#167 This episode marks the beginning of our sunset season—and what better way to begin than with the voices who helped start it all.

In this conversation, Kim is joined by the original co-hosts, Adrienne and Leah, and we reflect on what God has done through Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One over the past five years. Together, we look back with gratitude and talk honestly about what they’re especially thankful they invested in during their single years—and how that faithfulness is bearing fruit now in marriage and motherhood.

From discipleship and work ethic to physical health, waiting, finances, and counseling, this episode grounds the message of the podcast in lived wisdom. It’s a reminder that the choices you make in singleness—especially the unseen ones—are never wasted.

As we step into this final season together, Kim's hope is that these conversations help you carry what matters most forward with peace, trust, and hope for what God has ahead.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Leah's episodes: #3, #110,

Leah's episode on emotions: #147

Courtney's episode: #129

Adrienne's episodes: #28, #112,

Money episodes: #9, #9B, #9C, #45,

Sam's episode on gossip #32

Jena's episode on contentment: #53

Cat's episode on waiting: #71

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠.

Here's the Amazon link for the book: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Your-Husband-Before-Even/dp/196280254X/ref=monarch_sidesheet_title

Instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

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#166 With Valentine's Day around the corner, this felt like the perfect time to bring back one of the most foundational episodes from the early days of the podcast.

In this conversation, Kim and OG co-host Adrienne talk about the difference between love-if, love-because, and love-regardless--and why understanding true love can protect your heart from relationships built on feelings alone.

This message changed the trajectory of Kim's life as a college student, and she still believes it's one every woman needs to hear. Kim and Adrienne are joined by special guest Steve Shadrach, who shares wisdom from the Bible study that helped shape Kim's understanding of real, lasting love.

Whether you're single, dating, or just reflecting during Valentine's season, this episode is worth a listen (or re-listen).

Get your copy of the book that started this podcast at https://amzn.to/4qrBRBZ

For more information about the podcast, please visit https://www.kimvollendorf.com

#165 As 2025 comes to a close, we thought we'd revisit our favorite episode from the year.

You guys loved it when Danny was a guest this summer! In Episode #153, he sat down with us to talk about patience.

• What does it look like to wait well--not just in dating, but in every area of life?

• How do we trust God when His timing feels frustrating or unclear?

You'll hear real-life encouragement, a few honest struggles, and some Biblical wisdom that will help you stay grounded in seasons of waiting--all from a guy's point of view!

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Episode #66 Four Reasons Why He's Not Asking You Out
• The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer
• Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One Book
• kimvollendorf.com

#164 What does reading the Bible have to do with singleness, relationships, and a future marriage?

More than you might think.

In this episode, Kim is joined by co-hosts Jena and Charlotte to talk about one of the most formative rhythms of the Christian life: reading God’s Word. Together, they share their personal experiences with reading through the Bible—what they loved, what felt hard, what kept them coming back—and why this habit has shaped the way they see God, themselves, love, and marriage.

If you’ve ever felt intimidated by the Bible, fallen behind on a reading plan, or wondered whether reading the Bible “really makes a difference,” this conversation is for you. We talk honestly about common struggles (hello, Leviticus 😅), give practical tips for building consistency without guilt, and remind you that the goal isn’t perfection—it’s relationship.

We’ll also invite you to read through the Bible with us in 2026 using The Bible Recap, and we’ll show you exactly how to join us so you don’t have to do it alone.

Whether you’re single, married, brand new to the Bible, or coming back after a break, this episode will encourage you to open God’s Word with fresh confidence—and maybe even excitement.

Because loving your husband before you even have one starts with knowing the God who designed love in the first place.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

To read the Bible with us:

1. Download the Bible app--> https://www.bible.com/

2. Click on the link below to join our group:

Would you read the Bible Plan, The Bible Recap With Tara-Leigh Cobble, with me?

3.Any problems joining the group? Just email Kim at [email protected]

For more information about the Bible app and for other reading plan ideas go to https://www.bible.com/

For more information about The Bible Recap go to https://www.thebiblerecap.com/start

For more information about the podcast, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠.

If you are interested in getting a new copy of the book Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One, please use this link on Amazon-->https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Your-Husband-Before-Even/dp/196280254X/ref=monarch_sidesheet_title

To learn more about StuMo, visit https://www.stumo.org/

For video clips from this episode, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

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#163 Are you tired of the Christian “try harder” cycle—be consistent, fall off, feel guilty, reset, repeat?

You’re not alone. And Jesus never meant for your relationship with Him to feel like that.

In this episode, Charlotte and Kim talk with Baylor StuMo staffer Kenzie, who shares why so many young women misunderstand the Christian life… and how Jesus offers something far better than spiritual perfectionism. If you’ve ever wondered why your walk with God feels stuck, this conversation will set your heart free.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Episode #54 The Best News Ever
• Episode #146 Celebrating 40 Years: An Honest Chat with Kim about Faith, Relationships, and Finishing Strong

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠.

