Colleen Patrick Goudreau lives a life of compassion.

She has compassion for animals, which influenced her to choose a vegan lifestyle (on which she is a leading authority). She has compassion for other people, which influenced the message she spreads to the world. And she has compassion for herself, which, through intentional practice, has allowed her to experience herself fully and manifest her deepest values.

In this episode, Colleen and I have a powerful conversation on the practice of manifestation, self compassion and the truth behind how we make a difference in this world (spoiler: you are ALWAYS making a difference, the question is whether you’re providing value or taking it away).

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• Colleen's website: https://colleenpatrickgoudreau.com/

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Here we are, my friend. The final episode of Having It A.L.L.!

It has been an awesome 8 years, and in today’s episode I’m going to share my thoughts, memories and takeaways with you all. 

Let’s do this!

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STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 

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FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

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What is emotional regulation and what part does it play in having it all? 

In today’s episode I’m diving deep into the world of emotional regulation and emotional intelligence because these two concepts (and their related parts) are critical components of living a self fulfilled life. 

Without a healthy level of emotional intelligence, it’s extremely hard to get from where you are now in your life to where you’d like to be. It’s like trying to navigate an obstacle course with the lights off --- technically possible, but the odds are stacked against you. 

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FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

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Can every relationship be improved? And if so, how would you actually do it??

Today I'm sharing with you an incredibly effective way to improve any relationship in your life, from a marriage to a friendship to your relationship with your boss or neighbor. 

This episode pulls from my own personal life and the relationship experiences that I have created. The conversation today will impact how you engage in your current relationships, and will help you create amazing future relationships. 

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• Coaching with Matthew, apply here > https://forms.gle/WWj3BwcZq59BdaCs8

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Which of life’s circumstances do you feel a victim to?

There was a time in my guest's life when his answer to this question might have been very lengthy. 

In today’s episode I’m bringing you a conversation I had with my friend, Brian Thomas. Brian is an author, husband, father, and a man who is boldly choosing to have it all in his life. 

When Brian was 13 he underwent the first of several kidney transplant operations. The experiences leading up to and after the surgery played a significant role in shaping how Brian viewed himself, his capabilities and his future.

Brian’s story reminds me that it truly is not our circumstances that define us, but how we choose to respond to those circumstances. 

Things Brian talks about in this episode:

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 

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Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

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WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

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What does it really mean to treat your partner like a King or Queen? 

As Sarah and I have grown in our marriage, the concept of treating one another as a King and Queen has grown as well. At first the idea brought up our own issues with self worth, love and relationship roles. But today, we both powerfully fill our roles of King and Queen respectively, and we make it priority to not only treat one another with the utmost love and respect, but to do the same for ourselves as well. 

In today's episode I'm joined by my Queen, Sarah Bivens, and we dig into the topic of "how to treat your partner like a King or Queen". This is a powerful conversation for anyone who has struggled with feeling like they deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, or anyone who feels their current relationship dynamic has room for growth. 

For questions, comments and feedback on this episode, email me directly at [email protected] or DM me on Instagram @matthew_bivens

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Do you believe that balance is possible for you?

So many people seek out balance, yet they fall short again and again.

It’s been my experience as a BALANCE Lifestyle Coach, that the biggest reason why people fail at balance isn’t because of their lack of effort or plan, it’s because of their perspective on balance in the first place. 

In today’s episode I’m debunking common myths around balance, and I’m giving you 3 new perspectives on balance that are going to make it more simple and achievable for you. 

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FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

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WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

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What do you do when your life feels out of control?

Whether it’s a single area of your life, or everywhere all at once, when things feel out of control it can be debilitating. 

I’ve been there and I know the feeling of helplessness and frustration that comes as a result. 

However, you don’t have to stay there! There are simple things that you can do that are entirely effective at putting you back in the driver’s seat of your life. 

In today’s episode I’m sharing with you 2 simple ways to regain control over your life, feel like you have more stability, and to get your sense of autonomy back. 

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FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

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WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

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What morning habits do all great leaders and people who are doing BIG things in life have in common?

(And no, it’s not meditation or cold showers!)

They all start their day off by building proactive momentum. 

Not sure what that means? No worries!

In today’s episode I’m explaining the concept of proactive momentum and I’m helping you break the habits that are driving your stress, frustration and burnout. 

STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 

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FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

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Do you know why affirmations, self help and success books and “positive talk” just don't work for many people?

It has nothing to do with those things being ineffective, and everything to do with the emotional state a person is in when they attempt to connect with those things. 

In today’s episode I’m breaking down exactly how this all works and helping you to unlock the true reason why you keep creating the same outcomes despite desiring new results. 

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 

Download the free "trust account" app from the YourDay Balance Game, and start building trust with YOURSELF today! 

Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg

iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ydbg-watch-play-discover/id1489276659

FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

Get the "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint", my self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life!

https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint

CHECK OUT SOME OFFERS FROM OUR AWESOME PARTNERS

Needed: https://bit.ly/3IKmWzL - use code HIA20 to get 20% off your order or HIA100 for $100 off a Complete Plan

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