I AM SELF-ISH

Episode 19: Own Your Future – with Marc Blair

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Marc Blair, real estate broker, entrepreneur, and wealth creation coach, for an honest and empowering conversation about ownership, mindset, and financial freedom.

Marc shares how shifting your mindset can transform your financial life and why real estate is more than a transaction—it’s a path to empowerment. Together, they break down the realities of building wealth, including the difference between good and bad debt, the risks of becoming house poor, and why financial transparency matters more than ever.

Whether you're thinking about buying your first property or looking to reshape your relationship with money, this episode is about owning your choices, your finances, and ultimately—your future.

Takeaways:

• ​Mindset is the foundation of financial success.
• ​Ownership is about freedom, not just assets.
• ​Don’t fall into the trap of being house poor—plan wisely.
• ​Good debt can work for you, but bad debt will work against you.
• ​Financial freedom begins with education, intention, and honesty.
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• ​About Marc Blair:Marc Blair is a licensed real estate broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia, known as “The Wealth Creation Coach.”
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• He helps clients eliminate debt, grow their assets, and build lasting wealth through real estate and financial literacy. With a passion for education and empowerment, Marc travels the country teaching people how to take control of their money and their future
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• ​.Connect with Marc Blair:
• ​📸 Instagram: @marcblair_realtor
• ​🌍 Website: (Link optional if applicable)
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• ​Connect with Host Will Wright:
• ​📧 Email: [email protected]
• ​📸 Instagram: @selfish.will
• ​🌍 Website: www.iamself-ish.com
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• If you’re ready to stop surviving and start building, this episode will inspire you to make moves—on purpose, with purpose. 🎙🏠💰

Episode 18: The Ugly Duckling – with Will Wright

In this deeply personal solo episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright opens up about his lifelong struggle with body image, shame, and self-worth in a vulnerable reflection titled The Ugly Duckling.

Will shares the internal battles he’s faced—the harsh inner voice that convinced him he wasn’t enough, the false identity he clung to just to survive, and the painful relationship he had with the mirror. With raw honesty, he talks about what it meant to feel small in the world and within himself, and how shame kept him hidden for far too long.

But this episode isn’t just about the struggle—it’s about the slow, courageous return to self. Through compassion, vulnerability, and the willingness to face the pain, Will shares what it looks like to begin healing and embracing the person he’s always been beneath the layers of self-doubt.

This isn’t a story of “fixed.” It’s a story of seen, felt, and finally believed.

Takeaways:

• ​The stories we tell ourselves in silence can be the loudest lies we live by.
• ​Shame grows in the dark—healing starts with honesty.
• ​Self-compassion isn’t weakness—it’s the beginning of strength.
• ​You don’t have to be perfect to be worthy.
• ​The journey from “ugly duckling” to self-acceptance is not about becoming someone new—it’s about remembering who you’ve always been.Connect with Host Will Wright:📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @coreremastered🌍 Website: www.coreremastered.comIf you’ve ever felt unseen, unworthy, or unsure of where you belong, this episode is your reminder: you’re not alone—and your story isn’t over. 🎙🦢💔✨

Episode 17: When the Body Speaks – with Serena Venditto

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Serena Venditto, a certified Alexander Technique teacher, for a deep and insightful conversation about the mind-body connection, stress management, and personal growth.

Serena shares how the Alexander Technique helps people tune into the signals their bodies are sending, recognize patterns of habitual tension and overthinking, and reconnect with themselves in a more grounded, authentic way. Together, they explore how presence, self-awareness, and body-based practices can transform the way we handle stress and challenges—especially for high-achievers who often live in cycles of overwhelm.

The discussion also highlights how the body holds onto old patterns, how self-care supports service to others, and why you can't change what you don't know. Serena’s approach empowers individuals to move beyond autopilot living and step into a life rooted in clarity, resilience, and self-trust.

About Serena Venditto:

Serena Venditto, AmSAT, is a certified Alexander Technique teacher who specializes in helping high-achievers move from stuck and overwhelmed to grounded and clear. Through practical, body-based tools, she empowers clients to reconnect with themselves, ease tension, and show up with more authenticity and freedom.

Serena is a member of the American Society for the Alexander Technique (AmSAT) and offers group workshops, weekly classes, and 1:1 coaching both online and in Queens, New York.

