I Am Her, You Are Me: Together As One We Can Be

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Being yourself is going to get you where you need to go. So, me being me, is going to get me where I need to be. The thing is, we cannot do it alone. We must stick together as one and push one another. We must understand that life is full of disappointments. Like, I know, and you know. Which means "we" know that it is not that easy. I want you to know something. It is faster to fail than to reach success. Let me tell you, the more you want in life, truth be told the harder life challenges will become. Remember nothing comes easy, it is not going to be handed to you. I just want you to understand that we live in a world that is not set up for you or me to win. Which is sad due to the fact we are considered “the people.” I know that many do not think that far.  Which is very disturbing, that is why you see a lot of people not getting anywhere. It is ok because this is what I am here for, see me, I want to help you realize. 
 
 Train yourself to understand that it is okay to fail and face a situation. You are human my girl. You must know that as well is the only thing that really matters. My girl is way, you conduct yourself during process. Now that right there is the whole test of it all. When things don't work out in favor. How do you react.  Just ask yourself, do I carry myself in such way, to still be open to receive the blessings at the end of it all? The thing is, we do not think about it. When life is hard, the first thing we do is give up, before we even allow ourselves to get through it. The fact that we tend to beat ourselves up, we are only hurting ourselves, not knowing we are hindering ourselves.

 I will be the first to stay it, I for sure let myself down. Way too many times, that I am telling you. As I think of all I have missed out on in life. It is only right I inform you on how to stand tall and walk out bigger and better. Now, with that, I just wanted to share a few words of encouragement. Help you, so you can help yourself, that way you can help someone as well. I understand that sometimes all it takes that “one word” to help another person. With this episode, I just want you to really understand that you are not the only one hit with hardships. So, it is okay. Now, the problem is that. We cannot allow ourselves to stay in that situation. I am speaking based off my own personal experiences, I just want to share with you how I was able to maneuver and continue my life through the hard times. There will be another episode to follow this where I will go more into it. So, I hope you enjoy and know that it's greater later. 

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When you make a mess in life, all you must do is STOP and identify it so you can clean it up. Most importantly my girl you must fix your own mess. Know that it is okay for things to get messy and fall apart. Yes, it is hard to do it on your own. That is why you must use the wisdom that God gave you to identify the ones who are in your life to help you clean up the mess. Not everyone around you is there to fix the mess. 9 times out of 10 they are there to make the mess messier. That is why you must be able to point out the ones who serve you no good. Many individuals love just to enjoy watching you in the pit of a mess.

 My girl, it is time to give yourself the advice that you want to hear from others. It will help you in the long run. I am guilty, I used to always run to others for help. For words of encouragement. I then realized that they really did not give me words of encouragement to help me. They were not genuine all, they just loved to hear my problems. I was a joke to everyone. That is why you must be able to identify the real from fake.

 You must know that God is the main one and the only one besides yourself who will get you out of the mess and clean it up. There may be times where you feel like you have nowhere to go. Also, feel like everything has fallen apart. Just pick yourself back up and give yourself the words of encouragement that you want to hear from others. Learn how to encourage yourself. That is one of the most important things about knowing how to encourage yourself. Once you learn how to motivate yourself and know that God will never place you in a situation that you cannot bear. Everything will all start to come together. So, pray when you feel like you are becoming down, know that God, has your back?

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Being yourself is going to get you where you need to go. So, me being me, is going to get me where I need to be. The thing is, we cannot do it alone. We must stick together as one and push one another. We must understand that life is full of disappointments. Like, I know, and you know. Which means "we" know that it is not that easy. I want you to know something. It is faster to fail than to reach success. Let me tell you, the more you want in life, truth be told the harder life challenges will become. Remember nothing comes easy, it is not going to be handed to you. I just want you to understand that we live in a world that is not set up for you or me to win. Which is sad due to the fact we are considered “the people.” I know that many do not think that far.  Which is very disturbing, that is why you see a lot of people not getting anywhere. It is ok because this is what I am here for, see me, I want to help you realize. 
 
 Train yourself to understand that it is okay to fail and face a situation. You are human my girl. You must know that as well is the only thing that really matters. My girl is way, you conduct yourself during process. Now that right there is the whole test of it all. When things don't work out in favor. How do you react.  Just ask yourself, do I carry myself in such way, to still be open to receive the blessings at the end of it all? The thing is, we do not think about it. When life is hard, the first thing we do is give up, before we even allow ourselves to get through it. The fact that we tend to beat ourselves up, we are only hurting ourselves, not knowing we are hindering ourselves.

