HONEST HINTS

When you feel as though you're at your darkest moment, take courage in the fact that you are not alone, you are of worth, your efforts are not in vain and you're closer to better. So on the days when you can't recognize yourself work on bettering yourself for the days ahead.

You cant expect to get strawberry juice from lemon and sugar. It's the same in life you cant expect to get anything other than what you put in. Choose that which you'd like to recieve and order your life in that way.

Sometime we get so caught up in the fact that things are working that we settle for the outcome not remembering that it can get better. Sometimes all we need to do is to break the cycle once for things to get better. You need not be rigid or stuck in your way, rather display your open-mindedness, flexibility and adaptability. Sometimes all you need to achieve your dreams is to switch things up. So let's switch this up.

Make the change for once in your life. 💪

You cannot afford to let anyone box you in especially if this takes away from your happiness. There is a place for persons who excel at different and varying pursuits and have the ability to do so simultaneously. Be that person if it pleases you. Do what's important to you. Change the career next year, add a new language or skill and make them meaningful. Just don't be left with the regret of not doing something you wanted to do.

Forgive yourself.

Let nothing and I mean nothing stop you from reaching your goals. Sure you might need to change a few plans or take a different route but at the end of the day you will launch out. Struggle are meant to make you stronger, temptations to give you a testimony and hardships to show you have what it takes to rise above. Fears, mishaps, hatred or even set ups are best spoken of after you came out victorious. So despite all that, be sure your able to say you've made it because you launched out.

Sometimes our desire to forget the painful parts of our lives causes us to forget the lessons taught in those moments. Sure we want them gone but we should learn to separate the good from the bad because in every bad there is a good lesson to be learnt for the future to be better. The why in the situation is very important and is most times attached to the lesson. Why it happen, why they changed, why it hurt; all very important but none more than what it taught you. So remember why you were taught this lesson.

No matter how hard it may seem, trust and believe it is better to stay above and keep pushing than to miss out on opportunities by drifting into the unchangable unknown. The true test of character is when there seem to be every single reason to give up but you find the one small reason to keep pushing and you keep pushing even after you've just cried. Remember tears speak when we can't and it release our hearts from carrying load not designed for it. Cry if you must but keep pushing.

No matter how it is, until you take your last breath it is not the end. You have to keep pushing, you just can't give up. I know you might be overwhelmed with emotions and feel as though you're at the end of your rope but you have to hold on. You have to give yourself a fighting chance. As hard as it seems or as stressed as you might feel keep trying. Entertain positive thoughts, endeavor to be better daily & surround yourself with impactful people. Remember, it will be okay in the end so if is isn't okay then this is definitely not the end!