I See What You're Saying

By Michael Reddington

Truly becoming a great listener and influential communicator requires people to embrace the universality of the human experience. Join Certified Forensic Interviewer Michael Reddington as he speaks wi... more

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October 22, 2025Improve Decision Making for Better Outcomes | Greg Dinkin | Ep. 125
In this episode, we dive into the science and strategy of decision-making with expert decision coach Greg Dinkin. We explore how focusing on decisions rather than outcomes can transform our approach to challenges, drawing on lessons from poker, executive coaching, and practical psychology. Through empowering questions, forward-thinking strategies, and real-world examples, we discover the mindset and habits that set winners apart. Join us as we uncover actionable tools for making better choices, handling pressure, and creating lasting success in both our professional and personal lives.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Michael introduces Greg Dinkin, decision coach and poker champion.
(03:08) - Greg explains what it means to be a decision coach.
(04:56) - Discussing the mantra “decisions, not outcomes.”
(09:56) - How to plan moves ahead in decision making and negotiation.
(13:30) - Preparing for high-pressure situations by deciding in advance.
(18:25) - The power and strategy of asking the right questions.
(22:04) - Michael and Greg discuss the crucial role of listening in decision processes.
(27:38) - Greg details how context and motive influence observing behavior.
(34:23) - Importance of debriefing and accountability after outcomes.
(35:31) - Greg shares the “thermostat vs thermometer” winner’s mindset concept.

Links and Resources:
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Greg Dinkin | LinkedIn

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October 15, 2025Discover How Humor Can Be Learned and Harnessed in the Workplace | Andrew Tarvin | Ep. 124
In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of humor in the workplace with comedian, author, and consultant Andrew Tarvin. We explore the science and art behind humor, distinguish between comedy and everyday levity, and reveal seven essential humor competencies that anyone can learn to drive engagement and effectiveness. From practical techniques like the comic triple to strategies for reading the room and staying appropriate, we uncover valuable ways that humor boosts problem-solving, increases connection, and creates a true competitive advantage. Join us as we unlock actionable insights to elevate our professional relationships, productivity, and everyday interactions through the skillful use of humor.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing Andrew Tarvin, comedian and workplace humor expert.
(04:54) - Andrew explains why humor is a valuable professional skill.
(09:19) - Difference between humor and comedy in the workplace.
(11:06) - Humor as a learnable skill and Andrew’s journey to being funnier.
(14:55) - Seven humor personas and competencies discussed.
(19:33) - Importance of practicing humor safely and learning from feedback.
(25:20) - Research on appropriate versus inappropriate workplace humor.
(31:32) - Applying humor as a problem-solving tool.
(39:43) - The four styles of humor and workplace appropriateness.
(58:23) - Andrew’s “one smile per hour” strategy for daily humor.

Links and Resources:
humor speaker | engineer | comedian - (an)drew tarvin | Founder of Humor That Works | Speaker, Author, Consultant
Andrew Tarvin | LinkedIn

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October 08, 2025How Crisis Negotiation & CBT Techniques Improve Listening | Andy Fairie
In this episode, we dive into the essential listening and communication skills that truly make a difference in challenging conversations, with insights from retired police inspector, crisis negotiator, and cognitive behavioral therapist Andy Fairie. We explore the powerful distinction between listening and problem-solving, practical techniques for de-escalating heightened emotions, and the art of earning the right to have our say. Through real-world examples and actionable frameworks, we discover how their approach can enhance understanding, build trust, and transform how we connect with others—even in the most intense moments. Join us as we uncover practical tools to improve both our personal and professional conversations in this insightful and value-packed discussion.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing guest Andy Fairie, retired police inspector and author.
(04:50) - Why "listening is not problem solving" in crisis and everyday life.
(08:23) - Example of crisis negotiation and power of simply listening.
(13:56) - Building trust through small gestures and genuine connection.
(16:01) - Pitfalls of telling people to "calm down" or "I understand."
(17:55) - Emotional labeling as a tool for de-escalation.
(25:25) - Andy explains the SIMPLE framework for effective listening.
(38:04) - How to use "I when because" statements to express impact.
(45:05) - Importance and technique of practicing breathing for calm communication.
(51:16) - Research on empathy in policing and the risk of compassion fatigue.