Work with Serena or Meet Her In-Person:

🧘‍♀️ Workshop: Experience Serena’s Alexander Technique Workshop at Yoga Agora – April 26th, 2025!🧘‍♀️ Weekly Class: Join her Restorative Alexander Technique class Fridays at 8:45 PM at Yoga Agora.📅 Private Coaching: Book a consultation at bravelyunbound.com.

Connect with Serena Venditto:

🌐 Website: bravelyunbound.com📸 Instagram: @bravelyunbound📺 YouTube: @bravelyunbound🎵 TikTok: @bravely.unbound🔗 Professional Association: American Society for the Alexander Technique (AmSAT)

Connect with Host Will Wright:

📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @coreremastered🌍 Website: www.coreremastered.com

When the body speaks, are you listening? Tune in and discover how presence, awareness, and mindful connection can reshape your entire way of being. 🎙✨

Episode 16: Redefining Adversity – with Raye Mutcherson

In this powerful episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Raye Mutcherson for an inspiring and unfiltered conversation about overcoming adversity, building character, and owning your journey.

Raye shares his path through the medical field, from earning a PhD in Genetics and Developmental Biology to pursuing his Doctor of Pharmacy degree. With a passion for pediatric oncology and critical care cardiovascular medicine, Raye opens up about the personal and professional challenges he’s faced—and how adversity has shaped not just his career, but his character.

Together, they explore the true meaning of adversity, the importance of accountability and ownership, and the courage it takes to confront your own story. Raye also reflects on the impact of patient connection, the role of self-reflection in growth, and how to develop emotional resilience in high-pressure environments.

The episode concludes with a fun and revealing hypothetical segment, showcasing Raye’s heart, humor, and humanity.

Adversity is a mirror, reflecting our values, resilience, and capacity for growth.

Accountability and ownership are powerful tools for transformation.

Self-reflection builds clarity, emotional strength, and direction.

Embracing your story—flaws and all—leads to empowerment.

Connection is key, whether in medicine, mentorship, or personal healing.

About Raye Mutcherson:

Raye Mutcherson is a Doctor of Pharmacy candidate with a PhD in Genetics and Developmental Biology.

His professional interests include Pediatric Oncology and Critical Care Cardiovascular Medicine. Raye is also deeply involved in student leadership and professional organizations, serving as:

NOCDA Student Chapter President

Member of the American Pharmacist Association (APhA)

Member of the American College of Clinical Pharmacy (ACCP)

Member of the National Association of Specialty Pharmacy (NASP)

🔗 Connect with Raye J. Mutcherson:📘 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/rmutch24📧 Email: [email protected]

Connect with Host Will Wright:

📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @coreremastered🌍 Website: www.coreremastered.com

Whether you’re facing challenges in life, leadership, or identity, this episode reminds us that adversity is not the end of the story—it’s often where the most meaningful chapters begin. 🎙💥

Episode 15: Planning for Peace of Mind – with David Stern

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with estate planning attorney David Stern to demystify the often-overwhelming world of wills, trusts, and estate planning. Whether you’re building wealth, raising a family, or simply wanting to prepare for the future, this conversation brings clarity and peace of mind to a topic many tend to avoid.

David shares the key differences between wills and trusts, when and why you might need each, and why estate planning is essential for everyone—regardless of wealth. They explore common mistakes, such as failing to update beneficiaries after life events like divorce, and the emotional challenges people face when planning for the inevitable.

Through real-life stories from his legal practice, David helps listeners understand that estate planning isn’t about death—it’s about protecting life and ensuring financial security, family protection, and generational wealth.

About David Stern:

David Stern is a partner at Mathey & Stern Attorneys at Law, where he specializes in trusts, estates, and asset protection. With a diverse professional background in real estate, finance, and law, David brings a well-rounded perspective to estate planning. He earned his B.A. in music from Vassar College and his law degree from New York Law School. When he's not helping clients secure their family’s future, David enjoys records, board games, whiskey, and quiet evenings at home with his wife Virginia and their cat Cedi.

Connect with David Stern:

🌐 Website: www.matheyandstern.com

📧 Email: [email protected]🔗 LinkedIn: Mathey & Stern

🎵 Personal Favorites: The Living Years by Mike + The Mechanics | Rain Man, Annie

Connect with Host Will Wright:

📧 Email: [email protected]

📸 Instagram: @coreremastered

🌍 Website: www.coreremastered.com

If you’ve been putting off estate planning, this episode will help you see it differently: not as a burden, but as a gift of clarity and care for your loved ones. 🎙🔐

Episode 14: Two Coaches, One Passion – with Mike Calce

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright shares the mic with fellow coach and First Responder Mike Calce for a powerful conversation about the transformative power of coaching. With nearly 20 years in the service field, Mike opens up about the toll that career took on his mental and emotional well-being—and how discovering coaching changed his life.

