#158 Waiting can feel exhausting—whether it’s waiting for a husband, an answered prayer, or simply life to move forward. In this episode, Kim sits down with Jena and Charlotte to unpack Isaiah 40:31 and discover what it really means to “wait on the Lord.”

Together, they explore how biblical waiting isn’t passive, but an active choice to entwine your heart with God’s purposes—trusting Him to renew your strength and lift you above your circumstances. You’ll hear honest reflections about impatience, comparison, and control, as well as practical rhythms that help you “ride God’s thermals” instead of wearing yourself out.

If you’ve ever felt weary, overlooked, or tired of waiting, this conversation will encourage you with fresh perspective and give you practical steps to keep trusting God in your season of waiting.

Because loving your husband before you even have one often begins with learning how to love and trust God first.

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Repost of Episode #84: Ever feel like life isn’t quite what you pictured? Maybe you’re walking through a transition, waiting for things to get easier, or simply wanting to grow in contentment where you are right now. You’re not alone—we get it! That’s why we invited Megan Coye to join us and share her top 3 practical tips for learning how to love where you’re at—no matter your season.

#156 In this final episode of our Good Guys of Summer series, we’re sitting down with Corey—a dad of four daughters—who’s giving us a rare look into the heart of a “girl dad.” From sweet one-on-one daddy-daughter dates to how he prays specifically for each of his girls, Corey shares the kind of wisdom, encouragement, and truth every young woman needs to hear.

Whether you grew up with a loving dad, a complicated relationship, or no dad at all, this conversation will leave you encouraged, grounded in truth, and reminded that you are deeply loved and valued.

So grab your coffee, pull up a chair, and listen in as a girl dad “spills the secrets” on what he hopes every young woman knows—before she ever says “I do.”

Resources mentioned in this episode:

A Praying Life, by Paul Miller

Listen to Tonya on Episode #15 and Episode #106

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#156 What does Proverbs have to say about relationships—and how can this ancient wisdom help you avoid modern-day relational messes?

In this episode of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One, Kim and returning co-host Leah sit down with pastor, author, and clean-comedy fan Jamie Trussell for a practical and hilarious conversation.

Jamie shares four timeless (and surprisingly convicting) Proverbs-based tips for wiser relationships. You’ll laugh, reflect, and walk away with real wisdom you can apply now—even before you’re married.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• From Couch to Couch by Jamie Trussell
• The Downline Podcast, hosted by Jamie Trussell
• LYH Episode #147 Feel It, Heal It: Steps to Process Your Emotions
• Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One Book

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#155 We're in our series "The Good Guys of Summer," introducing you to men who are pursuing God and giving us an inside look at what really matters to them.

Ever wonder what really stands out to a godly man when he thinks about who he might marry someday? In this honest and eye‑opening conversation, Dave—who mentors college guys in their faith—shares four qualities he tells them to look for in a woman. If you’ve ever questioned whether the choices you’re making now matter for your future marriage, this episode will both challenge and encourage you. 💛

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#154 What if the kind of guy you hope to marry someday is already out there… quietly stacking chairs after a church meeting, helping a friend move, or giving someone a ride home?

In today’s episode, we’re talking with a single guy who’s learning to live a life of service—and why that matters more than you might think. Whether you’re hoping to spot character in someone else or grow it in yourself, this conversation will inspire you to start loving your future husband by becoming someone who serves like Jesus—right now.

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠.

Listen to the audio version of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One on Spotify or wherever you listen to audio books.

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#153 We're in our "Good Guys of Summer" series, and in this episode, we sit down with Danny to talk about something all of us wrestle with: patience. What does it look like to wait well—not just in dating, but in every area of life? How do we trust God when His timing feels frustrating or unclear? You’ll hear real-life encouragement, a few honest struggles, and some biblical wisdom that will help you stay grounded in seasons of waiting.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Episode #66 Four Reasons Why He's Not Asking You Out

• The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer

• Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book

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#152: In this episode of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One, we’re sitting down with Matt, one of our “Good Guys of Summer,” to talk honestly about singleness—from a guy’s perspective. If you’re single, love Jesus, and hope to be married someday, this conversation will encourage you to see your single years not as a waiting room but as a time of purpose.

Matt shares why singleness isn’t second place, how culture often sells us a smaller story, and what it really looks like to trust God with your future love story. He talks openly about the tension between desire and surrender, the freedom this season brings, and how to make the most of it—all with wisdom, humility, and just enough humor.

If you’ve ever wondered if God sees you, if singleness is really a gift, or if there are still good guys out there—this episode is for you.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• John Piper Video "Single in Christ: A Name Better Than Sons and Daughters" on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvhsYU1p3a8

• Episode #86 Enjoying God

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#151: Feel like the kitchen is intimidating?

You're not alone--but it doesn't have to stay that way! In this episode, Hailey (star of "Cooking at Kaleo") joins us to share simple, motivating tips to help you grow more confident cooking at home.

Whether you want to eat healthier, save money, or just feel more capable, this conversation will give you a great place to start.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Cooking at Kaleo YouTube videos: https://www.youtube.com/@haileypoints8825

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#150 Graduating from college is exciting… and overwhelming. You’re stepping into a whole new world—maybe a new job, new city, or new stage of life. In this episode, Kim and Char welcome Madison to help you launch strong. From building spiritual habits in a busy schedule to finding real community (even if it means sitting by strangers at church), this conversation is packed with practical wisdom for single women in transition.

Whether you’re feeling lost, lonely, or just ready for what’s next, this episode will help you root your identity in Christ, take initiative in your new season, and grow into the kind of woman who thrives—and loves her husband before she even has one.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• TheBibleRecap.com
• #126 Inside the Community of an Aspiring Good Guy
• #105 Can't I Just Watch Church Online?
• #91 Dealing With Change
• #49 Alcohol: To Drink or Not to Drink
• #25 Tips for Being the New Girl

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