This episode shares practical strategies for how to talk to a loved one who is struggling with mental health about getting therapy.

Have you ever said to someone "You need therapy" or "why don't you get help?" when they seem like they're struggling? Then what do you do if your loved one clearly needs help but feels defensive, misunderstood, or convinced that therapy isn’t the answer? And what happens when your urgency to help only makes them push back harder? In this episode, Dr. Kibby breaks down why people resist treatment, how shame, fear, and loss of autonomy can get in the way, and why trying to convince someone usually backfires. She explains how to shift from pressure to partnership by listening first, validating their experience, finding common ground, and focusing on the outcome you both want. Along the way, she shares real-life examples from family, relationships, and clinical work, including how to support someone who is in crisis while still preserving dignity whenever possible.

Dr. Kibby also breaks down science-backed, methods that clinicians use to talk to someone about engaging in treatment. She goes through the LEAP method and motivational interviewing techniques that work with people who need help but don't think they have a problem. Whether you’re dealing with a partner, parent, adult child, or friend, this episode offers a clear framework for having harder conversations with more empathy, less conflict, and a better chance of real change.

Resources:

• Need help dealing with a difficult family member who's struggling with mental health? Dr. Kibby can help through her program⁠⁠ KulaMind⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Books on the LEAP method