Introducing 3 generations of Danny van Leeuwen's. Inclusive, blood, intentional family lore. Spiritual health can come from family. From the Holocaust to today.
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Episode Notes
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Proem.. 2
Catching up 02:29. 2
We’re all three well partnered 03:22. 2
Forgetfulness runs in the family 04:27. 3
The meaning of our name 05:07. 3
Music in our lives 07:08. 4
Uncle Danny’s feeling it 09:22. 4
The team: care coordination and family 10:21. 5
Sleep 13:04. 5
The life of Danny III 14:06. 6
Joey van Leeuwen 15:16. 6
Visiting Morocco 18:06. 7
Danny III’s health 20:32. 8
Travel and language 22:47. 8
More about Morocco 23:34. 9
Uncle Danny, tell us a story 24:30. 9
Opa returning from the concentration camp 26:00. 10
Israel and the Kibbutz 27:28. 10
Screwed up paperwork 29:26. 11
First meeting my Uncle Danny 30:48. 11
My dad, Ruben van Leeuwen 31:47. 12
Uncle Danny’s first wedding 32:34. 12
Danny III’s calming voice 33:24. 12
Uncle Danny’s 90th Party 34:40. 13
Concentration camp, faith, draft counseling 35:13. 13
We’re van Leeuwen’s 39:40. 14
Uncle Danny in Jerusalem 42:19. 15
Reflection 45:03. 15
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Credits
Music by permission from Joey van Leeuwen, Drummer, Composer, Arranger
Web and Social Media Coach Kayla Nelson @lifeoflesion
The views and opinions presented in this podcast and publication are solely the responsibility of the author, Danny van Leeuwen, and do not necessarily represent the views of the Patient-Centered Outcomes Research Institute® (PCORI®), its Board of Governors or Methodology Committee.
Sponsored by Abridge
Inspired by and grateful to Henri B, Evaline, Nathan, Kato, Leon, Ruben, Daniel, Lea van Leeuwen
Links
Crescendo Baby Music on a Facebook page
Danny III on SoundCloud,
Fireship first recorded by (the Weavers)
Peter Paul and Moses playing Ring Around the Roses.
September Song.
City of Chefchaouen
Rabat
kibbutz
Unilever
Kathy’s Consulting
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About the Show
Welcome to Health Hats, learning on the journey toward best health. I am Danny van Leeuwen, a two-legged, old, cisgender, white man with privilege, living in a food oasis, who can afford many hats and knows a little about a lot of healthcare and a lot about very little. Most people wear hats one at a time, but I wear them all at once. I'm the Rosetta Stone of Healthcare. We will listen and learn about what it takes to adjust to life's realities in the awesome circus of healthcare. Let's make some sense of all this.
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The Show
Proem
I talked about the magic levers of best health in my first blog posts in 2012 – ten years and 535 posts and episodes ago—pretty mundane stuff – hydration, rest, diet, exercise, and team. The most important team – you and yours, family, however you define that. I am a van Leeuwen. That’s my blood and relations family. We are a kooky, solid, kid-oriented, widely dispersed, mostly get along sometimes, clan. I’m proud to be a van Leeuwen. I take the opportunity to introduce some of my family – the three Dans. My Uncle Danny just turned 90. The youngest of six, the patriarch, lives in Utica, NY, with his wife, Beth. He’s had four heart bypasses, and until a few years ago, he played basketball every week and, recently, pickleball. Covid set him back. Strength of spirit is a van Leeuwen trait. I, Cousin Danny, almost 70, live in Arlington, MA, with my wife, Ann. You know me already. My cousin David’s son, Danny III, 26, lives in Morocco with his partner, Leslie, and teaches music. Three generations of Dans.
Danny Health Hats: All right. So here we are. The three Dans, Danny. We’ve got an old fart, a middle fart, and a young fart.
Danny III: Yes, and a cat.
Danny Health Hats: Uncle Danny, how are you feeling?
Uncle Danny: Slowly getting there. I regressed. I got better. I was playing pickleball, then regressed, and I can't go very far. I could do it like a six-minute walk, and I get out of breath.
Danny Health Hats: Okay. And you have the bleeding?
