How To Be Mesmerizing With Tim Shurr!

In this episode, we have a legend and well respected in the National Speakers Association. Marilyn Sherman travels the country and helped so many people to rebuild their self-confidence to become better leaders, to feel good about themselves, and to shine. She is the author of a book called Is There A Hole In Your Bucket List that Forbes said is one of the best leadership books out there.

Self-sabotaging behaviors can keep you on the balcony of your life but you definitely deserve the front row. So, how do get to your life’s front-row seat? Marilyn is going to share her brilliant principles and also give practical steps you can immediately do to start pushing forward and moving into that seat of success.

Yes, go ahead and tune in now and brace yourself to receive top-notch insights and strategies to make your life mesmerizingly shine! 

Quotes:

“I wanted people to make decisions based on what their own heart and what their own desire was because if you make decisions based on what other people want for you in your life, or what you should do, you end up having two little seeds planted within you, and those two seeds are anger and resentment.” - Marilyn Sherman

“Do what's best for you to be in the best seat for you because you can't be of service to the people when you're stuck in the balcony of your life.” - Marilyn Sherman

“Recognize the fear and work through it anyway. What's the worst that could happen?” - Marilyn Sherman

“I always believe that life is lived in the front row. And people allow self-sabotaging behaviors to keep them in the balcony of their life.” - Marilyn Sherman

“There's no such thing as a bad day, only bad moments that people choose to nurse all day long.” - Marilyn Sherman

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On Death And Dying

Is There A Hole In Your Bucket List, book by Marilyn Sherman

https://www.marilynsherman.com/ 

Show Notes:

[00:30] Greetings and introduction of Marilyn Sherman

[01:12] Life is lived in the front row

[03:50] The importance of getting a mentor/coach 

[06:25] Taking 100% accountability for the seat that you’re in

[08:03] Two choices you can make when you don’t like the seat you’re in

[10:43] Overcoming resistance to make the move

[13:11] Fail fast

[14:57] Have a Win List 

[17:40] Your Humor File 

[20:53] What leaders are struggling with what’s going on - The 5 stages of loss

[25:37] Ushering others to their front row     

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!

In this episode, you get to listen to one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, Rebecca Zung. Rebecca’s helping people through divorce, and also negotiating with narcissists.

Rebecca teaches us how to spot a narcissist and effectively deal with their cunning ways. She also shares her tools that will help you win your negotiations in your professional, as well as personal life.

Wait no more and jump right into Tim and Rebecca’s conversation and become better in your negotiations and crush it, especially when you’re dealing with a narcissist.

Quotes:

“Remember that you are the stronger one. The not-so-secret secret is the narcissist is actually a very scared little creature inside.” - Rebecca Zung

“I always tell people, they [narcissists] don't target you because you have so little value, even though that's what they end up doing is devaluing you, they target you because you have so much value.” - Rebecca Zung

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https://www.youtube.com/rebeccazung 

https://www.winmynegotiation.com/rz-worksheet 

Narcissist Negotiators With Rebecca Zung, Facebook group

https://www.rebeccazung.com/ 

Show Notes:

[00:30] Greetings and introduction of Rebecca Zung 

[01:04] The definition of a narcissist

[03:51] The covert narcissist

[05:41] How Rebecca started learning and helping others dealing with a narcissist

[07:26] How to spot a narcissist

[14:02] It is pathological

[15:55] How to defend yourself against a narcissist

[20:53] Crush My Negotiation Worksheet by Rebecca Zung

[25:12]  You define your value and you are the stronger one

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!

In this episode, we are joined by a totally mesmerizing guest who is one of the country’s foremost experts on Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. Lenora Billings-Harris, CPS is a CPAE (Council of Peers Award of Excellence) Hall of Fame speaker and an internationally recognized authority in the areas of inclusion, diversity, and bias.

Lenora sheds light on what bias is and identifies biases one can have that will affect the kind of decisions you make in your business, your profession, and your personal life. She also provides different tools for you to become more aware of your bias and what you can do about it.

Tune in now because you definitely want to listen in and learn these brilliant insights and tools and become wiser in the decisions and actions that you make.

