The Mail-In Podcast

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Your questions, answered. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries tackle the problems faced and questions asked by 20 and 30-somethings on a daily basis.... more

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March 28, 2025Do I Attend The Bachelor Party? Feat. Dillon Cheverere & Dave Ruff
We have a throwback full house Mail-In for y'all today featuring Dillon Cheverere and Dave Ruff to go along with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki. Here's what we're working with:
I'm a social drinker and she's sober - is that a dealbreaker?
What's the etiquette on watching shows you normally watch with your spouse when you can't watch them together?
Solo trip to Europe for 3 weeks
Go-to karaoke songs when I'm out with my girlfriend's family for the first time?
My older brother crashed out and is now trying to match with my friends on Hinge
Are you under any obligation to attend the bachelor party if you're not a groomsman?

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1h 3min
March 21, 2025Should You Have Photos Of Your Ex on Instagram?
Happy Friday! We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki. Here's what we're working with this week:
Am I the asshole for wanting to exclude stragglers from our book club?
How do I get my neighbors to stop fighting?
What's your take on your partner having Instagram photos of their ex?
Any tips for putting yourself out there in social settings?
Am I overthinking this meaningless Hinge convo?
Am I a psycho for wanting to drive to a bachelorette party solo?

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1h 4min
March 13, 2025Can You Have Platonic Female Friends?
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries on the mics. Bright and early from Austin, TX. Here's what we've got:
I really don't want to attend my friend's wedding
Can I call someone out for ghosting?
I'm getting laid off. What should I do while I'm "fun-employed"?
Need to say no to a family trip but I feel guilty...
Am I allowed to have female friends?

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February 27, 2025I Hate My Girlfriend's Dog
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman back from IR and Sally deFries in the mix. Here's what we've got:
My wife and I don't want to babysit our nieces and nephews on vacation 24/7.
What's your policy on playing music in the car with a passenger?
I hate my girlfriend's dog.
I'm struggling with the imposter syndrome that comes with a promotion.
Who is leaving candy on my desk at work!?

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58min
February 13, 2025My Girlfriend's Engagement Ring Budget Is Ridiculous
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we're working with:
My best friend is planning her wedding that doesn't exist yet...
I'm not romantically interested in my girlfriend anymore
Attending back to back weddings while being spread thin financially...
I'm frustrated and unconfident in the future of my job and thinking about making a change...
My girlfriend's engagement ring budget is VERY different in her head than mine
Should we move in with my girlfriend's mom?

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1h 10min
February 06, 2025We're No Contact And I Want Her Back...
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman. Here's what we've got:
My fiancee's friend is skipping his bachelor party. Good excuse but do I have a right to be annoyed on his behalf?
I'm 26 and embracing single life. How do I tell people up front I only want to date "casually"?
Can we talk about how weed and CBD have become so normalized?
Experience going no contact after a breakup when you want your ex back?
I thought my friend's bf was going to propose to her at brunch...

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1h 5min
January 30, 2025Why Doesn't My Boyfriend Want To Have Sex With Me?
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
What is Sally's workout routine?
I broke things off with my coworker and now am wondering how to approach being exes in the workplace?
My friend is being a mom-to-be-zilla about her baby shower she asked me to host.
I haven't had sex with my boyfriend I've been dating for 5 months. He always has an excuse of why he doesn't want to. Help.
Any recs for spots near Austin/Dallas/Houston to enjoy? Thinking small town vibes with good scenery, cool shops, and places to relax.

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1h 10min
January 17, 2025Who Gets The Best Bedroom?
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
On a bachelor/bachelorette party, how do you decide rooms at the Airbnb?
Moving with my husband, one-year-old, and dog... I'm nervous!
My girlfriend takes too long to get ready and then complains we're not spontaneous
I've experienced a pregnancy loss and I'm having trouble processing
Things to do in Austin, TX with a child while on vacation

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January 10, 2025I'm Quitting The Dating Game
Happy New Year! We're back in 2025 with a brand new Mail-In featuring Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week:
Telling friends "no" to trips while pregnant
How to handle a mother-in-law that makes you feel like you're not enough
Godparents dilemma
How do you feel about ghosting someone?
I'm 30 and quitting the dating game altogether

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1h 13min
December 19, 2024A Very Mail-In Christmas ft. Randy Trembacki
It's The Mail-In Podcast Christmas Spectacular this week featuring Brett Merriman and special guest, Randy Trembacki! Here's what we've got:
What are your favorite Christmas traditions?
Attending 5 holiday parties with my husband as an introvert...
Splitting AirBNB expenses when one party has a credit
Chicago recs for a January trip?
Am I ready for a new relationship two months post break-up?

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57min

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