be addressing questions and topics inspired directly from you, covering the areas of Self, Others and Life. You can learn more about the Blueprint at http://matthewbivens.com/blueprint

Are you familiar with the mind-body connection? It's truly fascinating! Your mind and body are connected, and the former has a huge influence on the health and wellbeing of the latter. In today's episode I talk about the mind-body connection, particularly as it relates to the labels we wear on about ourselves. Chopra Center Article Link: https://chopra.com/articles/mind-body-connection-understanding-the-psycho-emotional-roots-of-disease

When was the last time you were triggered by someone or something, and felt really uncomfortable? I had 2 conversations in the past few days that brought up some discomfort in me. One had to do with my money and the other had to do with my weight. It got me thinking - what has made you feel uncomfortable recently and are you willing to do something about it? Today I'm sharing the scenarios where I was triggered and I'm issuing a challenge if you're bold enough to do something about your discomfort.

What are you doing that's keeping you stuck, playing small, in your denial or fearful? Yes, every "mistake" can be seen as a lesson which can lead to learning and growth, however if you're unaware of things you're doing which are keeping you in denial or feeding your ego, then the ultimate growth or healing you say you're playing for will not arise. In this episode I'm sharing 7 mistakes that I've made and that I've seen others make as they work to heal, grow, and improve themselves.

How do you feel about your partner watching pornography? It's a topic that I wouldn't be surprised comes up in most relationships in some way. I know it certainly has in mine. On today's episode, Sarah joins me to answer a listener email about porn in relationships. This one gets real. It's also important I say that neither Sarah nor I are therapists, counselors or doctors, and that we're speaking on this subject purely from out own experiences. Listen for entertainment purposes only.

How big is your money game? That's the question at the heart of today's episode. You see, there are many beliefs out there around money and personal self worth that impact your financial reality. Money is a topic that can be so complex because of all of the emotions we wrap up in it. So today's episode is sure to create a bit of friction within you! Having It A.L.L. Blueprint Online Course -- www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint

Today's mini episode quotes are all about having personal standards in your life, and they come from Mastin Kipp, Joel Brown and Tony Robbins. Setting and holding personal standards are so important to me in fact, that they make up the final 3 sections of the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint

Today's quotes are all about the power of having a personal mission in your life, and come from Zig Ziglar and Victor Frankl. I'm a HUGE fan of personal mission statements (it's one of my most returned to topics on the podcast), and it's the subject of section 4 of the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint