#171 In this powerful and honest conversation, Kim’s dear friend Niki shares the story behind those words. Raised in a culture that promised women they could “have it all,” Niki pursued success, independence, and a career-first life—believing everything else would fall into place later.

But life didn’t unfold the way she expected.

With vulnerability and wisdom, Niki reflects on what she wishes she had known, how her faith drifted in her early years, and the moment everything began to change. Her story is both a gentle warning and a beautiful reminder: it’s never too late for God to redeem, restore, and lead us into something better.

This episode is for every woman who wants to follow God—but feels the tension of all the voices telling her what her life should look like.

Related Episodes:

• #53 Jena on Contentment
• #71 Why Waiting Was Worth It
• #118 Discipleship and the Single Girl
• #167 Your Single Season is Doing More Than You Realize
• #170 When Singleness Feels Unsteady: The Anchor You Need

The full video episode is available on Spotify--enjoy!

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