By Jim Burns
Helping families succeed is what this podcast is all about. Jim Burns interviews some of the world’s leading experts on Strong Marriages - Confident Parenting – Empowered Kids
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What is your “Reflex Reaction”? When unexpected circumstances arise (as they so often do), do you react with joy and thankfulness or do you respond with irritation, grumbling, and complaining? Throughout the Bible we are instructed, and commanded, to rejoice always. But how do we do that when we are confronted with sickness, grief, and other things we can’t change? As we head into Thanksgiving week, Jim shares a special, simple practice he has been implementing for years: Thank Therapy. At the crux of this practice is the understanding that thankfulness is a choice: an act of will, an intentional decision. While our circumstances may not change, we can change our attitude - and that can make all the difference.
Links:
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HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
Have a question or comment about the show? Email Jim: [email protected]
Bible Verse Focus
1 Thessalonians 5:16,17,18
Today’s episode of HomeWord is Part 2 with renowned psychologist, author, and leadership consultant Dr. John Townsend called Ask The Expert. In a special twist on our usual interview style, Jim and John roleplay a teenager and parent Q & A with common questions your teens may be asking. Jim and John go back and forth displaying how attitude, compromise, negotiation and being curious (aka asking additional questions!) help deepen these conversations with your teen - hopefully leading to a more positive outcome. We’ve listed the timestamps below for the questions they work through during this episode. If you enjoy this style of podcast, let us know in the comments!
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Understanding Your Teen Seminar:
About Dr. John Townsend: https://drtownsend.com/
Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling: https://www.cui.edu/townsend
Townsend Leadership Program: https://drtownsend.com/townsend-leadership-program/
Townsend Personal and Relational Assessment Tool: https://tprat.com/
Books:
Boundaries with Teens: When to Say Yes, How to Say No: https://a.co/d/dxHieyj
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How To Say No to Take Control of Your Life: https://a.co/d/1wfAv9N
All Books by Dr. John Townsend: https://drtownsend.com/books/
Understanding Your Teen: Shaping Their Character, Facing Their Realities: https://a.co/d/cW4Bx1U
Questions In This Episode:
Jim’s Takeways
When it comes to parenting your teens:
Navigating the pre-teen and teen years is an…adventure. Whether your child is approaching this stage or currently putting you through your paces, Jim’s conversation with renowned psychologist, author, and leadership consultant Dr. John Townsend is full of insight into this tumultuous season of parenting. Focusing on John’s book Boundaries with Teens, they discuss how our children should first be viewed with compassion (we were teens once, too!) and how laying out ground rules, expectations, freedom, and consequences provides clarity and empowerment in their own decisions. This is part 1 of our show with Dr. John Townsend - make sure to tune in next week for Part 2!
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
About Dr. John Townsend: https://drtownsend.com/
Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling: https://www.cui.edu/townsend
Townsend Leadership Program: https://drtownsend.com/townsend-leadership-program/
Townsend Personal and Relational Assessment Tool: https://tprat.com/
Books:
Boundaries with Teens: When to Say Yes, How to Say No: https://a.co/d/dxHieyj
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How To Say No to Take Control of Your Life: https://a.co/d/1wfAv9N
All Books by Dr. John Townsend: https://drtownsend.com/books/
Understanding Your Teen: Shaping Their Character, Facing Their Realities: https://a.co/d/cW4Bx1U
The 4 Anchors
from Boundaries with Teens by Dr. John Townsend
I think it’s safe to assume that most of us desire a marriage of intimacy. We long to be close to our spouse emotionally, spiritually, and physically - all God-given desires. But as Jim and author, speaker, pastor, and comedian Ted Cunningham point out, that doesn’t mean it’s easy! Our marriages must be approached with intention. You can’t keep waking up each day, doing the same things, and expecting there to be growth - you have to make the decision to implement changes so your intimacy deepens. If that sounds like a lot of work, don’t worry - Jim and Ted say take it one baby step at a time: small, intentional actions each day can lead to a lifelong legacy of intimacy, strength, and lots of fun.
