I Saw Him First

By AnjySociety & Culture Relationships

I Saw Him First episodes

June 08, 2024 EP.77 The Psychology of Mate Poaching - The Rizz, The Cheats & The Extroverts
Let's get into the intriguing world of dating psychology as we explore why extroverts are more prone to mate poaching and infidelity. Are extroverted individuals really more likely to cheat? What makes them successful at "rizz" and attracting partners? Does that mean people dating introverts are safe?
In this episode, we break down a fascinating psychology study that sheds light on these behaviors. I discuss:
- The prevalence of mate poaching today.
- How extroverts use their charisma and social skills to attract their friends' partners.
- Whether or not all extroverts will cheat on you
TIMESTAMP00:00 Dump your man if he's an extrovert
01:31 Mate Poaching03:40 Shocking Statistics on the success rate of mate poaching05:36 What does extroversion have to do with cheating?07:26 My plot twist on the study results09:46 Interesting studies and breaking world records
I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
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?sub_confirmation=1
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#matepoaching #datingpsychology #cheaters #extroverts #personalitytypes #introvertvsextrovert #dating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingbehaviours #singlemen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #isawhimfirstpodcast #chriswilliamson #modernwisdom #jordanpeterson #tamkaur #courtneyryan #caseyzander
12 min
May 19, 2024 EP.76 A message to the SINGLE and LONELY people...
Feeling lonely and tired of being single?
You CAN be single and happy!
This video is a must-watch for anyone struggling with solitude, self doubt, sadness, and yearning for a deeper connection. What if I told you that there are several benefits to being single? What if I said that single people may actually be happier than people in relationships? Discover empowering insights and practical tips to transform your mindset and embrace this phase of your life with confidence. Don't let loneliness hold you back—watch now and start your journey towards a fulfilling, happy single life!
I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw==
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰
#singlewomen #singleandhappy #howtobehappyalone #overcomeloneliness #singlelife #personalgrowth #girltalk #girlchat #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #highvaluemen #independentwomen #lonelywomen #onlinedating #toxicrelationships #datingproblems #relationshipproblems #datingadviceforwomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #beinghappysingle #matthewhussey #modernwisdom #motivationalvideo #isawhimfirstpodcast
(This video is about: how to be happy single, 3 things that make single people happier than people in relationships, the benefits of being single, the desire for companionship, relationships and marriage, dating, relationships, responsibilities of marriage and kids, advice for single men and women, loneliness in your single era)
22 min
April 21, 2024 EP.75 Married for 30+ Years - The Secrets to HAPPILY EVER AFTER
Unlock the Secrets to a Lasting Relationship: 5 Tips from a Couple Together for 30+ Years.
Looking for the key to long-lasting love? In this exclusive, I discuss my interaction with a a couple who've been together for over three decades, to uncover their secrets to relationship success. They shared their invaluable insights, packed with wisdom that can transform your love life. Don't miss out on this intimate conversation about love, commitment, and the secrets to lasting happiness.
Subscribe for more relationship tips, share your thoughts in the comments below, and hit the like button if you found this video valuable!
#RelationshipGoals #LoveTips #LongLastingLove #RelationshipAdvice #30YearsTogether #CoupleGoals #LoveAndHappiness #RelationshipSecrets #HealthyRelationships #LoveAndCommitment
I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for what they want, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre... you CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw==
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰
#datinginyour20s #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #datingsecrets #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #datingstorytime #datingstories #younglove #togetherforever #seriousrelationship #longtermrelationships #longdistancerelationship #marriagesuccess #successstories #happycouple #isawhimfirstpodcast
16 min
April 13, 2024 EP.74 STORYTIME: Unbelievable Bumble Date Disaster!
In this juicy storytime, I spill the tea on my disastrous Bumble rendezvous. From being 30 minutes late to tipsiness and corkiness.. this date took an unexpected turn! Get ready for laughs, cringes, and learn a lesson or two about online dating. Hit that play button now and let's get into the drama!
