As I celebrate the anniversary of me becoming a wife to my partner, I share with you the generalized tools I use in my everyday relationships with my partner, friends, and family. These are great tools that I've gathered over the years and practice- to maintain and build healthy relationships in my life. I hope that you either get a refresher or find some great tools for you that maybe you never knew before and from here you expand your strength in being a better person. â¡Ì
Tools spoken in video (watch to receive in depth explanations)-
1. ðð²ð¶ð»ðŽ ð® ððð¹ð¹ ðŒð¿ ðªðµðŒð¹ð² ðœð²ð¿ððŒð» so there isn't constant problems rising.
2. ðð°ð°ð²ðœðð¶ð»ðŽ ðœð²ðŒðœð¹ð² ð³ðŒð¿ ððµð²ð¶ð¿ ðºð¶ð»ð¶ðºð®ð¹ ð³ð¹ð®ðð ðŒð¿ ððµð®ð ððµð²ð'ð¿ð² ðºð¶ððð¶ð»ðŽ.
3. ðð² ð® "ð»ðŒ" ð³ð¿ð¶ð²ð»ð± ð®ð»ð± ððð¿ð¿ðŒðð»ð± ððŒðð¿ðð²ð¹ð³ ðð¶ððµ "ð»ðŒ" ð³ð¿ð¶ð²ð»ð±ð (don't be a "yes" person all the time).
4. ððŒðºðºðð»ð¶ð°ð®ðð² ððŒ ð»ðŒ ð¿ð²ðð²ð»ððºð²ð»ð ð¶ð ð¯ðð¶ð¹ð. You can always speak from how you FEEL so that it doesn't blame others. No one can tell you what you do or don't feel.
5. ðð®ðð¶ð»ðŽ ð® ð¯ð®ð¹ð®ð»ð°ð²ð± ð¿ð²ð¹ð®ðð¶ðŒð»ððµð¶ðœ- 1. Being present to occasions or special events (meals, funerals, parties, showers etc.) 2. Listening as much as you talk and talk as much as you listen. 3. Spending money as evenly as possible or understanding each other's spending style and compromising.
6. ðð²ð¶ð»ðŽ ð®ðð®ð¿ð² ðŒð³ ððµð²ð» ððŒ ð¹ð¶ððð²ð», ðŽð¶ðð² ð®ð±ðð¶ð°ð², ðŒð¿ ðµððŽ ððŒðºð²ðŒð»ð² ððµð²ð» ððµð²ð ð°ðŒðºð² ððŒ ððŒð ð³ðŒð¿ ð°ðŒðºð³ðŒð¿ð.
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