Links and Resources:
Andy Fairie | LinkedIn
Amazon.com: Listening Skills for Effective Policing eBook : Fairie, Andy: Kindle Store

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1h 5min
October 01, 2025Science-Based Interviewing Techniques to Uncover the Truth | Christian Cory
In this episode, we delve into the science-backed techniques of investigative interviewing with Christian Corey, a seasoned police captain and expert in eliciting the truth. We explore how open-ended questions, strategic evidence disclosure, and disciplined listening transform the way we gather information—not just in law enforcement, but in business and everyday life.
Uncover practical strategies to foster trust, avoid common interview pitfalls, and build rapport, empowering them to solve problems and guide conversations with confidence.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing guest Christian Corey.
(04:57) - Christian explains the power of big free narrative questions.
(06:31) - Discussing the importance of allowing yourself to be surprised and staying curious.
(08:17) - How to frame open-ended questions for better information gathering.
(10:00) - The patience and control gained by letting people talk freely.
(12:25) - The value of listening to lies and using them strategically.
(17:26) - Christian defines the investigator’s mindset as following evidence and embracing adaptability.
(21:44) - Red teaming explained and its role in challenging assumptions.
(32:30) - Planning strategic evidence disclosure and maximizing information from interviews.
(41:44) - The benefits of active listening and building rapport during interviews.

Links and Resources:
Home - National Policing Institute
Christian Cory | LinkedIn
Home | National Institute of Justice
Project Aletheia – A Collaborative Center for Improving the Science and Practice of Interrogation

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1h 2min
September 24, 2025How a Blind Jiu Jitsu Black Belt Observes On and Off the Mat | Jim Neitzel
In this episode, we have the privilege of hearing Jim Neitzel’s remarkable journey as he adapts to life and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu after losing his eyesight. We explore how Jim’s unique perspective transforms not just his martial arts practice, but also his approach to communication, listening, and teaching others. Through powerful stories and actionable insights, we discover the importance of contextual awareness, nonverbal communication, and finding the elegant solution in life’s challenges.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing Jim Neitzel and his journey with vision loss.
(05:06) - Jim explains adapting to progressive blindness.
(09:16) - Emphasizing the mindset of "learning your way out" of challenges.
(13:55) - Jim discusses adapting Jiu Jitsu training as his vision deteriorated.
(15:59) - Enhancing listening skills and using other senses in Jiu Jitsu.
(18:16) - Techniques for listening to instruction and inferring details.
(22:41) - Listening to nonverbal cues like breathing during grappling.
(26:35) - The importance of context in both martial arts and communication.
(37:01) - Jim shares his approach to teaching Jiu Jitsu for diverse learning styles.
(52:34) - Adopting a counterpuncher's mindset for communication and problem-solving.

Links and Resources:
www.JimNeitzel.com
www.LakesideBJJ.com

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1h 9min
September 17, 2025How Investigative Interviewing Techniques Can Transform Your Conversations | David Lund | Ep. 120
In this episode, we sit down with David Lund, Executive Director of the International Association of Interviewers, to uncover the real meaning behind being a Certified Forensic Interviewer and to explore the science-backed techniques that drive ethical and effective investigative conversations. Together, we examine how principles of disciplined listening, empathy, and rapport aren’t just invaluable in interviews and interrogations, but also transform business, leadership, and family communications. Listeners gain powerful, actionable strategies for gathering information, building trust, and uncovering the truth in any high-stakes situation. Join us to discover how adopting an investigative mindset elevates our everyday conversations and leads us to better results.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing David Lund.
(04:34) - What it means to be a Certified Forensic Interviewer (CFI).
(06:42) - Applying investigative interviewing skills to everyday high-stakes conversations.
(10:39) - The investigative mindset of a CFI.
(15:37) - Ethics and humility in interviews are explored.
(21:34) - How CFI techniques help in leadership and corporate settings.
(29:38) - Key interview and interrogation techniques used by CFIs explained.
(41:40) - Debunking common nonverbal myths and old interview misconceptions.
(47:51) - The future of interviewing and evolving scientific approaches.
(52:41) - Resources, upcoming events, and how to learn more about CFI.

Links and Resources:
Home - Wicklander-Zulawski
https://www.certifiedinterviewer.com/
David Lund, CFI, LPC, MBA | LinkedIn

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1h
September 10, 2025How School Resource Officers Build Trust & Impact Kids | Vic Montalvo | Ep. 119
In this episode, we have the privilege of learning from Officer Vic Montalvo, a seasoned law enforcement professional who brings a unique, compassionate approach to serving as a School Resource Officer. We explore the vital role empathy, relationship-building, and genuine care play in creating safe, positive educational environments for students and staff alike. By prioritizing learning over punishment and investing deeply in the well-being of children and their families, Officer Vic demonstrates how law enforcement can profoundly impact communities beyond enforcement alone. Join us as we uncover powerful lessons on trust, leadership, and human connection that can transform the way we work with young people and support our communities.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing Officer Vic Montalvo and his background in law enforcement.
(01:29) - Importance of school resource officers who want to work with kids.
(04:43) - Host shares personal experiences with school resource officers.
(07:31) - Officer Vic explains how building relationships with students is key.
(10:14) - Early career influence from working school outreach in New York City.
(16:28) - Gaining trust and integrating with school staff and community.
(21:22) - Connecting kids with positive activities and community sponsors.
(25:10) - Impact of empathy and prioritizing learning over punishment.
(31:56) - Teaching students to take responsibility and tell the truth.
(38:05) - Advice for authority figures working with children: be genuine and empathetic.

