Help! I think I love multiple people at once...This episode dives deep into non-monogamy, and for the first time ever, I reveal my own personal curiosities about polyamory since coming out as a lesbian! If you're curious, don't be afraid. Fear only divides. After all, love multiplies.
Jessica Levity is calls herself a polyamorous mama, demisexual slut, and bisexual phenomenon. She is excited about expanding the cultural narrative on healthy relationships and polyamory over at @RemodeledLove on Instagram, where she has a community of humans committed to growing together, exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics, developing healthy communication skills, and surviving parenting while living their best ethically slutty lives.
This episode covers topics like:
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🧠What is demisexuality
💃🏻What is polyamory and how is it different than swinging?
☠️Why do we fall for emotionally unavailable humans?
🏠Navigating polyamory as a parent
💭What are our personal polyamory fantasies?
I learned so much about myself while recording this episode. Ultimately, I know I crave a deep, longterm relationship with a woman. I don’t have sexual desire for men. Bi-romantic? Maybe. But I as of now, I am sexually a lesbian.
Am I open to a closed polyamorous relationship? Maybe with the right couple. My ideal lady? The kind of older woman (40-57 ideally) who comes with a husband. You know, the kind of woman who looks "taken care of," botoxed, fit, fabulous, and even more feminine than me. She wears knock me down and fuck me shoes at night and sneakers during the day. I’d want her to be a prolific squirter, emotional cuddler, great kisser, and want to fuck for hours. HOURS. I dream of innocently laying in bed and watching the little mermaid while she scratches my back. I'd hope for us both to feel emotionally full and sexually never satisfied…always wanting more.
As far as the man… I don’t have to touch him, he can worship me from afar, and if she enjoys being with him, then I can watch her with him. Most importantly, he likes to watch me please his lady better than he ever could. Ideally this fantasy man enjoys spiritual conversations, loves a cuddle puddle, lives to serve us, take care of us…yet encourages us in our dreams and financial independence. He is just there to pay for the ridiculous things like more Chanel bags, open doors, and repair broken beds…because well, the sex is JUST too good that sometimes, we bust the headboard away from the frame.
And of course, I’d appreciate a strong emotional bond with both humans. While I can’t ever imagine myself being a one-night stand unicorn, I would be open to being a forever third. With that being said, I don’t need a triad…I want a wife…but if she comes with a husband, okay, Daddy, you can play too. So that’s the dream…But we can’t have it all right?! Okay but low-key, if that’s you, slide in the dms.
What questions has this episode helped you answer for yourself?
Learn more about Jessica Levity:
Get in touch: RemodeledLove.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/remodeledlove
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdtQA8f4/
Remodeled Love Podcast: www.anchor.fm/remodeled
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/remodeledlove/
Download her book: https://remodeledlove.samcart.com/products/polyamory-parenthood-book/
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