Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by sharing their personal stories about gaining acceptance from their parents. The handsome bunch broaches the sensitive topic of coming out to one’s family by highlighting the conflicting feelings of needing to accept one’s self, but also needing the acceptance and support from one’s family. The men of HIM also discuss the disappearance of black queer spaces and the effects that it has on the black gay community. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Oh La La” by Tinashe, “In The Grey” by Bridget Kelly, “Pray You Catch Me” by Beyoncé, and “New Light” by John Mayer. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 026 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode with answering the question: what do you need to let go of to move into your next phase of life? The handsome bunch blasts Kanye West for his “free thinking”, and the group tackles the sensitive subject of colorism within the Black community. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Freak” by Victoria Monet, “I Need This” by Jessie J, “Call Me Baby” by EXO, and “Bloom” by Troye Sivan. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 025 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode with answering the question, if you can’t forget can you really forgive? The guys also discuss the fraught relationship between the black and white LGBTQIA communities, highlighting how the white LGBTQIA communities appropriates African American culture as well as Black gay culture. The men of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show.  Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 024 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s show by dishing on how they handle responding to romantic advances on various social media platforms and dating apps. In observance of Sexual Harassment Awareness Month the group discusses the sensitive topic of sexual harassment. The men of HIM answer a question from a listener and leave you with their jams of the week. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. #EndSexualViolence Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng  Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 023 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you for another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Trey, and Erin start the show by weighing in on The Scam of the Century, aka Tyrone Hankerson, Jr. The handsome bunch offers you their remedies for getting over a bad break up. Also, the men of HIM tackle the sensitive topic of dating with anxiety. The group answers a listener's question and leave you with their jams of the week. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 021  Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker  Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_  Erin: @lifethruglasses

Your favorite butch queens of NYC are back at you with another week of hot topics. Stevie, Malik, Trey, and Erin kick off this week's show pondering the question, does life owe you a happy ending? The men of HIM also confront the topic of open relationship versus monogamy by detailing some of the pros and cons associated with both, all while offering their perspective on their experiences with each. The group answers a listener's question from a queer man of color who wants to date within the black community but feels as though black guys aren’t "into" him. The men of HIM also leave you with their jams of the week. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, and IHEARTRADIO make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 021 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

WELCOME TO THE HOUSE OF HIM. Stevie, Malik, Trey, and Erin pay homage to the ballroom community by throwing a faux kiki ball in the studio. The guys offer their opinions on “Mr. Rice and Cabbage”, in which Stevie apologizes for his mean girl ways. The men of HIM take on the topic of sex work and the stigma that surrounds such jobs as it pertains to trans men and women of color as well as gay and bisexual men of color. The group responses to a listener questions, and the guys also give you their songs of the week. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng  Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 020 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

Stevie, Malik, Trey, and Erin are back in your ear with another week of titillating conversation. The handsome Men of Him kick off the episode by clapping back on Donald Trump and his ridiculous ban on trans people joining the military. Trey leads the crusade as he reads Donald Trump his rights, and Erin lends his positive experiences in the US Navy working and interacting with trans people. On a much lighter note, the guys highlight black excellence starting with Lena Waithe, Emmy winning actress and screenwriter, who will be the first queer woman of color to grace the cover of Vanity Fair. The group also shouts out Byron Allen, a comedian, who just recently purchased the Weather Channel network for a whopping $300 million. Next the guys dissect the topic of how sexuality and spirituality intersect, each offering their perspective on if and why they pray. The group details their experiences with maintaining a balance between practicing their sexuality and spiritually and how conflicting balancing the two can be. HIM responds to a listener's question from 30 year old virgin asking for help with navigating dating and having sex for the first time.    Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show.   Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng   Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 019   Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

Stevie, Malik, Erin, & Trey have reliably returned with another episode of HIM! This week, they are kicking it off by talking about all the hate and shade thrown at DeRay McKesson and/or his infamous blue vest. Now, we've all heard “No Fats, No Fems” at one point or another, so the boys begin a dialogue on preferences within the gay community and if they help or hinder, and then answer a listener's question!  Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 018 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

Stevie, Malik, Erin, & Trey are giving their opinions on NFL prospect Derrius Guice who was recently asked if he was gay at this years NFL Combine. Malik asks Trey, Stevie, and Erin if the state that you live in is directly correlates to how attractive a person. Also, the men have a very open dialogue about whether or not there is a privilege that is associated with being attractive.  Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 017 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses