I just finished watching Members Only: Palm Beach on Netflix, and I didn’t expect it to hit me the way it did.

At first glance, the show looks like over-the-top wealth, social rules, and Palm Beach society drama. And yes, some of it is ridiculous. But underneath all of that, there’s a much deeper message about identity, conformity, and what happens when people believe they need to change who they are to belong.

In this episode, I talk about Ro Mina storyline and why it made me so uncomfortable and, at the same time, so fired up. Watching her be coached, corrected, and pressured to fit the “Palm Beach way” made one thing very clear to me: any environment that requires you to erase parts of yourself in order to be accepted will eventually cost you your confidence. I share how this theme shows up far beyond reality TV. It shows up in business, social media, friendships, family dynamics, and especially in the constant self-questioning so many of us live with: Should I say this? Should I post that? What will people think? What if they misunderstand me?

I also talk honestly about my own experience with trying to be palatable online, how that led to burnout, and why I’ve stopped performing for approval. One of the biggest takeaways from this episode is something I deeply believe: fake is an energy, and people feel it. Even when they can’t explain why, they feel it. This episode is about why being yourself is not reckless, dramatic, or risky. It’s efficient. It simplifies your life. It attracts the right people. And it makes success feel lighter instead of like a constant uphill push.

I wrap up by sharing three practical steps you can take to start being more yourself, even if it feels uncomfortable at first:

1. Recognizing when fear is stopping you and acting anyway

2. Starting small instead of trying to change everything at once

3. Detaching from outcomes and letting go of controlling perception If you’ve ever felt exhausted from trying to fit into someone else’s version of who you should be, this conversation is for you.

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In this episode, I’m talking honestly about a season I know a lot of women experience in midlife, when everything feels disjointed. Work feels harder. Social plans feel draining. Relationships shift. And you don’t quite know how to explain what’s wrong, even to yourself.

Instead of focusing on physical symptoms, I’m sharing what this transition has been like for me mentally and emotionally as I’ve moved through perimenopause toward menopause. The fog. The need to pull back. The guilt around saying no. And the quiet grief that can come with changing friendships, priorities, and capacity.

I talk about pulling back socially and professionally, prioritizing sleep, stepping away from a business that no longer fit, and giving myself time to stabilize instead of forcing clarity. This episode is my reminder to you, and to myself, that pulling back doesn’t mean you’re failing or quitting.

It means your capacity has changed.

And giving yourself space may be exactly what helps you find your footing again.

In this episode, I talk about:

If you’re in a season where your life feels quieter, slower, or smaller than it used to, I want you to know you’re not broken and you’re not behind. You’re moving through a transition that asks for rest, honesty, and a lot more self-compassion than we’re used to giving ourselves.

If you know a woman who’s in this phase and might feel less alone hearing this, please share the episode with her.

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Today I'm back sharing about what’s changed over the past few months, including bringing a new puppy into our lives, starting a GLP-1 (Ozempic) and what's changed since we last talked. 

I share what surprised me most about starting a GLP-1, especially how quieting food noise and alcohol cravings gave me back mental space I didn’t realize I’d lost.

I also share about the judgment that comes with this medication, how I navigated talking to my doctor, what my bloodwork showed, and why I see GLP-1s as a tool, not a shortcut.

I end this episode with a shift that has affected my energy, focus, and how I’m thinking about my business and this podcast heading into 2026.

This episode is my personal experience, not medical advice. If anything here resonates, talk to your healthcare provider and do what feels right for you.

If you’re a midlife woman juggling hormones, a business, family, and trying to feel like yourself again, this one’s for you.

Links & resources mentioned:

• Goose on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goose_the_minibernadoodle
• DOOU (Canadian online health service): https://doou.ca
• Chalene Johnson: https://www.chalenejohnson.com

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Note: This episode was recorded earlier for a previous project I’ve since closed. I’m sharing it here because the message still holds value. You may hear older references.

Yup. I said it. I’m officially sleeping in a different room than my husband—and I’ve never felt better. In this unfiltered episode, I share why we made the decision, how it’s improved everything from my hormones to our relationship, and why you might want to rethink the “you must share a bed” rule too. If you’re exhausted, moody, snappy, and one more night of snoring might send you over the edge… this one’s for you.

✅ What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• How one head cold turned into the best sleep decision ever
• Why I hate the term “sleep divorce” (and what we call it instead)
• How perimenopause made me hypersensitive to sound, temperature, and breathing noises
• What happened when I asked my husband for my own room
• How we stay connected and intimate without sleeping in the same bed
• The sleep + mood connection you’re probably underestimating
• Why this isn’t “giving up on marriage”—it’s actually saving our sanity

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I’m talking about the part of parenthood no one really prepares you for — when your kids grow up, move out, and start their own lives… and you’re left holding all the feelings.

Yes, there’s freedom. Yes, there’s excitement. But there’s also grief — and if you’re going through it too, you’re not crazy. It’s a lot, especially when it hits during perimenopause (hello, identity crisis on top of it all 🙃).

In this episode:

• Why it feels like they disappear overnight
• The guilt, joy, and sadness that all coexist
• How I’m navigating this new chapter
• And why those “goodnight mom ❤️” texts mean more than ever

If you're in this stage too, I see you. And if you’re not there yet, this is your gentle reminder to soak up the messy, loud, chaotic now — because one day, you’ll miss it.

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Perimenopause isn’t just hot flashes — I’m sharing what’s really going on, the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

In this episode of How It’s Really REALLY Going, I’m keeping it real — like, really real — about my personal experience with perimenopause.

I’m sharing the good (yes, there is good!), the bad, and the downright ugly parts of this season. From finally caring less about what other people think, to the itchy skin, sleepless nights, and that next-level rage no one prepares you for — it’s all here.

This isn’t medical advice — I’m not a doctor. This is just my story and what’s helped me feel a little more normal along the way. If hearing this helps you feel seen and less alone, then that’s what matters.

Some of the things that have helped me:

✅ My Weighted Vest – my go-to for walking and keeping my mind clear

✅ Felix Health – where I got real support when my doctor didn’t have answers

✅ Supplements I take (These the ones I purchased: CLICK HERE)

• Creatine 
• Vitamin D 
• Vitamin B Complex 
• Magnesium Glycinate (at night) 
• L-Theanine 
• Ashwagandha 

There are a ton of products being pushed at us right now — please do your research and don’t feel like you need to buy every gummy or powder that shows up in your feed. I’m just sharing what’s worked for me. Always talk to your doctor first!

💛 If this episode resonates, share it with a friend who might need to hear it.

We’re in this together, and I promise this won’t be the last time we talk about it.

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This one’s hard to record — but it needed to be said.

Our family dog of 9 years, Ozzy passed away this week, and this episode is me walking through the grief, the story of what happened, and everything I wish more people talked about when it comes to losing a pet.

If you’ve ever had to say goodbye to a dog (or any pet) you loved, this episode is for you. It’s about the quiet after the bark, the guilt, the firsts that break your heart — and the little things you wish you could do just one more time.

This episode is personal. And it’s real.

LINKS:

• Diary of a CEO grief clip — LINK
• Why we sleep in separate bedrooms — LINK
• DM me on Instagram: @shana.recker

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It’s been a minute, so today I’m walking and talking—giving you a life update, sharing how I’ve been using ChatGPT as a calorie and protein tracker, spilling the chaos of trying to keep baby bunnies alive in our backyard, and letting you in on something exciting I’ve just launched…

This podcast has always been a space where I show up real and unfiltered, but now there’s a new level of that happening over on my new Patreon channel. I explain what it is, why I created it, and how you can join me there.

Inside this episode:
• Why my 50th birthday dress sparked a mindset shift
• What finally made the scale move after two years
• How I’m using ChatGPT as my own health coach
• My supplement list for longevity
• The actual chaos of backyard baby bunnies
• What’s different (and better) about my new Patreon podcast

🎤 Patreon for the How it's Really REALLY Going, Unfiltered Episodes
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🥯 Protein Bagel Recipe
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📱 Beth's Instagram
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💊  A Few of My Favorite Supplements
➤ NMN+ LINK
➤ ASHWAGANDHA LINK
➤ MAGNESIUM LINK
➤ CREATINE
➤ PRE-PROBIOTIC

💬 To message me you can find me here on Instagram: @shana.recker

Thanks for being here. This is how it’s really going—and I’m so glad you’re on this walk with me

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If you’re curious about AI but don’t know where to start—or you’ve heard of ChatGPT but feel overwhelmed—this episode will walk you through exactly what it is, how it works, and how I personally use it every single day to run my life and business more efficiently.

I break down the different versions of ChatGPT, the tools I rely on most, and real-life examples of how AI helps with everything from health tracking and travel planning to coding, sales page copy, and client proposals.

Whether you’re a solopreneur, parent, or just looking to reclaim some time in your day, this episode will help you understand how to leverage AI as a true assistant—not a replacement.

 00:00 – Intro: What this episode is and who it’s for
 03:11 – What is ChatGPT, really? (Explained simply)
 07:28 – Free vs. Pro vs. Enterprise: Which version should you use?
 12:35 – Ground rules and what not to do with AI
15:40 – How I use ChatGPT to track my health and hormones
22:58 – Using voice memos inside ChatGPT
26:22 – AI for custom nutrition, workout, and supplement plans
29:40 – Travel planning with AI: itineraries, stops, hidden gems
33:10 – Product research and finding the best prices
37:15 – Helping my son with math using ChatGPT
39:20 – Troubleshooting tech issues like a Netflix error
41:05 – Business use: sales page copy, email sequences, and proposals
48:30 – Using ChatGPT for social media planning and content
53:18 – Custom Kajabi coding using AI (no dev experience needed)
57:44 – Strategic business planning and future-proofing with AI
1:02:05 – Final thoughts: why AI isn’t replacing humans—it’s enhancing us

Resources Mentioned:

• ChatGPT (OpenAI)
• Follow me on Instagram

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Oh hey there — today’s episode of Walking and Talking with Me is a bit of a catch-up after a little break. I’m finally back out walking, and we’ve got some nice weather for once. I’m out here without my dog today (which is rare!) and just wanted to have a real conversation with you about what’s been going on.

First, a quick update on something new I’ve been loving: my weighted vest. It’s a 16-pound vest from Zelus (LINK) l that I found through my Amazon shop. I’ve been using it during my walks and it’s been a game-changer. 

Then, I dive into what’s really been front and center for me lately — my super fun journey through perimenopause. I give you my updates on hormone therapy experience — the ups, the adjustments — from progesterone and estrogen to recently adding in a small dose of testosterone. I share what it’s felt like, what’s been working, and what I’m still figuring out.

One thing I want to really stress today: finding the right healthcare providers makes all the difference. It takes persistence. It can be frustrating. But advocating for yourself is critical, and I walk you through some of my own experiences with that too.

We also get into something that’s not talked about enough — the loss of oxytocin during perimenopause — and how that can affect us emotionally. It's real, and it’s another reminder why self-compassion is so important right now.

And before we wrap up, I talk about something that’s been hitting me lately: aging really is a privilege. It’s easy to get caught up in the struggles and changes, but there's beauty in this season of life too.

Thanks for walking and talking with me today. I’d love to hear your thoughts or your own experiences — send me a DM on Instagram! And stay tuned — I’ll have more updates and conversations coming your way soon.

Quick reminder before we dive in — I am not a doctor. This is just me sharing my personal experience with perimenopause and what’s worked for me. Please don’t take anything here as medical advice. Always, always talk to a qualified healthcare provider about your own health needs.

Episode Breakdown:

• 00:00 – Introduction and Weather Chat
• 00:54 – Loving My Weighted Vest
• 01:53 – Hormone Journey: Progesterone, Estrogen, and Now Testosterone
• 04:35 – Why Persistence Matters with Healthcare
• 05:58 – My Experience with Testosterone So Far
• 16:00 – The Role of Oxytocin During Perimenopause
• 19:37 – Aging as a Privilege
• 24:41 – Wrapping Up + What’s Coming Next

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