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Ted Cunningham: https://woodhills.org/im-new/meet-the-team/ted-cunningham/
Embracing Your Season Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/embracing-your-season-raising-littles-and/id1716476740
Books:
Greater Joy TWOgether: https://helpingcoupleswin.com/resources/greater-joy-twogether/
Fun Loving You: https://helpingcoupleswin.com/resources/fun-loving-you/
From Anger to Intimacy: https://helpingcoupleswin.com/resources/from-anger-to-intimacy/
Doing Life With Your Adult Children: https://homeword.com/product/dlwac-book/
Today, Jim welcomes back author and speaker Arlene Pellicane to discuss the top 9 questions she’s asked about screen time and kids from her book Screen Kids: 5 Relational Skills Every Child Needs in a Tech-Driven World. From when to give kids a phone to how your child handles friendship without social media, from video games in the home to opposing parental opinions, from well-intentioned gifts from grandparents to the difference between a physical book and reading on a tablet, this conversation is your one-stop shop for the top questions you have about raising your kids in a tech-driven world! We suggest bookmarking this episode and returning to it whenever you feel doubt, or peer pressure, or just want encouragement for the screen decisions you’re making at home.
HomeWord:
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Leave a Message for HomeWord: 949-485-3905
Have a question you want Jim to answer? Email us! [email protected]
Arlene Pellicane:
Arlene’s Website: https://arlenepellicane.com/
The Happy Home Podcast: https://shorturl.at/ESpPG
Contact Arlene: [email protected]
Books:
Screen Kids: 5 Relational Skills Every Child Needs in a Tech-Driven World: https://a.co/d/fOFdOcL
GrandParenting Screen Kids: https://a.co/d/9oO1jh3
Parents Rising: https://a.co/d/ilCwXHm
31 Days to a Happy Husband: https://a.co/d/bgfxgvy
UPCOMING RELEASE: Making Marriage Easier
All Books by Arlene Pellicane: https://shorturl.at/Af2p5
The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt: https://a.co/d/hxs5DTb
Order Jim’s New Book:
A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: https://homeword.com/product/students-guide-to-sexual-integrity-gods-plan-for-sex-and-your-body/
If your kids or spouse came to you and said “I feel like you give your phone more attention than me”, would you be able to take it? Would it spur you to examine your digital use and make a change? On today’s episode of HomeWord, Jim welcomes author and speaker Arlene Pellicane to discuss her book Screen Kids: 5 Relational Skills Every Child Needs in a Tech-Driven World. Learn some of the science behind addiction and what it does to your and your child's brain, why teenagers are saying we should ban phones and social media for 16 and under, and how to truly thrive as a family in a world where tech will probably never disappear. With some staggering statistics yet heaps of encouragement, Jim and Arlene navigate the complexities of this topic with humor and sincerity. We suggest bookmarking this episode and returning to it whenever you feel peer pressure shoving in.
HomeWord:
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Leave a Message for HomeWord: 949-485-3905
Have a question you want Jim to answer? Email us! [email protected]
Arlene Pellicane:
Arlene’s Website: https://arlenepellicane.com/
The Happy Home Podcast: https://shorturl.at/ESpPG
Contact Arlene: [email protected]
Books:
Screen Kids: 5 Relational Skills Every Child Needs in a Tech-Driven World: https://a.co/d/fOFdOcL
All Books by Arlene Pellicane: https://shorturl.at/Af2p5
Order Jim’s New Book:
A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: https://homeword.com/product/students-guide-to-sexual-integrity-gods-plan-for-sex-and-your-body/
If you had the opportunity to heal, would you take it? It might seem like a silly question, but often, we become so accustomed to our pain, suffering, or grief that it feels like a part of who we are. Yet, true healing requires a conscious decision to pursue it. Today, Jim talks with renowned author, speaker, and founder of New Life Ministries, Stephen Arterburn, about his book Healing Is A Choice. Drawing from his personal experiences, Stephen and Jim explore various aspects of healing, such as connection, grief, and the role of community, while addressing lies we may believe that can block our path to recovery. We all experience pain - whether physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual - but while only God has the power to heal, the decision to seek that healing is ours to make.
HomeWord Links:
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Leave a Message for HomeWord: 949-485-3905
Have a question you want Jim to answer? Email us! [email protected]
Stephen Arterburn
New Life Ministries: https://newlife.com/
New Life LIVE Broadcasts: https://newlife.com/broadcasts/
Stephen Arterburn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstephenarterburn/
Life Recovery Groups on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/liferecoverygroups/
Call New Life: 1-800-NEW LIFE (639-54330
Books:
Healing Is a Choice: https://a.co/d/gleICLZ
Every Man’s Battle: https://a.co/d/1JbVpy5
All of Stephen’s Books
Order Jim’s New Book:
A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: https://homeword.com/product/students-guide-to-sexual-integrity-gods-plan-for-sex-and-your-body/
Can parents combat the constant barrage of negative messaging our children receive from school, social media, and societal pressures? Though it seems like an uphill battle, there is hope! Today, Jim welcomes speaker, therapist, and best-selling author Dr. Chinwé Williams to discuss her book, Seen: Healing Despair and Anxiety in Kids and Teens Through the Power of Connection. Together, they explore how intentional presence, positive affirmations, “just listening” and developing grit in your kids can foster resilience, confidence, and a strong sense of self-worth even in the face of life's challenges. If you have children, work with youth, or are a regular caregiver - this episode needs to be bookmarked.