Quotes:

“If you want to achieve all of these business goals that you have expanding your market, attracting and keeping the best talent, etc… having a diverse and inclusive workforce can make that happen.” - Lenora Billings-Harris

“Diversity, who's on the team, inclusion is who gets to play.” - Lenora Billings-Harris

“We can't fix what we don't know. And when we do know, we're at choice.” - Lenora Billings-Harris

“We can't change the past. But we can reframe the future based on our current behavior.” - Lenora Billings-Harris

“When it comes to inclusion, Intention is not enough, because we can't read everybody's minds, Impact is what's important.” - Lenora Billings-Harris

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Implicit Association Test - Harvard

http://thediversityadvantage.info

https://lenorabillingsharris.com 

Show Notes:

[00:38] Greetings and introduction of Lenora Billings-Harris

[01:34] What’s current in the area of diversity and inclusion in the workplace

[04:28] Diversity is easier, inclusion is harder

[09:10] What is bias

[11:00] Implicit and explicit biases

[14:39] A tool to help you become aware of your implicit biases

[19:13] Helping organizations with their business case for diversity

[22:21] An exercise to know how fast you make decisions based on bias and what you can do about it

[25:38] Reframing the future

[26:52] Being willing to ask questions

[30:11] How to apologize

[31:38] Why you want to have real diversity

[34:10] Intention is not enough 

[37:19] Ubuntu  

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!

In this episode, we have an exciting guest with us. JV Crum III is the Founder of Conscious Millionaire. You may know him as the host of the top-ranked Conscious Millionaire Show, with 12 Million monthly listeners in 190 countries. He wrote a book that was an Amazon number one bestseller in 34 different categories called Conscious Millionaire.

Today, JV points out brilliant principles that will surely guide you to reach and level up your goals in business and in life. He also gives top-notch advice for your business especially in these challenging times we are in right now.

So, hit play and listen in now!

Quotes:

“Big goals are actually easier to achieve than small goals. Because we get more momentum, we get more excitement, we get more energy, we get more drive, and they're just more fun to achieve.” - JV Crum

“Their purpose oftentimes is related to a wound that they had in their life.” - JV Crum

“The solution is the purpose that you started with.” - JV Crum

“The more you get aligned... opportunities will just appear, and more than you could ever act upon.” - JV Crum

“If you're driving to the right impact, presented with the right offer, you will have clients.” - JV Crum

“How you price your programs and products should always be a fraction of the ROI you can help people get.” - JV Crum

“Your relationship with money is a direct reflection, or is directly reflected by your bank account today.” - JV Crum

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https://mesmerizingpodcast.com/businessaccelerator 

https://consciousmillionaire.com/ 

Show Notes:

[00:31] Greetings and introduction of JV Crum 

[01:17] JV’s secret to his success

[05:02] The sense of purpose in your life

[09:15] Having the alignment  

[12:04] When things still aren’t working 

[15:24] Pivot is fun

[18:34] Racing to the top

[21:38] The Conscious Millionaire Business Accelerator Program

[24:37] Big goals are easier to achieve than small goals

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!

In this episode, we have another legend, Linda Larsen, CSP, CPAE. Linda is a Speaker Hall of Fame® keynote presenter and one of America’s favorite speakers for groups like eBay Europe, Kuwait Women’s Leadership Forum, FedEx, and the American Heart Association. She also authored the best-selling audio program, 12 Steps to High Self-Esteem.

Linda shares how a scary experience turned her life around and led her to where she is now. She also teaches you simple and proven techniques on how to control your thoughts and behavior and maintain your focus on the things that you really want.

Let’s join Linda and Tim in this great conversation where you can surely learn valuable wisdom and practical tips you can apply and enjoy its results.

Quotes:

“And then I began to realize that how I felt in here and how I showed up out here was a direct result of where I was putting my focus and my attention.” - Linda Larsen

“I now can have the impulse, look at the impulse and go, ‘Don’t need it anymore, doesn't serve me anymore, I will let that one go.’” - Linda Larsen

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https://www.lindalarsen.com/ 

12 Secrets To High Self-Esteem, by Linda Larsen

Show Notes:

[00:31] Greetings and introduction of Linda Larsen

[01:56] Being in control of where you put the focus and attention

[02:52] Being aware of our automatic behaviors

[06:50] The Stop Technique

[09:48] The Stop, Pop, and Tick Method

[13:33] Linda’s abduction experience and how she got through it

[23:26] The importance of establishing rapport and focusing on finding a solution

[25:48] The power of empowering others

[36:56] Finding the gold and becoming stronger

[39:08] Experiencing the successes from using the help tools   

Make Your Day Mesmerizing

In this episode, we have a spectacular guest who is the CEO, Chairman, and Founder of My Neuro Gym, John Assaraf. John has built 5 multimillion-dollar companies, written 2 New York Times Bestselling books, and featured in 8 movies, including the blockbuster hit “The Secret” and “Quest For Success” with Richard Branson and the Dalai Lama.

