In this episode, I share my own humbling journey of releasing control, from meticulously planning my son’s birth to facing the unexpected and redefining my perspective on safety and surrender. 

I’ll walk you through how the illusion of control often creates more struggle and why detachment is the path to freedom and miracles.

We’ll explore the deeply ingrained belief that control equals safety, how it shapes our lives, and the liberating power of trusting a higher plan. 

If you’ve ever felt stuck, exhausted by over-planning, or overwhelmed by expectations, this episode offers a perspective shift to help you reclaim your energy, embrace the unknown, and finally find peace.

Here are the highlights:

(1:43) The Illusion of Control

(3:44) My Birth Experience and Lessons Learned

(7:48) The Realization of Powerlessness

(12:23) The Impact of Letting Go

(17:40) The Practice of Surrender

(19:33) People Pleasing

(20:42) The Path to Miracles

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