To learn more about StuMo, visit https://www.stumo.org/

For video clips from this episode, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

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#162 One of the most powerful choices you can make while you’re single is to invest in who you’re becoming. There are some things you can't change about yourself—but with God’s help, you can grow your character. And here’s the truth: you can fake character on a date, but you can’t fake it in marriage.

With Thanksgiving just around the corner, we’re bringing back a favorite episode all about cultivating gratitude—a habit that shapes your heart, your relationships, and your future marriage. The entire podcast crew (including Leah!) is here to share real-life stories, practical tips, and biblical insights on how to grow a genuinely thankful heart.

If you’ve been feeling spiritually stagnant, easily frustrated, or just craving a reset heading into the holidays, this episode will help you shift your mindset and your mood.

Listen in and start becoming the woman your future husband will thank God for.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Char's Roommate's Gratitude Journal
• Revive Our Hearts website
• 30-day Gratitude Challenge
• Choosing Gratitude by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠.

To learn more about Downline, visit https://www.downlinememphis.com/emerging-leaders

To fill out an interest form for Downline, visit https://www.downlinememphis.com/emerging-leaders-interest-form

For video clips from this episode, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

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#161 Haley joins Kim and Jena for a powerful conversation about what it means to feel secure — not in your job, your health, your accomplishments, or your relationship status — but in Christ alone. With honesty and humor, Haley shares how God met her in the middle of achievement, illness, and change, proving that His presence is more satisfying than anything the world promises.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• None Like Him by Jen Wilkin
• In His Image by Jen Wilkin
• The Bible Recap
• For more information about the ABC bookmarks, please reach out to Kim at [email protected].

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠ and Amazon.com.

Please note: The book is currently transitioning between publishers. If it isn't available yet, please continue to check back. It will be available soon.

To learn more about StuMo, visit https://www.stumo.org/

For video clips from this episode, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

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#160 Being single can come with real challenges — from loneliness to questions of self-worth to the tension of waiting on God’s timing. In this week’s episode, Kim and Charlotte sit down with Shivani, one of their seasoned single co-workers, to talk honestly about what makes singleness hard and how she’s learned to navigate through those things.

Shiv opens up about:

• Loneliness — and what it looks like to come to God honestly instead of avoiding Him

• Self-Worth — how to stop settling for “scraps” of attention and anchor your identity in God’s delight

• Waiting — how to trust God’s timing, live fully now, and embrace the life He’s given you

If you’ve ever wrestled with unmet desires or wondered if God sees you, this episode will remind you that He does — and that He’s writing a beautiful story in your life, even in the waiting.

Listen in for honest stories, practical encouragement, and a reminder that you don’t have to wait for marriage to live a full, faith-filled life. 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

None Like Him: 10 Ways God is Different Than Us by Jen Wilkin

The Attributes of God by A.W. Tozer

Some of the verses on Shiv's scripture ring:

• Zephaniah 3:17

• Galatians 4:7 

• Isaiah 49:16  

• Isaiah 43:4  

• Ephesians 1:4

• Ephesians 2:10 

  
  

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠ and www.amazon.com.

To learn more about StuMo, visit https://www.stumo.org/

For video clips from this episode, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

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Repost of Episode #117: We all love a good wedding story--but what happens after the honeymoon? In this honest and hope-filled episode, Logan and his wife, Lindsey, open up about the highs, lows, and unexpected lessons from their first year of marriage.

If you're single and dreaming of marriage, this is your chance to peek behind the curtain. You'll hear what surprised them most, what helped them grow, and how God used that first year to strengthen their love.

If you want to love your future husband well--even before you meet him--this conversation will help you build realistic expectations and prepare your heart for the real thing.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Episode #63 When a Social Media Spark Leads to Marriage (Logan and Lindsey's love story)

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠.

To learn more about StuMo, visit https://www.stumo.org/

If you'd like prayer prompts to pray for your future husband, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

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#159 Should you pray for your future husband? In this episode, Charlotte and Kim delve into one of the most frequently asked questions by single women. Together, they explore what the Bible says about prayer, look at examples of people who prayed for deeply personal desires, and unpack how these principles apply to praying for marriage.

You’ll hear:

• Whether Scripture encourages us to pray for a spouse

• Do motives matter?

• The benefits of praying for your future husband—and how it shapes you

• Practical ways to start praying now, even before you meet him

If you’ve ever wondered “Is it okay to ask God for a husband?” or “What if He wants me to be single?”—this conversation will encourage your heart and point you toward God’s wisdom, His timing, and His love for you.

Because around here, we believe you can love your husband before you even have one. 💕

For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠.

To learn more about StuMo, visit https://www.stumo.org/

For video clips from this episode, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠

Thanks for listening!