Links and Resources:
Police | Town of Waxhaw, NC - https://www.waxhaw.com/government/departments/police
[email protected]

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47min
September 03, 2025Transform Your Unconscious Conversations: Master Conscious Communication with Chuck Wisner | Ep. 118
In this episode, we dive into the art of conscious conversations with renowned consultant and author Chuck Wisner. We explore powerful strategies for managing emotions, breaking automatic response patterns, and harnessing the four essential elements behind every opinion and judgment. Gain actionable techniques to slow down high-impact conversations, increase self-awareness, and foster truly collaborative communication at work and at home. Together, we unlock the tools to improve relationships, make better decisions, and transform the way we interact every day.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Michael introduces guest Chuck Wisner and shares his background.
(04:25) - Techniques for managing emotions in difficult conversations.
(09:52) - The importance of increasing self-awareness and examining internal stories.
(13:28) - Recognizing body signals and learning to pause before reacting.
(17:49) - Four key elements shaping our judgments and opinions.
(24:54) - The practice of changing long-held conversational patterns over time.
(25:59) - How open-handed listening leads to better collaboration.
(32:03) - Overview of the four types of conversations and their impact on decision-making.
(46:18) - Clarifying requests to create better commitments and build trust.
(51:08) - Chuck shares a personal story on unhelpful master stories and how to reframe them.

Links and Resources:
Better Conversations at Work and Home | Chuck Wisner
Chuck Wisner | LinkedIn
The Art of Conscious Conversations: Transforming How We Talk, Listen, and Interact

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59min
August 27, 2025Unlock Hidden Creativity for Breakthroughs | Melissa Dinwiddie | Ep. 117
In this episode, we dive into the powerful intersection of creativity and problem solving with innovation strategist Melissa Dinwiddie. We uncover how shifting our self-perception and embracing imperfection can unlock dormant creative potential within us all. Through Melissa’s honest storytelling and practical frameworks, we explore playful techniques for overcoming internal barriers and reframing mistakes as essential steps toward innovation. Join us as we discover actionable strategies to reimagine challenges, spark new ideas, and drive meaningful breakthroughs in our work and lives. If you're interested in learning how to tap into your untapped creativity and break through mental roadblocks, this episode is for you.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing Melissa Dinwiddie.
(03:20) - Melissa's background as a "non-creative" and challenges creativity labels.
(05:29) - Melissa redefines creativity beyond the arts and everyday problem solving.
(08:50) - Strategies for helping “non-creative” people uncover their inner creativity.
(10:49) - The “crappy doodles” exercise to lower the bar and reduce self-criticism.
(13:57) - How others perceive our work versus our own self-judgment.
(18:14) - Melissa introduces her three-step “Create the Impossible” framework.
(23:40) - Blending creativity and problem solving through improvisational processes.
(38:56) - Melissa discusses overcoming perfectionism through self-compassion.
(52:06) - Melissa’s upcoming book and how listeners can connect with her.

Links and Resources:
Melissa Dinwiddie | LinkedIn
Home - Melissa Dinwiddie | Create the Impossible™ | Innovation Keynote Speaker & Consultant
The Creative Sandbox Way: Your Path to a Full-Color Life

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59min
August 20, 2025How to Create Conversations People Want to Join | Graham Drew & Katheryn Mitchell | Ep. 116
In this episode, we sit down with Graham Drew and Katheryn Mitchell, co-founders of the Conversation Lab, to explore the power of intentional communication in driving action and execution within organizations. We uncover practical strategies for overcoming common workplace communication challenges.
From navigating differences and embracing AI thoughtfully, to handling difficult conversations with greater confidence and impact. Graham and Katheryn share actionable tools, like their RAPID framework, and reveal how mastering the human side of conversations leads to stronger relationships and better results.
Join us as we discover how every high-impact conversation holds the key to unlocking greater value in our professional lives.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introducing Graham Drew and Katheryn Mitchell from the Conversation Lab.
(04:24) - The mission and backstory of the Conversation Lab.
(08:42) - The four key communication challenges in business.
(16:35) - The most commonly avoided conversations and why they matter.
(23:08) - Strategies for saying no and offering feedback respectfully.
(28:24) - Graham explains the RAPID framework for effective conversations.
(35:08) - Katheryn highlights moving beyond scripts and building genuine curiosity.
(37:38) - Skills of great communicators: pausing, curiosity, and reading between the lines.
(54:01) - Common language pitfalls that minimize ideas.
(01:01:22) - Final tips, where to follow the Conversation Lab, and listener takeaways.

Links and Resources:
Graham Drew | LinkedIn
The Conversation Lab | Communication training
Cognis Insights
Kathryn Mitchell | LinkedIn
The Conversation Lab | Communication training
Introduction - Coaching with Kathryn Mitchell

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