Together, Will and Mike explore the misconceptions around coaching, the power of choice, and how personal transformation begins from within. They discuss the importance of habits, mindset, and self-care, and how showing up for others starts with showing up for yourself.

The conversation is honest, energizing, and rooted in a shared mission: to inspire purpose-driven growth, create space for healing, and help others connect to their power. The episode wraps with fun hypotheticals that reveal their unique coaching styles and philosophies—proving that while their paths may differ, their passion is the same.

Takeaways:

Coaching isn’t about fixing—it’s about activating what’s already within.

Choice is the first step toward transformation.

Self-care is not optional—especially for those who lead and serve.

Building meaningful connections is at the heart of coaching.

Habits shape mindset, and mindset shapes everything.About Mike Calce: Mike Calce is a First Responder turned Coach, and the founder of The Coach Solution, a platform and podcast dedicated to empowering Purpose Driven Coaches.

After experiencing the heavy emotional toll of frontline service, Mike leaned into personal development to heal, grow, and ultimately help others do the same. Through The Coach Solution, he’s building a global community of life-changers—coaches who are driven by purpose, impact, and connection.

Connect with Mike Calce + The Coach Solution:🌐 Website: www.thecoachsolution.com (under construction)

📘 LinkedIn: The Coach Solution (Page) | Mike Calce (Profile)

📺 YouTube: @thecoachsolution

Connect with Host Will Wright:

📧 Email: [email protected]

📸 Instagram: @coreremastered

🌍 Website: www.coreremastered.com

Episode 13: Embracing Your Power – with Soji James

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright dives into a powerful and heartfelt conversation with Soji James, a strength and mindfulness coach, about the lifelong journey of self-discovery, the courage to be vulnerable, and the deeper difference between intentionsand goals.

Soji shares how personal experiences, including his own transformation from an overweight kid to a college athlete and coach, helped him reshape his narrative and embrace his power. They explore the lasting impact of the pandemic on personal growth, and how that period sparked deeper reflection, balance, and clarity.

At the core of their discussion is the belief that vulnerabilityis strength, and that true progress comes not from perfection but from being honest with us. Through storytelling, mentorship, and community, Soji empowers others to write their own life story—one grounded in intention, truth, and purpose.

About Soji James

Soji James is a strength and mindfulness coach helping people move better, get stronger, and build a healthier relationship with food and fitness—without the quick-fix B.S. A former overweight kid turned athlete, Soji has coached everyone from busy parents to high-performing athletes for over a decade.

He’s also the creator of The Metta Club, a mindfulness community designed to build inner peace, self-awareness, and resilience through meditation. Soji’s mission is to help people build bodies they love, minds that serve them, and lives they’re proud of.

Free Resources from Soji

🧘🏾‍♂️ Mindfulness Made Simple: Download Here🍽Skills Over Diets: Download Here

Connect with Soji James:

Website: sojijames.comInstagram: @soji.james1TikTok: @soji.james1

Connect with Host Will Wright

Email: [email protected]: @coreremasteredWebsite: www.coreremastered.com

This episode is a call to reclaim your story, lean into your truth, and embrace your power—wherever you are in your journey. 🎙🔥

Episode 12: From Chaos to Clarity – with Candice Ramsey

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Candice Ramsey, founder of Mahogany Coaching and Consulting, to discuss the journey from chaos to clarity in mental health, personal growth, and empowerment. Candice shares her insights on understanding behaviors, the misconceptions surrounding coaching, and how self-awareness is the foundation of wellness.

They dive deep into the role of emotional intelligence, the importance of buy-in for transformation, and how coaching is an art, not a science. Candice also shares personal experiences of navigating challenges, the significance of community in personal development, and the power of embracing one’s unique strengths. The episode wraps up with a fun hypothetical segment, offering personal reflections and insight into self-discovery.

