HONEST HINTS

People can only help us to a point since we are often blinded by the illusions before us. I still want to remind us that we are indeed enough. Tell yourself that much on days when you feel down and out of it all. Just whisper to yourself "I am enough".

Never get so caught up in the status you think you hold, that you disregard yourself. You should be your first priority. You should stand firm for you. You should take first your health, strength and rejuvenation into account before anyone else's. You can't truly help someone heal if you yourself are broken. Stand for you first, then others.

The best things in life are earned. Hard work, dedication and a determination to the cause is always worthwhile. Don't short change what you put in. Don't ever think it's too much. To get the best out of life, you need to put in the best.

The moment you catch yourself wishing you were that next girl or guy, pack it up. Focus on something else. It's ok to emulate other but it's not okay to compare yourself to them. Yearn to be better than you were last week or last month; using your current state as the point from which your future growth will come.

For the next phase of your life, make a genuine effort to be better than you were without making any excuses for actions done. It is better to be truthful than excusing. No more excuses.

In this new year do whatever you desire as long as it is in your best interest. Be all about you, for you, by your own standards. Do you! Happy New Year 🥳🎆🤗

With just three days left in 2021 you can think of the year to come as a clean sheet. It's the beginning of a new era and your page is clear and has lots of space for you to create and realize the desires of you heart. Leave the excuses behind and focus on writing your new story. Make it exactly what you want it to be. Just start where you are. The time is now.

When you've endured a lot of negative and disheartening things you can decide to just call it quits to protect yourself, but quitting can have you missing out on invaluable friendships and impactful interactions. Never let this cruel world steal the love that is within you and if for a second you think you've lost it, learn to love again. Love conquers all. It's not even about others it starts with you loving you. Do it for you.

Sometimes without really meaning to, we are toxic. Toxic to friends, families and people we interact with daily. Imagine being like all the people you just tolerate just because... As hard as it is to fathom, some of us are guilty. We are as toxic as it gets. Does that therefore mean that it's over for us? NO! We just have to make an effort to be better and work daily to be less toxic.