#BumbleDate #DatingDisaster #storytime
I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw==
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰
#datingapps #onlinedating #datinginyour20s #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicmen #datingappdisaster #datingbehaviours #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #datingstorytime #bumbledatefail #datingstories #bumbledatedisaster #datingstorytime #datinghorrorstories #isawhimfirstpodcast #everythingwrongwithonlinedating
11 min
March 31, 2024 EP.73 Love is Blind Season 6 RECAP: The Good, The Bad & The Megan Fox Look Alike
Let's get into the latest season of Love is Blind with this no-nonsense recap! The lies from Jimmy, the betrayal from Jeramey, the insecurities from Chelsea and AD, the toxic behaviour from Trevor, the cheating scare from Clay, the proclaimed Megan Fox look-alikeness from Chelsea, the cheeky epi pen comment from Jessica, the Sarah-Ann drama, the girl's girl comment from Laura, the Amy & Johnny love story, the reunion.. and much more :)
I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw==
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰
#LoveIsBlind #loveisblindseason6 #loveisblindSeason6Recap #MeganFoxLookAlike #datingshow #blinddate #realitytv #realitytvshows #realitytvstars #loveisblindcast #datingpsychology #highvaluemen #insecurities #onlinedating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingproblems #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #isawhimfirstpodcast
(This video is about: Love is Blind Season 6, Love is Blind recap, Megan Fox look alike, Love is Blind review, reality TV, Netflix, relationships, drama, romance, blindfolded love, must-watch, couples, plot twist, love is blind reunion, love is blind exclusive)
40 min
March 21, 2024 EP.72 Exposing our Unhinged Dating Habits
EVERYTHING WRONG WITH MODERN DATING.
Unfiltered and absolutely unginged podcast today about the toxic realities of modern dating! From swiping patterns on dating apps to dating trends, dating psychology, hypergamy, looks maxxing, and all the other challenges of today's modern dating landscape.
I also spoke about the impact of hookup culture on commitment. So whether you're navigating the dating scene yourself or simply curious about the trends shaping modern relationships, this podcast episode offers valuable insights and thought-provoking analysis. ENJOY :)))))))
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Everything wrong with modern dating
00:33 Intro
00:47 No. 1 - False Perception of our attractiveness
06:30 No. 2 - Delusion
11:14 No. 3 - Hypergamy and the education gender gap
13:54 No. 4 - Maxmizers
16:21 No. 5 - Commitment issues & hookup culture
I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw==
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰
#hypergamy #datingapps #datingpsychology #highvaluemen #onlinedating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingup #datingapps #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #isawhimfirstpodcast #chriswilliamson #modernwisdom #jordanpeterson #tamkaur #courtneyryan #caseyzander #everythingwrongwith
21 min
March 17, 2024 EP.71 Most Men Are Ugly
Modern dating really is the survival of the fittest! Today's podcast is a thought-provoking discussion about our swiping patterns on dating apps as women, compared to men. This was inspired by a Reddit post about beauty standards and societal perception of the regular everyday man on the physical attractiveness scale. Has online dating really become so superficial and heavily skewed towards the higher percentile of attractive men - aka "High Value Men"? Are most men really ugly?
#highvaluemen #hypergamy #askreddit #redditstories #onlinedating #mostmenareugly #datingapps #relationshippodcast #girlchat #highstandards #dating #datingup #moderndating #podcastondating #datingpodcast #DatingLife #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #genuineconnection #truelove #lovelife #superficiallove #looksmatter #looksmaxing #survivalofthefittest #unrealisticexpectations #unpopularopinions #ukpodcast #isawhimfirstpodcast
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe.
(This video is about: a reddit post about whether or not most men are ugly, why women think this way, the men that women find the most attractive, hypergamy, high value men, the education gender gap, dating in 2024, swiping on the top 15% of men on dating apps)
11 min
March 09, 2024 EP.70 When Did Love Become So UNCOOL? | Modern Dating & Hookup Culture
Let's talk about the complexities of modern dating. In a world where casual relationships and hookup culture is quickly becoming the norm, it has become so uncool to admit that you want a genuine connection. When did wanting to be loved become so uncool? Perhaps this is perceived as being synonymous with desperately longing for love and affection?
In this candid episode, I recap a recent encounter during a house party and share my thoughts on the state of modern dating in 2024. From dating apps to "Love is Blind" Season 6! No spoiler :)
But it's not all doom and gloom! Loneliness is a normal emotion. What's important is keeping your standards high while navigating the dating scene. Remember, wanting that passionate, crazy kind of love is NOT uncool!
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 relatable AF?
00:48 podcast intro
00:59 let's talk about it
01:19 casual sex and hookup culture
02:22 girl chat - house party recap
03:55 desperate for love vs wanting a true connection
07:00 love is blind Season 6
08:42 the state of modern dating
11:25 loneliness is just like every other emotion
12:52 keeping your standards high
14:18 wanting to be loved is not uncool
16:22 i want that passionate crazy kinda love
#moderndating #hookupculture #loveisblindseason6 #loveisblind #casualsex #girlchat #onlinedating #datingin2024 #datingapps #casualdating #datingtomarry #highstandards #loneliness #datinginyour20s #datingintheuk #Relationships #dating #ModernRelationships #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #ukpodcast #ukdatingpodcast #solopodcast #DatingJourney #relationshipadvice #DatingLife #SingleLife #singleladies #SelfReflection #SelfImprovement #DatingAdvice #Introspection #EmotionalGrowth #SelfEmpowerment #isawhimfirstpodcast
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe.
