The Mail-In Podcast

By The Mail-In

Your questions, answered. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries tackle the problems faced and questions asked by 20 and 30-somethings on a daily basis.... more

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August 14, 2025 Is It Time To Move On?
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries taking on your questions. Here's what we've got:
1. How do I let my friends know we're not interested in swinging?
2. AITA for getting annoyed with my gf for spending too much time shopping for gifts during our international trip?
3. Any recs for a day trip to Lake Tahoe?
4. Need tips for a night shift PICU nurse
5. Feeling stuck in a relationship, unsure whether to move on?
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56min
August 01, 2025 Writing A Perfect Best Man Speech
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki. Here's what we've got:
1. Need help planning a girls mystery trip!
2. How to write the perfect best man speech?
3. When should we take our honeymoon?
4. How do y'all have so many friends?
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July 24, 2025 MAJOR Book Club Drama
Back on The Mail-In this week with the full crew of Sally deFries and Brett Merriman. Here's what we've got:
1. Is there a way to have a wedding without dancing?
2. Do I have to pick my girlfriend up from the airport if her company pays for her Ubers?
3. MAJOR book club drama
4. I'm 38 weeks pregnant and anxious about spinals and epidurals in the case of a C-Section.
5. Tips for introducing your significant other to your family for the first time?
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58min
July 17, 2025Dating In Your 30s
We're BACK on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki (who hate each other). Here's what we've got:
How do I tell my friend I can't attend her bachelorette party?

I'm a bald guy who needs hat recommendations

Is it too soon to invite a new partner to a family event?

How do I get my mom to stop texting me horrible news articles?

Austin boat day for a bachelor party - Brett's choose your own adventure bachelor party, Austin edition

Changing my outlook on dating in your mid 30s
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58min
June 26, 2025What To Do After Getting Engaged?
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries cooking for summer. Here's what we've got:
We just got engaged! What should be the next step?

Wild card on a bachelor party

Are you watching both Love Island UK and USA?

AITA for getting to a wedding day-of?

I'm tired of consoling my friend who never takes my advice.
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59min
June 19, 2025Living With Your In-Laws For 18 Months
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we're working with:
Is it crazy to book a Europe trip during my maternity leave?

I'm living with my in-laws for 18 months. Please help.

How do you know when it's time to change jobs?

What do you say to your friend who follows a bunch of IG models?

How did you know a family had money growing up?
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58min
June 12, 2025My Boyfriend Has No Style
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries taking you through the questions. Here's what we've got:
My boyfriend has questionable style. What do I do?

Do I go to a bachelorette party 3 months postpartum?

How do I relieve the anxiety of leaving my kid with my in-laws for 10 days?

Do I invite a girl I've been dating for 7 weeks to a wedding?

I'm nervous about having kids after watching my nephew deal with a genetic disorder.
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58min
May 22, 2025I'm Moving In With My Girlfriend
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
C-Section recovery tips!

My girlfriend moved in and she's absolutely zero help around the house. What do I do?

Is it ok to go to a wedding in Mexico with a 2 month old at home?

1st birthday party etiquette?

Are Sally and Brett tuned into the "red heads are black" conversation?

Advice on moving in with a significant other for the first time?
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59min
May 16, 2025Friday vs. Saturday Weddings
Happy Friday, y'all. Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki on The Mail-In with you this week. Here's what we've got:
Serious red flag in a girl I've been dating for a year

What's the etiquette on telling one of your best friends you're dating a former "fling" of theirs?

Can I send a wedding registry to people I don't invite to a small wedding?

Is a trip with a third wheel too awkward to take?

Where do you stand on personalized jerseys to games?

Friday vs Saturday weddings
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May 08, 2025 My Friends Owe Me Four Grand
We're BACK on The Mail-In. A lovely Thursday in Austin, TX. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries on the sticks today. Here's what we've got:
1. How much are we contributing to gifts on open-ended wedding registry items like "house fund" or "honeymoon"?
2. What are your thoughts on wearing scrubs in public?
3. Should I still go on a non-refundable trip if my GF is hesitant about traveling overseas?
4. My wife is due on Tuesday after Mother's Day. Should I get her a present for both occasions?
5. My friends owe me $4k which they've said they can't afford to pay back immediately. Now they're traveling to Japan and Costa Rica. What do I do?

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51min

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