Make yourself healthy, wealthy, and wise as you listen to John sharing the “Why’s” and “How’s” to make things happen in your life! He also explains the principle of why we are not our brains.

Tune in now, and take in more ways in making your life mesmerizing and also learn about new and cool things that are being developed! 

Quotes:

“Most people see the word ‘attraction’ as this attractive force that is compelled to come towards you but what they miss is the last six letters of the word attraction, and that's A C T I O N.” - John Assaraf

“You already own the most powerful bio-computer in the whole universe. Now, let's just get it to work better.” - John Assaraf

“Don't try to do it all at once but make a decision that you are going to achieve your goals and your vision no matter what. And then ask yourself, what's the first thing I need to do?” - John Assaraf

“Let's keep it simple, reduce it to the ridiculous so you reduce the resistance.” - John Assaraf

Mentions:

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https://www.myneurogym.com/ 

https://brainathon123.com/ 

Innercise, by John Assaraf

Show Notes:

[00:37] Greetings and introduction of John Assaraf

[01:04] John’s journey and Neuroscience

[07:30] Why things are still not happening

[08:46] 3 pieces you need to achieve success

[10:19] The Law of GOYA

[11:25] All the “How-to” already exists

[14:00] What could hold you back? - The most powerful bio-computer

[18:59] Working with the AI

[24:15] We are not our brain

[26:43] The potential for working with technology

[28:25] How are we not our brains?

[34:12] The Gamma state 

[35:29] The SEMP model in harmony

[37:07] My Neuro Gym, The Brain-athon

[39:27] Work on what’s the next step 

Make Your Day Mesmerizing

In this special episode, we are joined by the CEO of Ziglar Inc., Tom Ziglar. Tom is also a key collaborator on his father’s 30th book, Born to Win. He helps billion-dollar companies, small-business owners, and prestigious academic institutions, allowing thousands of clients to take their business further than they ever dreamed possible.

Tom speaks of priceless and powerful wisdom on leadership, legacy, and success in life. He shares his personal secrets to success that you surely want to learn about, and simple and effective ways to greatly improve company culture.

Go grab your pen and paper, hit play, and enjoy this power-packed episode with Tim Shurr and Tom Ziglar!

Quotes:

“We create the future that we see.” - Tom Ziglar

“Our performance today, to a large degree, determines our future.” - Tom Ziglar

“The reality is, we're all going to leave a legacy. The question is, is it will it be by design or by chance?” - Tom Ziglar

“Legacy is when you teach and transfer the wisdom, the knowledge, the habits, that allow someone to make good decisions that will ripple through eternity.” - Tom Ziglar

“Quality of life = quality of work.” - Tom Ziglar

Mentions:

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Choose To Win, book by Tom Ziglar

Choose To Win Coaching Program

https://www.ziglar.com/ 

Show Notes:

[00:51] Greetings and introduction of Tom Ziglar

[02:50] We get to choose our input

[04:32] The perfect start

[05:55] Replacing bad habits with good habits

[07:22] Powerful questions

[13:50] By design or by chance?

[18:49] The place where dreams come true

[26:46] The stainless steel handcuffs

[31:39] Choose To Win Coaching Program

[36:53] Coaching the coach 

[38:30] The council of wise counselors

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!!

In this episode, we’re with a true legend, Steve Sims. Steve is the visionary founder of Bluefish: the world’s first luxury concierge that delivers the highest level of personalized travel, transportation, and cutting-edge entertainment services to corporate executives, celebrities, professional athletes, and other discerning individuals interested in living life to its fullest.

Steve shares some of his incredible experiences but even more than that, he talks about the lessons he learned that will help you step out to what seems impossible and discover that nothing is absolutely impossible!

Dive right in and listen to this episode now, you might just discover or level up the superpower you didn’t know you’ve always had!