(This video is about: Dating Life, why is it so uncool to want love? dating in your 20s, love is blind season 6, online dating, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you should stop dating for fun, casual sex, Life Choices, Self Awareness, Love Yourself, Personal Journey, casual dating, Relationship Goals, Self Improvement, hookup culture, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Life Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Inner Peace, Personal Development, Growth Mindset, dating with standards)
19 min
March 01, 2024 EP.69 Stop dating the "good guys" - you're SETTLING
Society loves to tell women that as long as he's a "good guy," nothing else matters. But is that true, or are you really just settling for less than you deserve in a relationship? In this thought-provoking podcast, I delve deep into the pervasive myth of dating the so-called "good guys" and why it may not always lead to happy ending you may have pictured!Contrary to popular beliefs, being with a good guy does not mean that you're with the right guy, and caring about seemingly superficial things like height, physical attraction and social status (AKA high value men), does not make you TOO PICKY. So I hope this video inspires you to break free from societal norms and find genuine connection, longevity, and complete satisfaction in your love life. P.S. This dating advice is not just for single women. People in relationships can benefit from this, and hopefully, it changes the way you approach dating and relationships forever.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Good guys can be hot too
00:30 Welcome back to my podcast
00:46 Can women have it all?
01:18 You don't have to settle
01:53 The best or worst decision of your life
02:42 Do you have unrealistic expectations?
03:05 Things you should value in a relationship
04:06 Dating storytime
05:13 What you shouldn't compromise on
06:44 Societal expectations to settle for "nice guys"
08:06 Walking away from a good man
09:53 "stop being too picky"
10:40 wait, you deserve to be with the right person
12:42 why you should never settle for the wrong relationship
#bestdatingadvice #dontsettleforless #datingpodcast #girlchat #highstandards #SelfReflection #Relationships #dating #goodguys #niceguys #datingup #ModernRelationships #podcastondating #datingadviceforwomen #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #DatingLife #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #relationships #settling #datinggoodguys #relationshipsatisfaction #genuineconnection #ltruelove #lovelife #expertinsights #unpopularopinions #relationshipfulfillment #isawhimfirstpodcast
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe.
(This video is about: society telling women to settle, why dating good guys alone is not enough, dating in your 20s, dating life, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you want the best for yourself, never settling in dating, Life Choices, Self Awareness, Relationship advice, Self Improvement, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Emotional Growth, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Self Realization, Dating Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Personal Development, dating with standards, high standard, hypergamy, societal norms in dating, dating expectations)
14 min
February 22, 2024 EP.68 Why I Stopped Dating at 25
Curious about why someone would put the brakes on dating in their 20s? Should you stop dating too? Will I really never date again? Whether you're navigating your own dating journey or simply intrigued by the idea of taking a break from the dating scene, this video is for you! In this candid storytime, I delve into the personal journey that led me to make the decision to stop dating at 25. From the multiple failed relationship to unmet expectations, being told you have standards that are too high, self-discovery, self doubt, and then living the lonely single life.. I share all the raw and honest reasons behind my choice. Join me as I explore the complexities of modern relationships in 2024.#moderndating #highstandards #SelfReflection #Relationships #dating #hypergamy #datingup #ModernRelationships #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #PersonalGrowth #SelfLove #DatingJourney #SelfDiscovery #relationshipadvice #BreakFromDating #DatingLife #SingleLife #SelfReflection #SelfAwareness #PersonalJourney #EmotionalWellness #SelfImprovement #DatingAdvice #LifeDecisions #Introspection #EmotionalGrowth #SelfEmpowerment #SelfDiscoveryJourney #isawhimfirstpodcast
Hi, I'm Anjy :)
This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞
SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into!
FIND ME HERE 🎤📹
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1
My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy
?sub_confirmation=1
THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe.
(This video is about: DatingLife, why i stopped dating, dating in your 20s, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you should stop dating, Mindfulness, Life Choices, Self Awareness, SelfCare, Love Yourself, Personal Journey, Emotional Wellness, Relationship Goals, Self Improvement, Millennial Life, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Emotional Growth, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Self Realization, Self Love Journey, Finding Yourself, Life Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Inner Peace, Personal Development, Growth Mindset, dating with standards, high standards. )
14 min