Healing With YB

In this episode I remenisce about my relationship and my partner! Since we are getting married in 1 day of the time of this video being released I thought I'd warm up to prepare for our big day! I want to remind myself of the person I am marrying and why. I do believe he is the love of my life and I am super glad we found each other when we did and we've come this far. Thank you for being interested in my relationship with my partner! He plays a really big role in my healing journey and he'll be the person I start my new family with. Here's to forever and ever!♡

ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞIf you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮xoxo,Nina💕

In this episode I share the tools that I use daily to overcome challenges I face as a CSA survivor. 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻'𝘁 𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗹𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗖𝗦𝗔 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗼𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘂𝘀𝗲. They are universal tools that can be helpful for anybody that is willing to try. I share basic self-care remedies to more complex ones that require even courage. I'm not a professional BUT my therapist has confirmed the tools that I have are helpful in overcoming the challenges I face. Tune in to see if you know them all, use them all, or maybe you don't and they help broaden your self-help tools. ᵕ̈ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞIf you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮xoxo,Nina💕

In this episode I share with you all of the dos and don'ts that I PERSONALLY find helpful or not when others are reaching out to support me. As we honor SA Awareness Month (SAAM), it is important to educate ourselves in the ways that we can support survivors. The things shared aren't clinical or professional resources/advice but my own personal experiences, feelings, and beliefs based off of being a CSA victim myself. I've navigated and journeyed with my trauma for over a decade now so I'd say I have a pretty good insight on what's helpful and what's triggering. I hope you tune in to find out how to not just be a good friend, but a great one.♡

ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞIf you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy

✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨

As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮

xoxo,

Nina💕

In this episode I share my thoughts about how having a productive and safe space growing up would be super helpful if things like SA happens. I share how I feel about my parents in this area and how I approached coming out to them was because I wanted to live, but not because they created a safe space for me. The point I am trying to relay here is to prepare or check yourself as a parent and create a safe space so god forbid if this ever happens to your child that they are comfortable and feeling you are a safe space for them to go to. We can't keep our eye on them 24/7 and we can't prevent everything harmful from happening, but we can be here for them sooner than later or it's too late even if things like this does happen. I hope this brings awareness. As a CSA survivor myself, I believe if my parents created a productive and safe space for me, a lot of this could've been prevented and I could've started my healing way sooner.

ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞ

If you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy

✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨

As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮

xoxo,

Nina💕

In this episode I update you on my psychotherapy experiences for the past 16 sessions I've had it. I take you in into what I thought it was going to be like but how it's actually different from what I thought as well. Tune in to find out the details boss!

ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞ

If you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy

✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨

As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮

xoxo,

Nina💕

In this episode I share my experiences with domestic violence: personal signs I saw from my previous partners, seeing it happen with my peers growing up, continuing to see it happen to the people around me, and my POV from watching it happen to my deceased sister and how I dealt with it from the outside. I hope my experiences, words of encouragement and wisdom shines a light on your situation if you are experiencing such relationship first hand or second hand. I understand how difficult it can be to be in this type of situation therefore I just wish to put my voice out there and let you know I am here for you as well.ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞIf you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮xoxo,Nina💕

In this episode I go over some Q&A about Thailand as 02.26.25 marks the 2nd year anniversary of my return home to the US from there. I share about what I miss, what I don't miss, and if I would return why or why not. Join me as we reminisce the good and bad times about our journey in Thailand.

ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞ

If you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy

✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨

As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮

xoxo,

Nina💕

In this episode I share about my experiences with finally starting psychotherapy. I share about the challenges I faced to get to this moment (medical insurance, limited resources, added stress etc.). I take you into some of the topics that were discussed between me and my therapist such as education and a little about my CSA trauma.

Ever since discovering about myself being an assaulted as a child, I've always navigated through the challenges of recovering and healing by myself. I never had a professional help me directly, therefore, this is a very big moment in my CSA journey to finally be able to access this kind of resource. Join me as I take you along this journey of mine and maybe it can help you heal areas you didn't know needed healing as well.

ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞ

If you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮xoxo,Nina💕

✨Show up for people. If not for the deceased, even for the ones that loss the deceased means the world.✨

In this episode I share about the results of the condition my grandma was in after surgery. I share about the first moment I experienced what grief was really like and how sad and painful it was. Lastly I share about where all my anger stemmed from on that 2nd day at the hospital.

ʚ You can find more about me at 𝘄𝘄𝘄.𝗬𝗲𝗿𝗯𝗼𝘀𝘀𝘆.𝗰𝗼𝗺 ɞ

If you’d like to 🅢🅤🅟🅔🅡 support me here is an option to do so : ♡☕️ https://buymeacoffee.com/yer.bossy

✨THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE BOSS!✨

As always, stay being the bad boss that you are! ̤̮

xoxo,

nina💕

✨Prepare for making life or death decisions for yourself and your loved ones.✨

Being in a vulnerable state and making life or death decisions for someone else was not what I had planned. It's a responsibility I wish no one has to deal with during their most vulnerable state.