I Am Her, You Are Me: Together As One We Can Be

I Am Her, You Are Me: Together As One We Can Be

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  • WOMEN YOU ARE H.O.T (HEALING, OVERCOMING, TAKE CHARGE)

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    My name is Di` Janae Gholston. I am 28 years old. one thing I am proud to say is that I am a single black mother of two amazing boys. Who will soon to grow on to excellent men. When I say that I am proud to say “SINGLE MOTHER” I actually truly mean that because.

    Being a single mother made me very resilient, powerful unstoppable determined to succeed  that is why I’m here standing like the HOT woman today. With all that I’ve been through I never gave up. I have Healed, Overcame and Took over my life. That is why we are here today and I am here to inspire you to do the same.

    Whatever you are going through do not let it find you whatever you are going through. Let it build you. Remember that everything you are going through is for you . So you so that you get overcome those challenging times you have to do is take control over you.


    Don’t let it beat you beat. YOU BEAT IT. 

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    25 min
  • THANKFUL FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT, IT IS TIME TO TAKE CHARGE AND LET GO

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    Hello everyone! I am excited to announce that I will be hosting my first Zoom conference for all the amazing women who want to be H.O.T this summer. We all face challenging times that can leave us feeling hopeless, restless, and confused, sometimes to the point of feeling lost.

     So, what does H.O.T stand for?
     H - Healed
     O - Overcome
     T - Take Charge

    If you're struggling with depression, I want to tell you: HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH AND DON'T LET YOUR MIND DECEIVE YOU. Stay resilient and continue to fight through whatever you're facing. Depression isn't permanent; you have the power to overcome it. As long as you wake up each day and have the ability to keep moving forward, keep pushing. There is so much more waiting for you. Keep going and don't give up, no matter how difficult it feels.

    THERE IS GREATNESS WITHIN YOU, AND YOU ARE WORTHY. YOU ARE AMAZING. Don’t give up; you have a purpose. YOU CAN DO THIS, BOOKIE.

    Join me on Zoom next Monday, June 24 at 6 PM, as I share my journey of becoming a H.O.T woman. My goal is to help you Heal, Overcome, and Take Charge of your life.h Join Zoom Meeting https://us05web.zoom.us/j/87149380767?pwd=u1tKHZZbhxYaG6RfelA0k67aa3ZOmm.1h

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    14 min
  • God makes the dream work. God makes the team work.

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    Surprise, surprise hello everybody today we have a guest speaker. My first guest speaker ever, which is my amazing six year old son. He knows how I’ve been looking for a guest speaker and I have been unable to find one so he said “ don’t worry about it mom I’ll help you.” So today we recorded an episode and I am currently uploading it. I hope that you guys enjoy this amazing episode with my six-year-old son. He is so brilliant and I thank God for blessing me with this angel. 



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    15 min
  • Hey, YOU it is time to RECHARGE.

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    We The “WOMEN” All Face Obstacles In Life

    We The “WOMEN” All Need A Little Motivation

    We The “WOMEN” Are All Similar In Some Way

    We The “WOMEN” ALL Need Encouragement 

    We The “WOMEN” Need To Always Have Faith

    It Gets Greater At The End Keep Pushing My Girl, You Got Places To Go. You Can’t Give Up Right Now. Don’t Cut Yourself  Short Too Soon. Use This Time To Discover Yourself.  So, You Can See Your Full Potential. Now Is The  Time Take CHARGE OF OUR LIFE, Your PURPOSE  Discover Your WORTH“

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    21 min
  • It`s Monday, make the best of it.

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    Being yourself is going to get you where you need to go. So, me being me, is going to get me where I need to be. The thing is, we cannot do it alone. We must stick together as one and push one another. We must understand that life is full of disappointments. Like, I know, and you know. Which means "we" know that it is not that easy. I want you to know something. It is faster to fail than to reach success. Let me tell you, the more you want in life, truth be told the harder life challenges will become. Remember nothing comes easy, it is not going to be handed to you. I just want you to understand that we live in a world that is not set up for you or me to win. Which is sad due to the fact we are considered “the people.” I know that many do not think that far.  Which is very disturbing, that is why you see a lot of people not getting anywhere. It is ok because this is what I am here for, see me, I want to help you realize. 
     
