This one is personal, one where I am taking you through my celibacy journey - yes, you read that right. What it has revealed about my relationship with self and how it completely shifted my sense of worthiness, intimacy, and magnetism. This isn't about being anti-sex or anti-pleasure. This is about no longer abandoning myself for validation or escape.

Over the last year and a half, choosing celibacy has opened my mind in ways I never expected. It pushed me inward, cleared out old patterns, and rebuilt my sense of safety and connection from the inside-out. If you have ever confused sex with intimacy, felt stuck in cycles that drain you, or simply can’t understand why you’re not attracting what you desire: tune in to start clearing the path. 

Highlights:

(01:42) How my decision to become celibate really started

(04:32) The sneaky ways we outsource validation through sex

(06:55) Why everything you desire lives in the work you’re avoiding

(12:07) Celibacy as the ultimate filter for aligned relationships

(17:59) How disconnection from your body blocks magnetism

(29:44) Recycling sexual energy and tapping into life force creativity

Listen to Episode 11: My Sobriety Journey & Deconstructing Addiction 

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