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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!

You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This?

11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess?

37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help!

58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help!

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11.

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Time stamps...

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:43 - Ciara & Ajay

10:33 - Cuba & Ryan

22:23 - Sophie & Taylor

26:20 - Francesca & Joseph

29:35 - Yasmin & Jordan

34:18 - Faye & Jack

44:14 - Reviewing Shandy’s Predictions 

45:41 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:20 - Episode 9

29:53 - Episode 10

58:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions

1:02:04 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8.

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Time stamps...

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:34 - Episode 5

20:57 - Episode 6

56:50 - Episode 7

1:14:42 - Episode 8

1:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions

1:40:21 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:31 - Episode 1

22:42 - Episode 2

37:16 - Episode 3

57:11 - Episode 4

1:04:41 - Ibiza

1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions

1:12:52 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!

You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask about the gift, and if not, do you still need to write a Thank You card? Your social life has taken a hard hit by your post-COVID anxiety—what is Shandy's advice? Finally, you love your boyfriend but your parents do not—whose side should you choose? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:55 - Q1: Are The Perks Of Moving In With My Boyfriend Clouding My Judgment?

17:57 - Q2: My Girlfriend Looks Super Young & It Makes Me Self Conscious—Help!

21:50 - Q3: My Guest Attended But Didn’t Give Us A Wedding Gift—Is It OK To Ask About It?

33:43 - Q4: My Social Anxiety Has Reduced My Friend Circle To Non-Existent—Help!

52:02 - Q5: My Opinionated Boyfriend Is Rubbing My Parents Wrong—Help!

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum!

Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome Monica & Luke!

1:30 - What We Didn’t See On The Show

6:56 - Luke’s Journey

13:36 - Monica’s Journey

19:33 - Would They Be Engaged Today Without ‘The Ultimatum’

23:37 - Why They Went On The Show

32:00 - The Intimidation Of David/Luke’s Confidence

42:16 - High School/First Kiss

51:53 - Monica’s “Professionalism”

57:19 - Conflict Resolution

1:06:06 - The Newlyweds Game

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:08 - My Friend Keeps Making Digs About My Childfree Lifestyle—Do I Confront Her?

13:15 - My Husband’s Parents Are Likely To Become Our Financial Burden One Day—Any Advice?

30:25 - After 2 Months Of “Bliss”, He Ended It Due To His Father’s Illness—Do I Wait For Him?

57:05 - I Love My Guy But Not His Vegetarianism—Help!

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Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or texting START to 88788. Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed.

This week, we're joined by Blake Robertson, whom many viewers know from The Ultimatum. Since his time on the show, Blake has also been the subject of public allegations of domestic violence—a topic that understandably evokes strong emotions and one we strived to approach with care in this conversation.

Our goal with this interview is not to tell listeners what conclusions to draw, nor to minimize the seriousness of domestic violence. Rather, we believe difficult conversations are best approached thoughtfully, with honesty, attention to detail, and room for nuance. In this episode, we ask Blake the questions many viewers have had since the allegations became public. He also discusses public scrutiny, accountability, personal growth, and what life has looked like after the cameras stopped rolling.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome Blake Robertson

1:35 - What Terms He’s On With Hayley Currently

2:13 - Why Did He Propose?

7:31 - The TMZ Article

10:28 - After Filming The Show

19:30 - Charleston

40:49 - Scene 2

55:51 - Night Of The Arrest

1:14:25 - The Affidavit

1:17:24 - Finances

1:22:40 - Did The Show Accurately Represent Their Relationship?

1:26:06 - Beliefs

1:28:43 - Regrets

1:31:44 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4!

*** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. ***

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:51 - Episode 9/Finale

13:43 - Episode 10/Reunion

59:43 - Reviewing Predictions 

1:00:18 - Who We Would Go For

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