Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 7-9!

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28:29 - Daniel & Taylor

49:08 - Dave & Lauren

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Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4 of Grant Ellis' season!

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4:57 - Episode 4 Kick Off

9:08 - Dina’s 1-On-1

15:09 - Back At The Hotel

16:41 - Group Date

42:37 - Serafiena’s 1-On-1

48:52 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

1:06:19 - Rose Ceremony

1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game

1:07:39 - Fashion

1:08:49 - Shandy Word Watch

1:10:30 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 1-6!

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1:41 - Joey & Monica

9:02 - Ben & Sara

18:55 - Devin & Brittany

24:23 - Devin & Virginia

31:07 - Mason & Meg

40:09 - Mason & Madison

57:37 - Mason & Meg Final Scene

1:05:28 - Alex

1:05:46 - Alex & Madison

1:18:16 - Dave

1:19:04 - Dave & Molly

1:26:06 - Dave & Lauren

1:33:27 - Daniel & Taylor

1:38:56 - 24 Hours Later

1:42:07 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3 of Grant Ellis' season!

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8:24 - Episode 3 Kick Off

9:22 - Group Date #1

27:06 - The Next Day

30:13 - Carolina’s 1-On-1

34:37 - The Next Day/Beverly

39:23 - Group Date #2

43:59 - Evening/Litia’s Dinner

45:37 - Back At The Mansion

47:25 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party/Prom

55:14 - Rose Ceremony

55:39 - Andy’s A-Game

56:02 - Fashion

57:43 - Shandy Word Watch

59:27 - Shandy’s Predictions

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One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation!

Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski!

3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths

7:34 - Mismatched Libidos

12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions

15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More

17:43 - Sense Of Obligation

26:38 - Orgasm

41:12 - Control

43:51 - Long Term Relationships

48:10 - Body Confidence

50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks

52:58 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2 of Grant Ellis' season!

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2:38 - Episode 2 Kick Off

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21:13 - The Next Day

21:48 - Alexe’s 1-On-1

27:53 - Group Date #2

38:20 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

40:47 - Rose Ceremony

42:58 - Andy’s A-Game

44:33 - Fashion

46:10 - Shandy Word Watch

48:40 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple!

Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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0:00 - Welcome To Joan & Chock!

2:08 - The Name Chock

4:47 - Was It Love At First Sight?

8:34 - Three Adjectives

10:38 - New York & Decorating

13:28 - How They Complement Each Other

18:33 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined For Themselves

24:15 - Early Hurdle

30:16 - How They Fight

34:41 - Beliefs That Have Changed

42:02 - The Newlyweds Game

52:17 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere!

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18:57 - Grant’s Toast

19:59 - Notable 1-On-1 Time

44:11 - First Impression Rose

44:26 - Rose Ceremony

44:36 - Previews

45:28 - Andy’s A-Game

47:01 - Fashion Police

49:36 - Shandy Word Watch

53:06 - Shandy’s Predictions

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It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us!

Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting! 🍌 We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too!

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0:00 - Welcome To Nicholas Tramontin!

1:50 - Why He Went On The Ultimatum

5:30 - Did He Really Want To Marry Sandy?

7:15 - Have He And Sandy Ever Been To A Swingers Party?

8:12 - What Did He Learn About Himself?

9:26 - Does He Feel Like The Show Preyed On Him Regarding Alcohol?

10:45 - What Response Has Surprised Him?

11:07 - Vanessa

15:25 - What Did He Expect To Happen?

16:05 - His Homeschooling

16:57 - Does He Wish He’d Left The Show

18:21 - Mariah

20:20 - What Has He Learned About Human Nature?

22:28 - Most Common Misconception

27:54 - His Art

32:25 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Tortured?

34:48 - Does He Feel His Paintings From The Show Were Some His Better Work?

35:50 - Is It Ever Hard Letting His Art Go?

38:08 - Who Is His Favorite Artist?

41:00 - “Dating An Artist Is Hard” & The Creation Of Art

43:45 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Sensitive?

44:30 - Dogs

45:39 - His Girlfriend

46:39 - Does He Feel Gratitude To Sandy?

47:47 - Rapid Fire

49:49 - Does He Believe In Ultimatums?

51:05 - Is He A Cuckold?

51:45 - Shandy Debrief

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Happy 2025, Shandies!!! We're excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... we're back with volume 5 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!

We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

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6:05 - Episode 91, from Caller Kiera: “My Boyfriend’s Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?”

9:44 - Episode 133, Q1 from Jess: “I Always Seem To Catch The Ick From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?”

14:42 - Episode 184, Q5 from Anonymous: “The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It”

19:07 - Episode 189, Q4 from Liz: “I Am In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth?”

31:10 - Episode 231, Q4 from Maybe Shallow: “I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic Flaw—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?”

35:29 - Episode 304, Q1 from One Bored Babe: “Does Healthy = Boring?”

41:55 - Episode 307, Q3 from Triply Baffled: “Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond?”

45:55 - Episode 313, Q6 from Sarah P: “My Aunt’s Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents’ That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go?”

58:35 - Episode 321, Q1 from Passenger Princess: “Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?”

1:02:42 - Episode 340, Q4 from Songless Bird: “My Boyfriend Dislikes My Singing So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?”

1:05:57 - Episode 346, Q4 from KB: “I’m The Paparazzi In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!”

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