Quotes:

“Nothing's impossible. It's only impossible until someone does it. So, there is absolutely nothing impossible. there is nothing that can't be achieved.” - Steve Sims

“When you're scared, you only have two options, go for it, or back out. What I'm frightened of is meeting the man I could have been.” - Steve Sims

“If you're ready for greatness, it'll show up.” - Steve Sims

“Just imagine if you can get comfortable with being uncomfortable. What can you then achieve?” - Steve Sims

Mentions:

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Bluefishing, book by Steve Sims

https://www.stevedsims.com/ 

https://www.stevedsims.com/simsspeakeasy/ 

Show Notes:

[00:51] Greetings and introduction of Steve Sims

[01:11] Steve’s secret to his personal success

[08:31] Nothing’s impossible

[09:36] “Fear propels me” 

[14:22] Putting together the book, Bluefishing 

[24:57] Being able to get people out there

[28:42] Monetizing things

[29:34] A lesson learned from the dinner in the museum 

[38:03]  Being comfortable with being uncomfortable

[39:03] What is a Speakeasy

[45:27] Superpower from failures

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!!

In this episode, a legend is with us to share his priceless wisdom on management and leadership. Ken Blanchard is one of the foremost experts in leadership. Ken is a sought-after author, speaker, and business consultant. He has written over 60 books, some classic books like The One Minute Manager and Raving Fans.

Ken shares One Minute Manager tips and brilliant key points in leadership. He also gives you steps that you can readily apply as you continue to raise your leadership standards and not only reach our success but also helping your team reach theirs as well!  

So, you better click play now, listen in, and have a blast! 

Quotes:

“Life is a really special occasion. Don't miss it. And it's special because of the relationships that you have.” - Ken Blanchard

“I really think that the key aspect is to realize that you're here to serve, not to be served and to realize that you can learn what it means to be a servant leader.” - Ken Blanchard

“If you want to create a great organization where people trust and respect you, is they got to know that you're on their side, you’re their head cheerleader.” - Ken Blanchard

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The One Minute Manager, by Ken Blanchard

Raving Fans

https://kenblanchard.com  

https://www.kenblanchardbooks.com/

https://leadlikejesus.com/

Show Notes:

[00:42] Greetings and introduction of Ken Blanchard

[01:29] Ken’s secret to his personal success

[03:15] Having the same group of values

[05:38] How Ken got into teaching people about leadership

[13:00] Here to serve

[15:19] The pearls of goodness

[16:35] One-minute manager tips 

[20:09] Being adaptable

[21:37] People want to win

[22:31] Giving people a chance to change    

[24:31] Helping people get an A

[32:32] Putting together the book Raving Fans

[37:16] Being founded in good values

[42:26] Ducks and eagles  

[44:51] Life is a really special occasion    

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!!

In this episode, we are joined by a truly mesmerizing guest, Michael Hauge. Michael is a resident Hollywood script consultant. He has spent his whole life teaching people how to be profitable through storytelling. And now, taking all of the wisdom that he's gained from working with Hollywood filmmakers and scriptwriters, he's coaching business consultants and leaders and teaching people how to tell more profitable stories. 

Tune in now and learn Michael Hauge’s 6-steps to making your story profitable and a whole lot more of his powerful yet simple insights that you can do to help you tell your wonderful story!

Quotes:

“Stop worrying so much about whether other people will be upset. And instead, just focus on doing the things you really want to do that you know it'd be of value.” - Michael Hauge

“If people don't feel something, when they hear your story, none of the other things you want to happen are going to happen.” - Michael Hauge

“What we want to know is, has this person struggled with the same struggles I have, and that means they connect on the level of emotion.” - Michael Hauge

“Simple is more powerful.” - Michael Hauge

Mentions:

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Storytelling Made Easy, book by Michael Hauge

https://storymastery.com/success 

https://storymastery.com

http://michaelhauge.com/ 

Show Notes:

[00:42] Greetings and introduction of Michael Hauge

[01:25] Michael’s personal secret to success - Having fun!

[08:37] Working with Will Smith

[12:31] Becoming a Story Master  

[15:49] Michael’s 6-step outline for making stories become more profitable

[18:25] The #1 goal a story has to have

[19:01] Run-through on the 6 steps

[28:07] Identifying your message and the action you want your audience to take

[33:04] When asking for a testimonial

[37:15] 2 beliefs that most people struggle with 

[40:03] “When in doubt, add plot”

[42:29] Broad and shallow stories vs. narrow and deep stories

[46:56] Keep focusing on your story

[49:45] Stop worrying about what people think  

Make Your Day Mesmerizing!!