How do you make space for both your career and your romantic relationships? It’s not about choosing one or the other. It’s about learning how to juggle both in a way that actually works for you.

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Your dating wishlist might be the reason why you're still single. We’re exposing the mindsets that are actually keeping love out. Let’s talk non-negotiables, unrealistic standards, and the quiet ways you're self-sabotaging. 

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Ever notice how your energy changes around someone you like? In this episode, we’re breaking down how to take control of that energy, shift your mindset, and attract the right people by fully owning your worth—even when things don’t go as planned.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating

00:03 - Challenges of Dating

02:18 - Strategies for Meeting Compatible Partners

07:32 - Making a Great First Impression

08:17 - Overcoming Nervousness in Social Situations

11:49 - Self-Concept and Confidence

14:24 - Navigating Relationships and Timelines

21:15 - Dealing with Rejection and Emotional Resilience

26:56 - Conclusion and Call to Action

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In a world dominated by hookup culture, celibacy can be a powerful choice that strengthens your sense of self-worth and helps you set clear boundaries. This episode explores how waiting for the right person can transform your dating life and lead to more meaningful connections.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating

01:01 - The Role of Sex in Dating

04:24 - Perspectives on Celibacy and Sexual Needs

09:20 - Risks and Realities of Casual Sex

19:00 - Cultural Commentary on Sexualization

24:36 - Critique of OnlyFans and Modern Sexual Norms

37:55 - Conclusion and Call to Action

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We say we want one thing but chase the opposite. In this episode of High Value Dating, Nelly breaks down why attraction doesn’t always follow logic—and how to actually get what and who you want.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating

00:03 - Frustrations in Dating

00:59 - Understanding Attraction

02:22 - Cultural Norms and Personal Reflection

08:43 - The Challenge of Desirability

10:27 - The Importance of Self-Improvement

17:56 - Navigating Relationships and Expectations

36:57 - Conclusion and Call to Action

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Are you setting yourself up for disappointment with unrealistically high expectations? In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle rejection, shift your perspective, and turn setbacks into redirection. Listen up as we break down the mindset shifts that help you let go, move forward, and start choosing you!

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating

01:00 - The Challenge of Dating

09:26 - Understanding Rejection

10:51 - Shifting Mindsets

20:21 - Self-Love and Value

24:48 - Conclusion and Encouragement

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Is it too good to be true? You might be getting love bombed! It can feel nice at first, but it’s important to tread lightly. While it’s not always a red flag, in this episode, we’ll walk you through the signs and what to watch out for!

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction to Love Bombing

01:24 - Understanding Love Bombing

08:29 - Caution with Love Bombing

09:10 - Identifying Love Bombing

14:28 - Navigating Relationships

20:07 - Self-Worth and Independence

25:41 - Conclusion and Call to Action

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Today we’re breaking down the secret to getting what you want—whether it’s in relationships, career, or life without coming off as too eager. Learn how to shift your mindset, embody confidence, and let things flow naturally in your favor. Sometimes, less really is more.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating

01:06 - The Concept of Wanting Nothing

06:18 - Personal Experiences and Stories

12:38 - Balancing Wanting and Not Wanting

14:07 - Gratitude and Abundance Mindset

23:25 - The Importance of a Full Life

33:00 - Conclusion and Call to Action

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Nelly gets real about her own experiences with moving to a new place and the change that comes with it. If you’re feeling stuck or scared to take the next step, this conversation will remind you that discomfort isn’t the end—it’s where real transformation begins!

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction to the Podcast

01:01 - Embracing Change

05:19 - Appreciating the Present

06:57 - Navigating Transitions

08:30 - Dating and Discomfort

11:22 - Taking Action in Dating

14:51 - Manifesting Your Desires

25:53 - Conclusion and Encouragement

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Are you still not stepping into your dream life? It might be because of THIS one reason....tune in.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - Introduction 

01:03 - Understanding the Concept of Acting "As If"

02:09 - Real-Life Examples of Acting "As If"

03:21 - Shifting Your Mindset in Dating

06:03 - Establishing New Habits

20:14 - Overcoming Challenges and Rejection

29:31 - Conclusion and Call to Action

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