Ever tried to have a quiet conversation with your wife while a toddler was around? Good luck. We love kids, but they sure can get in the way sometimes. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the threats parenting presents to marriage. 

Why This Matters

Marriages change after you have kids. Men must prioritize their relationship with their wives in order to weather the challenges that parenting presents. 

Common Threats to Marriage After Becoming a Dad

·      Exhaustion: Kids wear us out physically, emotionally, and mentally. That impacts your marriage. 

·      New areas of conflict: Arguments can get us thinking “me” not “we.”

·      Losing sight of each other: Don’t live like roommates. Set aside intentional time to connect with your wife. 

·      Mis-ordered priorities: Our wives’ needs should always come before kids’. 

·      Forgetting you’re a team: Work together with your wife to raise kids well. 

Important Episode Timestamps

00:00 – 02:03 | Anniversary Plans Gone Wrong
02:03 – 05:15 | When Kids Interrupt Everything
05:15 – 07:02 | Life Before and After Kids
07:02 – 09:20 | The Big Question: What Threats Do Kids Bring to Marriage?
09:20 – 13:31 | Threat #1: Exhaustion
13:31 – 17:12 | The Power of Prioritizing Date Night
17:12 – 22:13 | Threat #2: New Arenas for Conflict
22:13 – 26:33 | Threat #3: Living Like Roommates
26:33 – 33:15 | Threat #4: Misordered Priorities
33:15 – End | Pro Move of the Week: Put your wife first this week. Plan a date. Schedule quiet time together. Remind her that she is your top priority.

All Pro Dad Resources:

Episode 70 – What Do Happily Married Couples Think About?

Episode 48 – How Do I Overcome Challenges in My Marriage?

5 Threats Parenting Presents to Marriage

5 Barriers to Fun in Your Marriage

9 Ways to

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