 I will be the first to stay it, I for sure let myself down. Way too many times, that I am telling you. As I think of all I have missed out on in life. It is only right I inform you on how to stand tall and walk out bigger and better. Now, with that, I just wanted to share a few words of encouragement. Help you, so you can help yourself, that way you can help someone as well. I understand that sometimes all it takes that “one word” to help another person. With this episode, I just want you to really understand that you are not the only one hit with hardships. So, it is okay. Now, the problem is that. We cannot allow ourselves to stay in that situation. I am speaking based off my own personal experiences, I just want to share with you how I was able to maneuver and continue my life through the hard times. There will be another episode to follow this where I will go more into it. So, I hope you enjoy and know that it's greater later. 

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I know you are tired of putting yourself in situations that leave you hurt. On top of that, it is like you are always blaming others, it's okay, you're not alone.  Let me be honest, here we tend to put ourselves in situations that could be prevented. Sis, I know I have done it many times myself. It is okay we are human we do a lot of things that we later regret.  That is why I have this podcast. “I AM HER YOU ARE ME”  It is okay you're not alone. We are going to figure it out, that is why I am here to share a few of my life stories. There is only one thing that you must do, which is put yourself first. It is the only thing that matters. I mean it does sound so easy. Yet, it is hard for us to do.

I come here to say sis, at some point you will be able to.  The moment you take full accountability. We as women are hard headed we like to do whatever we want. Which in the end, most likely will not work out in our best interest. When that happens in life. You must embrace it and take it all in. Tell yourself “Girl, it's your turn to do what's best for you and only you”. The thing that you must do is be able to take accountability. You know what they say, “the best teacher or the best way to learn is from your life experiences.”  

So, I’m just here to tell you and just being real with you, my girl. I had to be true to myself. It took me a long time. I was just embarrassed or ashamed, you know the way the world is set up. It is like we can't even be ourselves. Everything is an issue we cannot even freely express. When it comes to us as women we do not stick together, you know instead of helping each other. It's like we just want everybody to do bad and not be happy. With all being said, whole point to bring awareness to my girls. You are not alone so, don't feel like you're the only one. It is never to late to be great. Know that you are great and nothing less.  
 
 

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Us as women need to learn how to stand for something or we will never have someone stand for us. 

- We must learn how to walk for ourselves. So, somebody will walk for us. 

- We must know how to stand up against whatever. So, we could have that person who will be willing to stand up for whatever for us.

- We need to love ourselves. So, somebody can love us the same way or if not more. 

- We need to know our strengths. So, they can know that were strong. 

What you expect is what you must believe and have faith. Sis, do you really believe in the thing you expect?
 
 I know are you tired of putting yourself in situations that leaves you hurt. On top of that, it is like you are always blaming others for your pain.  It's okay, you're not alone. However, we tend to put ourselves in situations that could be prevented. Sis, I know I have done it many times. It is okay we are all human we tend to do a lot of things that we later regret.  That is why I have this podcast. “I AM HER YOU ARE ME.” We are going to figure it out together, that is why I am here. I want to share a few of my life stories.
 
 I do want to say this, there is only one thing that you must do, which is put yourself first. That is really the only thing that matters. Not before the man above. God comes before ANY. The thing about that, it sounds so easy. Yet it is not an easy thing to do, for us women. I respectfully come here to say this "at some point you will be able. You have to for you."  we as women are hardheaded, we like to do whatever we want. Which in the end, most likely will not work out in our best interest.  When that happens, you must embrace it and take it all in. Tell yourself “Girl, it's your turn to do what's best for you and only you.” The thing that you must do is be able to take accountability. You know what they say, “THE BEST TEACHER OR THE BEST WAY TO LEARN IS FROM YOUR LIFE EXPERIENCES.”
 
 I'm just here to tell you also, just being real with you, my girl. I had to be true to myself. It took me a long time; I was just embarrassed or ashamed. You know the way the world is set up is like we can't even be ourselves. Everything is an issue like we cannot even freely express who we are. Now, when it comes to us as women we do not stick together. Instead of helping each other it's like we just want everybody to do bad and not be happy. Over here we love each other, and we are going to inspire and push each other. With all being said the whole point is to bring awareness to all my girls. You are not alone so, don't feel like you're the only one.
 
 REMEMBER, IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO BECOME GREAT. 

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We The “WOMEN” All Face Obstacles In Life

We The “WOMEN” All Need A Little Motivation

We The “WOMEN” Are All Similar In Some Way

We The “WOMEN” ALL Need Encouragement 

We The “WOMEN” Need To Always Have Faith

It Gets Greater At The End. Keep Pushing My Girl, You Got Places To Go. You Can’t Give Up Right Now. Don’t Cut Yourself  Short Too Soon. Use This Time To Discover Yourself.  So, You Can See Your Full Potential. Now Is The  Time Take CHARGE OF OUR LIFE, Your PURPOSE  Discover Your WORTH“

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