It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You know how we feel about dating in the workplace, but does "Don't Sh*t Where You Eat" apply to hobbies? Is it acceptable to date a friend's friend's ex? If you regularly catch your husband doing you-know-what next to you while you sleep, should you address it? And you lost noticeable weight using weight loss drugs—when friends ask how you did it, to be honest or not to be honest? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:22 - Q1: Does “Don’t Sh*t Where You Eat” Also Apply To Hobbies?

9:09 - Q2: Is It Acceptable To Date A Friend’s Friend’s Ex?

18:33 - Q3: Am I The A-hole, Or Is He The Jerk?

32:56 - Q4: How Do I Talk About My Weight Loss Honestly?

51:52 - Q5: How Do I Outgrow This Friendship With Grace?

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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 5 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for HALF A DECADE of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:33 - If Shandy Could Re-Plan Their Wedding With An Unlimited Budget, What Would It Look Like?

4:45 - Longest Time Spent Apart

7:09 - How Did Sharleen Know Andy Was “The One” And Vice Versa?

9:10 - When Was Shandy The Most Jealous?

14:00 - What Are Some Of The Little Things Shandy Fights About?

17:08 - One Word To Describe Each Other

17:57 - 3 Sex & The City Questions

20:56 - What Are Shandy’s Most Unpopular Food Opinions?

21:28 - Why Did Sharleen Move To The US & Would She Move Back To Canada?

23:56 - Is Sharleen Still Friends With Anyone From Her Bachelor Season?

25:11 - Dream Location For Sharleen’s Next Opera

27:37 - Does Sharleen Cook & If So, Asian Food?

27:56 - Sharleen’s Tips For Having Personal Style

29:35 - Having Lived In NYC His Whole Life, Has Andy Ever Owned A Car?

30:54 - What Is Andy’s Opinion On Where Movies Are Headed?

34:35 - Andy’s Best Airplane Movie

35:21 - How Does Andy Survive NYC As A Germaphobe?

36:17 - What Does Andy Do While Sharleen Plays Video Games?

36:45 - Does Ruby Have A Middle Name?

37:04 - How Is Ruby With Other Dogs?

37:47 - How Has Ruby Changed Shandy’s Lives?

39:58 - Has Shandy Considered Getting Another Pet?

40:12 - The Kitchen Faucet Behind Andy

41:39 - Anything Shandy Would Change About The Podcast?

43:20 - Who From Bachelor Nation Does Shandy Wish Would Come On?

45:21 - Does Shandy Pay Guests To Come On?

47:52 - Does Andy Have Another Job?

48:20 - Happiest Podcast Memory

49:30 - Would Shandy Consider A Live Show?

50:09 - If Shandy Could Permanently Remove One Object From The World, What Would It Be?

51:40 - Swords For Arms Or Chainsaws For Legs?

53:00 - Have A Dragon Or Be A Dragon?

55:46 - Thank You

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down the finale.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off

6:44 - “Glamping” Relationship Test

16:28 - The Next Day

19:28 - Kat & Dale’s Date

20:01 - Back At Paradise

22:12 - Evening

34:33 - Voting/Rose Ceremony

35:58 - The Next Day

38:31 - “Sharp Opinions” Relationship Test

41:35 - Back At Paradise

43:23 - Preview

50:03 - Episode MVP

50:35 - Andy’s A-Game

50:58 - Who We Would Go For

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IT'S TIME, SHANDIES!!! Today's the day for volume 6 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!

We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:47 - Ep 45, Q2: “Can A Man Not Be Quite Ready For A Committed Relationship But Have Full Intention To Get There?”

9:51 - Ep 71, Q5: “Should I Re-Pursue My Former High-Paying Career At The Cost Of My Husband’s?”

18:17 - Ep 274, Q2: “My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected?”

28:47 - Ep 277, Q3: “My Friend Is Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help!”

31:59 - Ep 279, Caller Lauren: “Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable”

39:37 - Ep 281, Q2: “How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Worker And Her Gossip?”

47:58 - Ep 321, Q2: “AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice?”

50:04 - Ep 321, Q4: “I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help!”

1:01:33 - Ep 351, Q3: “My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help!”

1:10:37 - Ep 383, Caller Sarah: “How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?”

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 9.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off

6:44 - “Glamping” Relationship Test

16:28 - The Next Day

19:28 - Kat & Dale’s Date

20:01 - Back At Paradise

22:12 - Evening

34:33 - Voting/Rose Ceremony

35:58 - The Next Day

38:31 - “Sharp Opinions” Relationship Test

41:35 - Back At Paradise

43:23 - Preview

50:03 - Episode MVP

50:35 - Andy’s A-Game

50:58 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 8.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:56 - Episode 8 Kick Off

5:05 - Relationship Test

13:38 - Evening

17:36 - The Next Day

26:55 - Spencer & Jess’ Date

27:41 - Back At Paradise

29:55 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

43:08 - Rose Ceremony

51:15 - Preview

51:43 - Episode MVP

52:06 - Andy’s A-Game

53:03 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're breaking down the Season 3 finale, aka episode 10!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:25 - Finale Kick Off

10:02 - Final Dates

15:57 - Tribal Council

26:56 - Compatibility Challenge

38:17 - Who We Would Go For

39:16 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 7.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:47 - Episode 7 Kick Off

5:14 - Relationship Test

11:12 - Evening

45:25 - The Next Day

55:26 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

59:00 - Voting + Rose Ceremony

1:01:37 - Preview

1:02:26 - Andy’s A-Game

1:02:24 - Episode MVP

1:03:35 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the Season 3 cast of Netflix's Perfect Match, so they're today they're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 7-9!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:55 - The Men’s Mixer, Cont’d

9:51 - Women’s Mixer

16:10 - Evening

22:51 - 3 Days Left

31:32 - 2 Days Left

40:40 - 1 Day Left

51:55 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 6.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:08 - Episode 6 Kick Off

4:17 - Rose Ceremony

7:59 - Big Announcement

8:57 - The Next Day

9:40 - High Low What Do You Know

24:39 - Bailey & Jeremy’s Date

31:49 - Evening

40:07 - The Next Day

44:39 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

52:23 - Rose Ceremony

56:24 - Preview

56:51 - Episode MVP

59:24 - Andy’s A-Game

1:00:37 - Who We Would Go For

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