It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Can you say "no" to attending your friend's destination wedding? Is it appropriate to give your 60-year old mother dating advice? What should you say when your friend wants to set up her friend with YOUR ex husband? And what to do when threesomes with your husband have left you wanting more?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:43 - Q1: Can I Say “No” To My Close Friend’s Destination Wedding?

8:55 - Q2: Does My 60-Year Old Mother Need My Dating Advice?

20:05 - Q3: Threesomes With My Husband Have Left Me With More Questions Than Answers—Help!

40:43 - Q4: My Friend Says Wants To Set My Ex-Husband Up With Her Other Friend—Help!

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:02 - Episode 4 Kick Off

6:02 - Gary

13:49 - Kat & Dale

19:49 - Gary’s Date With Leslie

22:01 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

41:25 - Rose Ceremony

44:30 - Aftermath

45:33 - The Next Day

47:25 - Lea & Nancy

48:17 - Faith

48:49 - Preview

51:29 - Credits

53:39 - Episode 4 MVP

54:22 - Andy’s A-Game 

54:40 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:50 - Episode 3 Kick Off

4:07 - Night 5 Rose Ceremony, Cont’d

6:50 - Day 6

7:58 - The Goldens Arrive

11:01 - Andrew Spencer

18:55 - Andrew’s Date With Bailey

21:04 - Two Truths & One Lie

21:56 - Paradise Resumes

23:14 - Day 7

30:00 - Sean

36:33 - Sean’s Date With Jill

37:11- Back At Paradise

38:39 - ‘I Know What You Did Last Summer’ Exercise

43:29 - Kathy & Keith

44:26 - Paradise Resumes

46:57 - Episode MVP

48:02 - Andy’s A-Game

49:27 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed

49:49 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Mousekeeping

2:10 - Episode 2 Kick Off

8:54 - Parisa & Alli Jo

11:55 - Chemistry Test

23:24 - Paradise Resumes

33:35 - Parisa/Brian & Alli Jo/Jonathon Double Date

35:09 - Jill

37:29 - Lexi & Justin

41:17 - Susie

42:54 - The Double Date Returns

47:02 - Day 5

49:08 - Brian “Clears The Air” With Zoe

51:50 - Paradise Resumes

55:58 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

58:50 - Rose Ceremony

1:06:10 - Episode MVP

1:06:52 - Andy’s A-Game

1:07:41 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping? 

3:27 - Overall Thoughts 

6:18 - Contestants

21:17 - Paradise Is Open

23:17 - Evening

25:07 - Jess & Spencer

25:59 - Day 2

29:10 - Dale

33:28 - Dale’s Date With Kat

35:19 - Back At Paradise

41:29 - Evening

47:10 - Sam’s Date With Jess

48:08 - Back At Paradise

49:04 - Day 3/Justin’s Date With Lexi

50:12 - Evening

50:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

54:39 - Rose Ceremony

58:06 - Preview

1:00:12 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed

1:00:53 - Episode MVP

1:02:05 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 8-9, plus the Reunion!

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Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping

1:35 - AJ & Britney

7:31 - Bridget & Kyle

13:57 - Ashley & Marita

18:40 - Haley & Pilar

22:06 - Cocktail Party

28:27 - Haley & Pilar, Cont’d

29:58 - Haley & Magan Talk

34:24 - Dayna & Magan

42:55 - Dayna & Mel Talk

49:05 - Dayna & Magan, Cont’d

52:59 - Marie & Mel

57:10 - Reunion

57:54 - Reunion: AJ & Britney

1:01:36 - Reunion: Ashley & Marita

1:04:39 - Reunion: Marie & Mel

1:06:45 - Spotify Playlist

1:07:27 - The Definition Of Sex

1:11:38 - Reunion: Bridget & Kyle

1:11:48 - Reunion: Haley & Pilar

1:12:06 - Reunion: Dayna & Magan

1:14:35 - Shandy’s Season MVP

1:17:08 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 2 (Part 1 dropped yesterday)!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Continued From Part 1 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Magan

3:40 - Ultimatum Receivers “Party”

6:34 - Ultimatum Givers “Party”

12:37 - Marie Confronts Mel

16:45 - Mel Reports To Dayna

17:45 - Matching Tattoos

19:05 - Haley & Magan, Cont’d

21:22 - The Changeover

28:19 - Trial Marriage: Bridget & Kyle

29:13 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Britney

30:47 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Marita

31:24 - Trial Marriage: Marie & Mel

32:53 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Pilar

35:28 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Magan

44:32 - Who We Liked Best And Now Least/Vice Versa

46:13 - Shandy’s Predictions

48:47 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 1 (Part 2 drops tomorrow)!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping/Disclaimer

1:51 - Joanna Garcia Swisher

3:37 - The Couples’ Final Night/Morning

8:27 - Speed Dating

13:24 - Cocktail Party

14:22 - Magan Visits Dayna

15:47 - Dating Week

22:40 - The Choice

30:29 - Trial Marriage: Britney & Marita

33:03 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Bridget

36:37 - Trial Marriage: Kyle & Pilar

51:25 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Marie

59:07 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Mel

1:06:58 - To Be Continued… Part 2 Drops Tomorrow!

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it socially acceptable to send your friends and family a gift registry to celebrate your law school commencement? If you promised an old friend you'd dedicate your novel to her, is it OK to change your mind? If you became platonic friends with a Hinge date, is it acceptable to want to de-escalate that friendship, and how should you go about it? Finally, what to do when you love your man but NOT his poor oral hygiene?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

6:40 - Q1: I’d Like To Celebrate My Law School Graduation With A Gift Registry—Thoughts?

19:55 - Q2: I Promised A Friend I’d Dedicate My Book To Her But I’ve Changed My Mind—Help!

28:20 - Q3: How Do I Drop My Hinge-Date-Turned-Friend? 

39:36 - Q4: I Love Him But Not His Poor Oral Hygiene—Help!

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It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Natalie is in the deep depths of heartbreak after the guy she thought was her future abruptly ended things. Because his reasons were logistics-based, would she be foolish to wait for him? Our second caller, Carlie, has a thriving business but is haunted by her secret feelings for her married business partner. Are these feelings something she should act on, or is there a way to manage or overcome them? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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0:00 - Welcome To Caller Natalie!

20:41 - Shandy Debrief

23:46 - Welcome To Caller Carlie!

55:01 - Shandy Debrief

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