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By Lori Apon
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Children’s Grief Awareness Day is a time to turn our hearts to children impacted by the pain of grief and loss in their childhood. Lori Apon speaks with Halli Gravely, a student at Liberty University, who shares her journey of grief, God's faithfulness, and finding healing after losing her father.
This episode offers hope to moms raising fatherless daughters and anyone dealing with loss.
Episode Highlights:
Halli's Loss and Discovery: Halli lost her father at age 7. At 12, she learned the cause of his death, which brought a new layer of grief.
Anger and Forgiveness: Halli talks about struggling with anger toward her father and finding healing through God's grace.
God as Father: Halli explains how her mother, church, and mentors helped her see God as her true Father.
Role of Community: Halli emphasizes the importance of a biblically sound church in her healing journey.
Healing and Encouragement: Halli shares how God brought physical and emotional healing and encourages girls to run to God.
Key Bible Verses:
Psalm 51:5
Psalm 68:5
Matthew 5:4
Upcoming Event: Christmas Hope
Other Resources:
Remembering God’s Faithfulness with Your Children Podcast Episode 35 with Lori Apon
Help for the Holidays Podcast Episode 85 with guests Lisa Appelo, Tara Dickson, and Clarissa
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
Christmas can be a wonderful time, providing opportunities for single and widowed moms to evaluate their family traditions. In this episode, how to balance the secular and sacred aspects of Christmas is discussed.
Lori shares her personal convictions and experiences, encouraging listeners to thoughtfully consider how they might shape their own holiday traditions in light of faith and family values.
Key Points Covered:
Who is Santa Claus?
Choosing a Christ-Centered Focus
Alternative Ways to Celebrate
Navigating Your Personal Traditions
Upcoming Event: Christmas Hope
Other Resources:
Help for the Holidays Podcast Episode 85 with guests Lisa Appelo, Tara Dickson, and Clarissa Moll
Advent Countdown to the Coming of Christ Part One Podcast Episode 37 with Lori Apon
Advent Countdown to the Coming of Christ Part Two Podcast Episode 38 with Lori Apon
Jotham’s Journey: A Storybook for Advent
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
On November 10, many will celebrate “Pure Religion Sunday.” This day is dedicated to living out the biblical call found in James 1:27 to visit the fatherless and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained from the world. Lori reminds us that “pure religion” invites everyone to participate in the practical expression of God’s love.
In this episode, Lori dives into 1 Timothy Chapter 5, a passage she encountered shortly after becoming a widow at 38. Initially, Lori misunderstood parts of the scripture, seeing them as a checklist she needed to meet to receive care. However, she discovered that these were actually qualifications for widows in leadership roles in the early church, not a requirement for receiving care.
Lori breaks down each qualification, shedding light on how these apply today, discussing:
God’s heart toward the widow and fatherless
The specific list of qualifications for a widow enlisted in leadership vs. those who need care
If you are a widow listening today, remember that you are deeply loved by God. Whether you need care or feel called to serve others, know that you have a special place in God's plan. The church is called to stand with you in every season.
Connect With Us:
For more insights on today’s topic, check out our blogs and podcasts at Perspective Ministries.
Join our Hope Gatherings for fellowship, support, and encouragement.
Upcoming Special Events:
Christmas Hope Saturday, December 7, 2024
Other Resources:
Understanding the List of Qualifications for a Widow Leader
The End of Anxiety Podcast Episode 136 with Josh Weidmann
Gospel Daily with Josh Weidmann
Practice Hospitality
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
Anxiety among adolescents is prevalent today. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, approximately 38% of girls and 26% of boys aged 13 to 17 experience some form of anxiety disorder.
Our guest today, Pastor Josh Weidmann, author of the book The End of Anxiety, focuses on how anxiety can lead us to greater trust in God and ultimately glorify Him, which is the end purpose of our struggle with anxiety. While we may not eliminate anxiety, we can learn to manage it effectively.
While anxiety may be a lifelong struggle for some, it can also be a tool for spiritual growth and deeper intimacy with God. By addressing anxiety with biblical principles, individuals can find peace and purpose in their struggles.
In this episode, guest Pastor Josh Weidmann discussed:
His personal journey with anxiety
The purpose of anxiety
Practical steps towards healing and hope
Other resources:
The End of Anxiety: The Biblical Prescription for Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Panic by Josh Weidmann
Honest to God: Becoming Brutally Honest with a Gracious God by Josh Weidmann
Special Event:
Christmas Hope
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our private Facebook group for more encouragement and community: https://bit.ly/widowmom
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
In this enlightening session from our recent Mom and Man event, Daniel Clubb from Advance Camp delivers a powerful message about the spiritual influence of mothers. He reflects on the character of Timothy, a young man shaped by the faith and love of his mother and grandmother, as highlighted in Paul’s letters to Timothy in the Bible.
