Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. Reciprocating wedding invites?

2. I'm hesitant to start trying to conceive as a woman in finance.

3. How much is too much to ask people to spend on your birthday?

4. I'm not sure I support my friend's engagement. What should I do?

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