Have you always wondered what motivates someone to be the other woman? Why they knowingly choose to be with someone who has a partner?

Today on the show we are talking to a woman who has been the other woman. It can be easy to demonise a person for knowingly dating someone who is in a relationship - after all, doesn’t it just come down to values? we think - but of course, the world isn’t as simple as that. So, today we’re talking to a woman called Michelle (yes, a different Michelle) who just happened to fall in love as she entered the police force with a man who had a girlfriend.

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