Key Takeaways:
Five ways moms can influence their sons
Instill a tender heart and lead by example
Pass on faith and pray regularly
Build self-confidence
Teach selfless love
Offer strength of discipline and stay consistent
Upcoming Events:
Christmas Hope Event: Don't miss out! This event for single and widow moms and their children includes brunch, music, and ice skating. Check the show notes for ticket details.
Next Week's Episode: Join us for a discussion with Pastor Josh Weidmann on anxiety—an important topic that promises rich insights.
Other resources:
The Physical Changes of a boy to a man Podcast Episode 133 with Chris and Diane Tuttle
Understanding emotional changes in fatherless young men Podcast Episode 134 with Evan Apon.
As a single or widow mom, your understanding of the emotional changes your son will experience is crucial. Recognizing these shifts is the first step in guiding him through his development. Encouraging open communication, recognizing his individuality, and teaching biblical leadership principles can significantly impact his growth and resilience.
In this episode, the emotional landscape of fatherless young men is discussed, along with practical tips on how moms can help:
Other resources:
Building Strong Men: Respect, Trust, and Leadership in Fatherless Boys by Evan Apon
Upcoming Special Events:
Christmas Hope Saturday, December 7, 2024
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our private Facebook group for more encouragement and community: https://bit.ly/widowmom
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
When a boy transitions into a man, a variety of changes occur. It is important to celebrate these while fostering an environment of open communication. For single and widow moms, understanding these physical changes and how to help is important.
In this episode, Chris and Diane Tuttle share heartfelt insights at the Mom and Man event from their experiences as parents, encouraging moms to embrace the journey of raising boys into confident young men during this transformative period.
Physical changes and the importance of mom’s acknowledgment of these, along with practical advice.
The impact of testosterone on attitude and behavior
Navigating relationships and the importance of the parental role.
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our private Facebook group for more encouragement and community: https://bit.ly/widowmom
Key Topics Discussed
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Losing a father at a young age is a life-altering event beyond our control, but how we respond to that loss is within our power—and it's this response that ultimately shapes the course of our lives. Our guest today, Millie White, became fatherless at the age of ten. She determined to take “the high road” rather than wallow in self-pity. She came to faith in Christ at the age of 15 when she realized that God would never leave or forsake those who put their trust in Him. Through her experience with suffering, she has learned to count her blessings.
In this episode, Millie talks about
The ebb and flow of grief
Handling the expectations of others in response to our grief
The power of perspective and guarding our thoughts
Practical tips for fatherless girls
If you have a story to share of God’s presence in life in the absence of an earthly dad click here to submit: Absent Dad - Present Father
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our private Facebook group for more encouragement and community: https://bit.ly/widowmom
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
When we think of fall, many things come to mind: the colorful leaves, the cooler temperatures, fire pits, comfort foods, hay rides, the pumpkin patch and apple farms, and Halloween. For single and widow moms, the change of seasons brings new challenges and opportunities for growth. We can find beauty and restoration in letting go while watching God make all things new.
In the episode, Lori discusses:
Practical ideas for making memories with your children this fall
Considerations about Halloween, including what the Bible says about witchcraft and talking to our deceased loved ones
The role of the Holy Spirit in our lives
Other Resources
Hope for the Holidays
5 Considerations for the Single Mom this Fall by Lori Apon
6 Tips for Single Moms Leading the Home by Lori Apon
The Pumpkin Patch Parable by Liz Curtis Higgs
Articles by Got Questions:
Did the Witch of Endor Really Summon Samuel from the Dead
What is a Seance
What are Magic Arts in Revelation 21:8
What does the Bible say about ghosts/hauntings?
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our private Facebook group for more encouragement and community: https://bit.ly/widowmom
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
Coping with the loss of a loved one to suicide is incredibly difficult. Many feel pressured to keep this cause of death a secret, finding it hard and even shameful to discuss.
When a parent dies by suicide, children face not only the pain of losing a loved one but also the deep feelings of abandonment and the sorrow that comes from knowing their parent chose to leave. Processing grief from suicide can be especially challenging for children, so it's crucial to help them—and yourself—navigate these complex emotions with care and understanding.
In the episode, Lori carefully talks about the following:
How to tell others that suicide is the cause of death
The importance of telling your children the truth of suicide while building a solid foundation based on biblical truth.
How to overcome the shame associated with suicide
The choice you and your children are faced with on the other side of your loved one’s choice of suicide
Scripture of encouragement when struggling with shame
Other Resources
Suicide is not the Unpardonable Sin by Lori Apon
God Speaks to Our Regret by Lori Apon
Choose Life
Mom and Man event for single and widowed moms and their fatherless sons
Mom, you are not alone!
Join our private Facebook group for more encouragement and community: https://bit.ly/widowmom
For more information and helpful resources, check our website: PerspectiveMinistries.org & follow us on Instagram @PerspectiveMinistries.
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