I think it’s important to see the cultural shifts that affect our families.

Shifts in what used to be some issues for a few, now are so common place that EVERYONE suffers or deals with them.

Serious issues are now considered normal or easily accepted and have become commonplace in our families.

As soon as we make something common place – something we’ve said or thought so many times that we just think it is true – we’ve lost the control to make the decisions of how we want to live or change and how we want our children to live or our family dynamic to look.

We voluntarily become victims.

I know that some people deal with ADHD, anxiety or other issues and some people’s children do.

But we can’t be in this victim mentality where we feel the need to quickly diagnose and either medicate or get therapy to help.

Ask yourself, what else could this be?

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