     Train yourself to understand that it is okay to fail and face a situation. You are human my girl. You must know that as well is the only thing that really matters. My girl is way, you conduct yourself during process. Now that right there is the whole test of it all. When things don't work out in favor. How do you react.  Just ask yourself, do I carry myself in such way, to still be open to receive the blessings at the end of it all? The thing is, we do not think about it. When life is hard, the first thing we do is give up, before we even allow ourselves to get through it. The fact that we tend to beat ourselves up, we are only hurting ourselves, not knowing we are hindering ourselves.

     

     I will be the first to stay it, I for sure let myself down. Way too many times, that I am telling you. As I think of all I have missed out on in life. It is only right I inform you on how to stand tall and walk out bigger and better. Now, with that, I just wanted to share a few words of encouragement. Help you, so you can help yourself, that way you can help someone as well. I understand that sometimes all it takes that “one word” to help another person. With this episode, I just want you to really understand that you are not the only one hit with hardships. So, it is okay. Now, the problem is that. We cannot allow ourselves to stay in that situation. I am speaking based off my own personal experiences, I just want to share with you how I was able to maneuver and continue my life through the hard times. There will be another episode to follow this where I will go more into it. So, I hope you enjoy and know that it's greater later. 

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    28 min
  • You are great sis. CLAIM IT AND KNOW IT.

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    We The “WOMEN” All Face Obstacles In Life

    We The “WOMEN” All Need A Little Motivation

    We The “WOMEN” Are All Similar In Some Way

    We The “WOMEN” ALL Need Encouragement 

    We The “WOMEN” Need To Always Have Faith

    It Gets Greater At The End Keep Pushing My Girl, You Got Places To Go. You Can’t Give Up Right Now. Don’t Cut Yourself  Short Too Soon. Use This Time To Discover Yourself.  So, You Can See Your Full Potential. Now Is The  Time Take CHARGE OF OUR LIFE, Your PURPOSE  Discover Your WORTH“

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    32 min
  • I just want to say, I love you all. I am so thankful for the support. I can not find the proper words to express my gratitude.

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    “I Am Her You Are Me Together as One We Could Be” now stop! I want you to go back and read that first sentence very slowly. It's very interesting.


    The reason why I came up with that name is because, I truly feel like we as the women have been through a lot. It's like if you sit and talk to a woman about life. You will really start to understand her as a person. After talking to her for some time and she's opening to you. You might even say to yourself “Wow I’ve been through the exact same thing.” However, we don’t because we are too afraid to open and push each other to do better. Instead, it's like we tear each other down, or we do not want them to know that we have been there before.

     Well, I am here to say over here we don't compete. We are going to eat with each other. I want to win so, I want you to win. I started this podcast for women like me. My girl like this is very personal and needed. That is why I’m thankful that you are taking your time out to read it and listen. I just want to tell you I love you for taking time out of the day. 

    Girl, you obviously you get it. See the ones that get it, they get it. My sister I just want you to know. That you are not alone. We are all hit with unexpected challenges; I know for sure I have been. 

    We have been left in hurtful situations, we had friends/family/coworkers that betrayed us, surrounded ourselves with people with no good intentions. Like the list goes on and on I get it. Now trust me I know that feeling. Especially when you get to the point of when you have had enough. When we feel like enough is enough this, that is when it all comes to an end. I am here to tell you, we are strong over here, we are going to get through it together, I am going make sure you have a great outcome.   All you need to do is stay strong, be pretty, be yourself, most importantly. You have to put yourself first. We are all in need of some positive words of encouragement. Just some motivational words to get is going throughout the day. You know especially living in the world we are in today. It just seems like we can never catch a break. (Don’t get discouraged) it is all a part of the plan. Just think of it, as if God is just trying to get your attention. 

    Now us as woman have a tendency of being very vulnerable. Which is why we are left hurt at the end of many of our so called “relationships.” It just leaves us in many hurtful situations like I said, I’ve been there before I have experienced a lot under 30. So, I just wanted to use what I have been through and help others. Everybody needs somebody I know that I can help, leading  you to help someone.  I am not afraid of expressing myself or opening to any situations. I said I’m going to share my hurts and my pain.

