She thought he was just a family friend. He’d been around for years, came to our house every week, and everyone trusted him. But one night while dog sitting alone at his house, something in her gut told me to look closer… and what I found changed everything. This is the full story of the hidden camera, the warning signs missed, and the terrifying realization that her intuition had been trying to protect me all along. 

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On This Episode We Cover: 

→ 00:00:00 - Introduction 

→ 00:00:51 - What is disc golfing?

→ 00:05:21 - How did she meet “Dave?”

→ 00:09:00 - How did their families get close?  

→ 00:13:10 - How did she get close to his family?

→ 00:18:51 - What happened at the concession stand? 

→ 00:21:27 - How did the age gap influence her first encounter with him?

→ 00:27:41 - Why is it important to trust your intuition?

→ 00:29:17 - Why do we excuse behavior that makes us uncomfortable? 

→ 00:30:05 - What was it like dog sitting for him? 

→ 00:32:31 - What was it like working as a secretary for him? 

→ 00:41:15 - Why was she sleeping in their bed? 

→ 00:46:04 - How did she find the first camera? 

→ 00:46:54 - Where was the first camera? 

→ 00:49:32 - What kind of camera was it 

→ 00:59:28 - How did she take the camera to gather evidence? 

→ 01:02:36 - Did she ever change in front of the camera? 

→ 01:05:33 - How did he access the videos? 

→ 01:09:12 - What was happening with the other family friend? 

→ 01:12:02 - What was his wife like? 

→ 01:14:40 - What was it like filing a police report? 

→ 01:16:22 - Is it legal to film someone without their consent? 

→ 01:20:10 - What happened when she went to get her belongings?

→ 01:23:01 - How did his family react to the news? 

→ 01:30:01 - How did he groom her entire family? 

→ 01:34:11 - What was he charged with? 

→ 01:39:33 - Why wasn’t she able to read a victim impact statement? 

→ 01:45:51 - What kind of photos of children did they find? 

→ 01:52:09 - How did this impact her ability to trust others? 

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