• Self-awareness is the foundation of personal and professional growth.
• Coaching is an art, not a science—every journey is unique.
• Emotional intelligence is key to navigating challenges and relationships.
• Transformation is liberating when we embrace our natural strengths.
• Personal development requires community, support, and self-investment.
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Candice Ramsey is a certified professional coach, licensed marriage and family therapist, and founder of Mahogany Coaching and Consulting LLC. With over 15 years of experience in talent and organizational development, she has helped hundreds of leaders step into their full potential. She specializes in Enneagram, Myers-Briggs, and Emotional Intelligence assessments, guiding women to break free from self-limiting patterns and embrace their strengths.

Candice is also a Reiki master practitioner, sound healer, and meditation teacher. While these practices were once reserved for her close circle, she is now expanding her offerings to help others integrate holistic wellness into their personal growth journeys.

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Connect with Candice Ramsey:

🌐 Website: mahoganycc.com📸 Instagram: @mahogany_cc📘 Facebook: Candice Ramsey

Connect with Host Will Wright:

📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @coreremastered🌍 Website: www.coreremastered.com

This episode is packed with insights on self-care, coaching, mental health, and empowerment. Whether you're navigating personal growth or looking for clarity in your life, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and ready to take action! 🎙💡

Episode 11: Living Your Truth – with Lovelie Tejada

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host William Wright engages in a powerful conversation with Lovelie Tejada, a dedicated advocate and leader in immigrant rights. Together, they dive into the importance of living authentically, advocacy, and representation. Lovelie shares her journey of advocating for immigrant rights, the challenges of navigating the political landscape, and the barriers people face in living their truth.

They discuss the role of community support and collective action in fostering change, and Lovelie highlights the importance of self-discovery and the empowerment that comes from embracing one's authenticity. They also explore how influential figures have shaped their paths, both personally and professionally. The episode concludes with a fun and insightful dinner party draft, where William and Lovelie discuss the inspiring figures who have influenced their work and lives.

About Lovelie Tejada:

Lovelie Tejada is the Chief of Staff at the New York Immigration Coalition (NYIC), where she plays a pivotal role in executing key initiatives, guiding strategic vision, and coordinating interdepartmental projects. Most recently, she was the Director of Community Engagement, overseeing outreach efforts in New York City and Western New York.

Previously, Lovelie served as Congresswoman Yvette Clarke's Director of Outreach, where she helped integrate the voices of residents into policy priorities. Her career has been centered around empowering marginalized communities and advocating for social justice. She holds a BA in Political Science and Film Studies from Trinity College.

🔗 Connect with Lovelie Tejada:🌐 LinkedIn: Lovelie Tejada

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“If you have come here to help me, you are wasting your time, but if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together.” — Lilla Watson

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Connect with Host William Wright:

📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @coreremastered🌍 Website: www.coreremastered.com

This episode is a thought-provoking discussion on authenticity, advocacy, empowerment, and the role of community in social justice. Tune in for a deeper understanding of what it means to live your truth and make a real impact! 🎙💡

Episode 10: Creating Meaningful Careers – with Michael Trugman

In this episode of the I AM Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Mike Trugman, a Professional Life and Career Coach, to explore the journey of creating a meaningful career. They discuss transitioning from traditional careers to coaching, the importance of finding purpose and joy in work, and how societal constructs influence personal fulfillment.

Mike shares his insights on self-reflection, emotional intelligence, and understanding one’s wants, needs, and desires. They also examine the concept of profit beyond money, redefining success in ways that align with personal values. The conversation takes a fun turn with a hypothetical Avengers segment, emphasizing the importance of recognizing both superpowers and humanity in oneself.

About Mike Trugman:

Mike Trugman is a Professional Life and Career Coach who helps clients move from fear to thriving with purpose, passion, and fulfillment. He is the host of Mike’s Search for Meaning, a top 3% podcast dedicated to mastering what it means to be human.

Before transitioning into coaching, Mike spent over 10 years in public accounting, focusing on financial services, hedge funds, and private equity clients. His own personal journey—from fearful and hesitant to confident and thriving—fuels his passion for helping others achieve beyond their wildest dreams.

Mike lives in the greater New York City area with his wife and son. He enjoys reading, learning, cooking, spending time outdoors, and watching the Knicks and Jets—despite their struggles!

Connect with Mike Trugman:Podcast: Mike’s Search for MeaningLinkedIn: Michael TrugmanInstagram: @mike.trugmanWebsite: www.miketrugman.com

Connect with Host Will Wright:

Email: [email protected]: @coreremasteredWebsite: www.coreremastered.com