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It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 6 years old, and what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, Ruby, and everything in between! Thank you, Shandies, for 6 WHOLE YEARS of laughs, kinship and community. We absolutely adore you! Come join us in our living room to chat!
Thanks to our sponsors!
- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!
- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!
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- Shop Sharleen’s favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.com
Previous Anniversary Q&As...
1-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/r_ZxevOVS9o?si=e00pKFmKXxXcN4GE
2-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/OyAa9zSvvvo?si=ZwnQzIo_hGQ9BUvC
3-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/a_qIhKlUj0k?si=li3AirGKtYteOJrS
4-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/WBusMzUEx4E?si=PH0q3omvLy1Qd0Tm
5-Year Anniversary Q&A: https://youtu.be/jHbE2wU3HPA
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:41 - How Has Ruby Changed Since You First Got Her?
3:47 - Would You Get A Second Dog?
4:22 - Did You Watch The Love Island Reunion?
8:14 - Do You Miss Recapping The Bachelor/ette?
8:47 - Will You Have More Hot Topic Experts On?
10:01 - At The Beginning, You Interviewed Friends—Would You Do This Again?
12:37 - What Are Your Favorite Kinds Of Questions To Answer?
13:40 - Will You Go Full Time? What’s Next?
16:55 - Can You Make A Living From Podcasting Or Does It Have To Be A Passion To Be Worth It?
23:51 - How Do You Split Business Responsibilities?
25:38 - Does Podcasting Feel Like A Job To You?
28:23 - What’s The Hardest Part Of Your Relationship At This Point In Life?
33:50 - What Are Your Home & Outside Pet Peeves For Each Other?
36:26 - What Other Controversies (Other Than Moon Landing Denial) Enrage Andy?
39:10 - When Returning To NYC, What’s Your Must-Eat Food?
39:32 - TV Shows You Watch Together But Don’t Recap?
40:07 - How Do You Feel About AI?
53:44 - If You Could Get Rid Of One Allergy—Eggs, Nuts, Sesame—Which Would It Be?
54:52 - What Did You Think Of ‘The Odyssey’?
56:24 - If Single, Which Reality Dating Show Would You Go On?
58:52 - Favorite Style Of Dumpling
59:51 - What To Do/Not Do If I Ever Run Into You?
1:03:12 - Thank You
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
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Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 3 & 4.
Thanks to our sponsors...
- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!
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Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
0:50 - Episode 3
23:35 - Episode 4
59:22 - Best Dressed
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!
You're dating a guy but can't tell if the pit in your stomach is dread or butterflies... is it your anxiety or the infamous Ick? You regret agreeing to being your childhood friend's Maid Of Honor. Is it ever OK to back out of the role? You're a devoted daughter but your dreams extend beyond your duty. Between the crushing guilt and the desire to break free, which one wins? You're a mom of two young men and worry about their dating prospects—Shandy weighs in on your worries! Finally, you're married with kids but find yourself enjoying flirty banter with a co-worker. Is a workplace crush harmless fun or playing with fire? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!
Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.
A special thank you to our sponsors...
- Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!
- Go to https://factormeals.com and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus one free breakfast item per box for one year!
- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
4:50 - Q1: Is It My Anxiety Or Am I Just Not That Into Him?
12:56 - Q2: I Regret Agreeing To Be My Friend’s Maid Of Honor—Can I Back Out?
38:36 - Q3: I’m Living The Life My Dad Wants For Me—How Do I Break Free?
52:47 - Q4: I’m Worried My Sons’ Girlfriends Aren’t Right For Them—Shandy’s Thoughts?
1:07:43 - Q5: I’m Married With Kids, But… Can I Still Flirt At Work?
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
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Follow us!
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Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1 & 2.
Thanks to our sponsors...
- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!
- Go to https://AquaTru.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your purifier!
- Go to https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs!
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Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:06 - Episode 1
18:26 - Episode 2
39:53 - Who Shandy Has Their Eye On
Sharleen is wearing:
- sweater dress: https://bit.ly/3VENco7 (use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order)
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
Follow us!
Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
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It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by lovely caller Dani who has been dating a guy for 6 months. Except... she's never actually met him?? Was he never interested enough to progress things further, or was she too guarded? Listen on for the Shandy take!
Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions!
Thanks to our sponsors....
- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!
- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!
- Go to https://trykepos.com/SHANDY to receive 47% off your first order PLUS free gifts valued at $62!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Dani!
47:28 - Shandy Debrief
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Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!
You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!
Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.
A special thank you to our sponsors...
- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear!
- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!
- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!
- Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!
- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This?
11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess?
37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help!
58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help!
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
Follow us!
Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11.
Thank you to our sponsors...
- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!
- Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping!
- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!
- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!
Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:43 - Ciara & Ajay
10:33 - Cuba & Ryan
22:23 - Sophie & Taylor
26:20 - Francesca & Joseph
29:35 - Yasmin & Jordan
34:18 - Faye & Jack
44:14 - Reviewing Shandy’s Predictions
45:41 - Who We Would Go For
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
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More Dear Shandy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10.
Thank you to our sponsors...
- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!
- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!
Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:20 - Episode 9
29:53 - Episode 10
58:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions
1:02:04 - Who We Would Go For
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
More Dear Shandy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8.
Thank you to our sponsors...
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- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!
Time stamps...
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:34 - Episode 5
20:57 - Episode 6
56:50 - Episode 7
1:14:42 - Episode 8
1:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions
1:40:21 - Who We Would Go For
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
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More Dear Shandy
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Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4.
Thank you to our sponsors...
- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!
- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!
- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!
- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and one free breakfast per box for one year!
- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
3:31 - Episode 1
22:42 - Episode 2
37:16 - Episode 3
57:11 - Episode 4
1:04:41 - Ibiza
1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions
1:12:52 - Who We Would Go For
If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
More Dear Shandy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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From the publisher's feed
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.
Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes…
Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-Asshole question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions.
As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.
Email your questions to: [email protected]
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