Uncle Danny: Oh, my nose bleeds. I don't know. I got all kinds of; I can go from head to toe and something wrong with almost every part of my body. Ugh.
Danny Health Hats: Are you thoroughly discouraged?
Uncle Danny: Sometimes I am, yeah. But no, then something gets better.
We’re all three well partnered
Danny Health Hats: And you're still married.
Uncle Danny: I'm still married, and I don't know what I would do without my wife.
Danny Health Hats: I understand that. And Dan, you're still with your partner?
Danny III: Yeah. She's over there in the other room. I promise she's real
Danny Health Hats: How long have you been together?
Danny III: Since May of 2020.
Danny Health Hats: Wow. Close to two years. Uncle Danny, how long have you been together?
Uncle Danny: 34 years
Danny Health Hats: I’ve got you guys beat – 46 years. That's ridiculous, isn't it?
Uncle Danny: You only had to do it once.
Danny Health Hats: I lucked out on the first round.
Uncle Danny: I lucked out twice.
Forgetfulness runs in the family
Danny Health Hats: I want to recognize that we spoke a couple of weeks ago, and I forgot to record the chat. Nobody was surprised.
Uncle Danny: There’s a lot of stories about your grandfather forgetting.
Danny Health Hats: Yeah. So, tell one.
Uncle Danny: I understand that he had an audience with the queen (of Netherlands), and his zipper was open.
The meaning of our name
Danny Health Hats: We decided last time that Daniel meant The Judge, something like that.
Danny III: God's Judge
Uncle Danny: Dan is judge, and el is God.
Danny Health Hats: Is that judging God or judged by God?
Uncle Danny: Not a judge of God. Not meaning that you're judging God, but you're one of God's judges.
Danny III: I didn’t know that.
Some say Daniel means God is my judge, others God’s judge. Daniel was a Hebrew prophet whose story is told in the Book of Daniel in the Old Testament. He lived during the Jewish captivity in Babylon, where he served in the king's court, rising to prominence by interpreting the king's dreams. Our Uncle Leon van Leeuwen was an interpreter of dreams. He hosted a dream group in Manhattan for more than 30 years. People would tell their dream, and they’d go around the room, if this were my dream, it would mean…
Danny Health Hats: What did we decide van Leeuwen meant? We decided it meant the lion or something mundane.
Danny III: Tombstone.
Uncle Danny: Yeah. Tombstone. That's what I remember.
Danny Health Hats: We decided to go for the lion Daniel of the Lion. It's more poetic.
Music in our lives
Danny Health Hats: What can I tell you guys about? I've been playing a lot of music. I had a rehearsal last night. We haven't played in four months because of the weather, and some people didn't want to play indoors, but we got together a couple of nights ago. My bandmates thought it showed I'd been rehearsing and that I was much better. I couldn't tell, but they could, so that was nice.
Danny III: That's all that matters.
Danny Health Hats: How about you, Cousin Danny? How's your music going?
Danny III: I've been practicing a lot, too. I've been practicing flamenco techniques and some electric guitar stuff for my students. I have to learn a lot of new songs because the kids want to learn things I've never played before. All I learned how to do was entertain myself with the guitar, which only goes so far. So, I've enjoyed that. I don't play a lot of Moroccan music. I'm familiar with some of one of the basic rhythms, but that's about it. We do a couple of songs in Moroccan Arabic, but they're not very Moroccan in how they're made up musically.
Danny Health Hats: And who's we?
Danny III: We is my organization group thing that I'm a part of - Crescendo. I think it's Crescendo Baby Music. They go to different schools and hold classes and stuff for babies, sometimes with their parents or other family members. Teach kids basic elements of music and rhythm and expose them to stuff like that.
Danny Health Hats: Is any of your music on YouTube or anything like that?
Danny III: I have some old songs on SoundCloud, and maybe there's some stuff on YouTube. And with me with the work that I do. I know we have a YouTube. We have a Facebook page and probably some of the base Facebook videos. And we're going to have a concert next weekend. So, I'll probably be in that video for that.
Uncle Danny’s feeling it
Danny Health Hats: Uncle Danny, what do you want to tell whoever might be watching or listening to this?
Uncle Danny: I miss them all....