    See pain is something that you gain and when you gain. You must turn it all into fame. Now, that is my message to you, my friend. Now welcome to “I Am Her; You Are Me Together as One We Could Be.” Over here it's an authentic vibe, it's not scripted it's really from within. What you hear is really me, being the person that I was called to be. With all being said, I need you to need me that way we can heal each other together.  I'm telling you my friend, together we can be one and build each other up. Please subscribe and leave your honest review hope to hear from you.

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    14 min
  • Take charge of your life. Find your purpose and discover your worth.

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    We The “WOMEN” All Face Obstacles In Life

    We The “WOMEN” All Need A Little Motivation

    We The “WOMEN” Are All Similar In Some Way

    We The “WOMEN” ALL Need Encouragement 

    We The “WOMEN” Need To Always Have Faith

    It Gets Greater At The End Keep Pushing My Girl, You Got Places To Go. You Can’t Give Up Right Now. Don’t Cut Yourself  Short Too Soon. Use This Time To Discover Yourself.  So, You Can See Your Full Potential. Now Is The  Time Take CHARGE OF OUR LIFE, Your PURPOSE  Discover Your WORTH“

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    15 min
  • You are a queen, stay strong and never give up. I love you all.

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    We The “WOMEN” All Face Obstacles In Life

    We The “WOMEN” All Need A Little Motivation

    We The “WOMEN” Are All Similar In Some Way

    We The “WOMEN” ALL Need Encouragement 

    We The “WOMEN” Need To Always Have Faith

    It Gets Greater At The End. Keep Pushing My Girl, You Got Places To Go. You Can’t Give Up Right Now. Don’t Cut Yourself  Short Too Soon. Use This Time To Discover Yourself.  So, You Can See Your Full Potential. Now Is The  Time Take CHARGE OF OUR LIFE, Your PURPOSE  Discover Your WORTH“

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    19 min
  • Leave the broken bonds. Everything does not need to be fixed.

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    First and foremost, I just want to thank you guys for your support. I could not have made it this far without you guys listening to my podcast. I truly appreciate you all.  Like, because of you all I can chase my dreams. With that being said, I am looking for some guest speakers. So, if you are interested in being a part of my journey, please don't be afraid to reach out. Your opinion matters, your advice could help another individual out. Our voices matter please, reach out to me and let's create good vibes.

     Today's topic is about leaving broken bonds. You know, we tend to try to make situations work. When we need to learn how to let things be what they are and move on with our life. I use my own life experiences to get the message out to you all. Hoping that it makes a good impact on your life, realizing that it's ok for situations to happen. You must be the bigger person and know that everything that comes across your path is not what it seems. Life is full of disappointments “they say” but I don't consider them disappointments. I consider them as lessons, which are all a part of the plan. When bonds are broken in our life, we are always trying to put pieces together, asking ourselves the following:

    ·        what happened?

    ·        what went wrong? 

    ·       Why did they do that?

    ·        How could they do that? 

    ·       Why did they even come into your life?

    I just came here to tell you in 2023, we are not fixing broken bonds. The bond was broken for a reason it is not for you to identify. Just know that you have saved yourself from continuous hurt, self-destruction, disappointment, betrayals, and trust issues. My girl, what matters the most an what I want you to realize is when you leave broken bonds. Sister, you restore your happiness.

    Let me make this very clear just because the bond has been broken between you and someone special. Does not mean you cannot forgive them because you must forgive people for yourself. You must forgive them for the sake of yourself. You cannot hold grudges against anyone just because it did not work in your favor. Not every person in your life you meet is meant to be in your life. You must know how to single out those who are just there for the season. You got to move on knowing that their season is over. Leave it where it is "behind". They say a person only has about 3 to 5 close friends. Just be thankful because God has a way of bringing people into your life and removing them. So, don't hate them, love them, no matter what happened between you two. If you know you have done nothing wrong forgive them, love them, and just move on. There's no need to try to restore something that has been broken. Save yourself.

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    23 min

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