Jim’s Takeaways
From Seen:
HomeWord Links:
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Leave a Message for HomeWord: 949-485-3905
Have a question you want Jim to answer? Email us! [email protected]
Dr. Chinwé Williams Links:
Dr. Chinwé Williams Website: https://drchinwewilliams.com/
Books:
Seen: Healing Despair and Anxiety in Kids and Teens Through the Power of Connection: https://a.co/d/9xGh8hk
Beyond The Spiral: Why You Shouldn’t Believe Everything Anxiety Tells You: https://a.co/d/gEdNJ2h
Order Jim’s New Book:
A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: https://homeword.com/product/students-guide-to-sexual-integrity-gods-plan-for-sex-and-your-body/
Have you ever felt like you and your spouse are more like roommates? Maybe five years ago, before this job, or before having kids, your relationship felt strong and emotionally connected. But now, things feel flat, distant, and maybe even a bit hopeless. If that sounds familiar, we have great news—this episode is for you! And more importantly, you're not alone. Even marriage experts Greg and Erin Smalley have been where you are! In Jim’s conversation with the Smalleys, you’ll find plenty of encouragement and practical tips to help you reconnect with your spouse. The best part? It’s not about adding more to your already full schedule. Greg and Erin point out simple actions you’re likely already doing that can create small moments of connection, leading to the deeper relationship you’re longing for.
HomeWord Links:
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Greg & Erin Smalley Links:
About Greg Smalley: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/contributors/greg-smalley/
About Erin Smalley: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/contributors/erin-smalley/
Focus on Marriage Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/focus-on-marriage-podcast/id261059123
Resist the Drift Marriage Conferences: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/resistthedriftsalemconferences/
Leave a Message for HomeWord: 949-485-3905
Have a question you want Jim to answer? Email us! [email protected]
Books:
Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soul Mates in Marriage: https://a.co/d/ezgelqC
Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance: https://a.co/d/hFXzOP8
The 5 Sex Needs of Men and Women by Gary Rosberg: https://a.co/d/fAokZWp
Closer: 52 Devotions to Draw Couples Together: https://a.co/d/gizZbnQ
Order Jim’s New Book:
A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: https://homeword.com/product/students-guide-to-sexual-integrity-gods-plan-for-sex-and-your-body/
As parents, we devote at least two decades to raising our children so they can go off into the world as (hopefully) confident, kind, and capable individuals. It’s easy for our identity to get wrapped up in parenthood, but we eventually have to confront who we are once the kids are gone - and that can be intimidating. Jim welcomes author, speaker, and marriage coach Jill Savage to talk about her book Empty Nest, Full Life, and how much joy can be found in the season after kids. From dissolving codependency to reconnecting with your spouse, from reigniting old hobbies to finding new ones, from “bleacher-butt” friends to deep, lasting friendships, this conversation will encourage you to be intentional in whatever stage of parenting you are currently in.
Jim's Takeaways for Moving Forward in the Empty Nest
HomeWord Links:
HomeWord Website: https://homeword.com/
HomeWord Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@homeword
Jim Burns Blog: https://homeword.com/jims-blog/
HomeWord+ Online Courses: https://homeword.com/homeword-plus/
Jill Savage Links:
Jill Savage: https://jillsavage.org/
Empty Nest Resources: https://www.emptynestbook.com/the-resources/
No More Perfect Marriages LIVE Events: https://jillsavage.org/no-more-perfect-marriages-live-oct-2024/
Leave a Message for HomeWord: 949-485-3905
Have a question you want Jim to answer? Email us! [email protected]
Books:
Empty Nest, Full Life: https://a.co/d/anzRZh8
Finding Joy in the Empty Nest: https://a.co/d/9zG4nTd
Doing Life with Your Adult Children: https://a.co/d/gmFWAMP
Order Jim’s New Book:
A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: https://homeword.com/product/students-guide-to-sexual-integrity-gods-plan-for-sex-and-your-body/
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