The Mail-In Podcast

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Your questions, answered. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries tackle the problems faced and questions asked by 20 and 30-somethings on a daily basis.... more

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May 22, 2025I'm Moving In With My Girlfriend
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
C-Section recovery tips!

My girlfriend moved in and she's absolutely zero help around the house. What do I do?

Is it ok to go to a wedding in Mexico with a 2 month old at home?

1st birthday party etiquette?

Are Sally and Brett tuned into the "red heads are black" conversation?

Advice on moving in with a significant other for the first time?
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May 16, 2025Friday vs. Saturday Weddings
Happy Friday, y'all. Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki on The Mail-In with you this week. Here's what we've got:
Serious red flag in a girl I've been dating for a year

What's the etiquette on telling one of your best friends you're dating a former "fling" of theirs?

Can I send a wedding registry to people I don't invite to a small wedding?

Is a trip with a third wheel too awkward to take?

Where do you stand on personalized jerseys to games?

Friday vs Saturday weddings
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1h 8min
May 08, 2025 My Friends Owe Me Four Grand
We're BACK on The Mail-In. A lovely Thursday in Austin, TX. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries on the sticks today. Here's what we've got:
1. How much are we contributing to gifts on open-ended wedding registry items like "house fund" or "honeymoon"?
2. What are your thoughts on wearing scrubs in public?
3. Should I still go on a non-refundable trip if my GF is hesitant about traveling overseas?
4. My wife is due on Tuesday after Mother's Day. Should I get her a present for both occasions?
5. My friends owe me $4k which they've said they can't afford to pay back immediately. Now they're traveling to Japan and Costa Rica. What do I do?

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May 01, 2025I Can't Stand My Future Sister-In-Law
Ready to rip with the next episode of The Mail-In. Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki taking you through this one. Here's what we've got:
Long distance relationship advice

I'm concerned about my friend using my likeness in her book...

When do seasons actually begin?

I think my younger brother is making a mistake marrying this girl

My partner is unsupportive of the changes I've made to my body

Brett's solo trip recs
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1h 7min
April 24, 2025How To Know If A Spring Break "Fling" Is More Than That?
We are BACK on The Mail-In. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries taking you through this one. Here's what we've got:
My BF cheated on me and now I'm stuck in an apartment I can't afford. What do I do?
My fiancée orders cake via DoorDash in the middle of the day and it bothers me
Should I feel bad for skipping my cousin's wedding to take a trip?
Can I invite someone to my bachelor party who isn't invited to my wedding?
How to play a spring break "fling"?
Italy recs

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1h 9min
April 11, 2025How To Talk To Your Partner About What You Like In Bed?
Happy Friday to the Mail-Iners out there! We're back with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries talking shop. Here's what we've got:
Dating a new person and starting to get intimate - how should we go about communicating what we like and don't like?
Struggling in Pharm School - any tips for me?
Graduating from Law School and I'm afraid my sister is going to ruin the ceremony/weekend
What's the proper phone etiquette at a service appointment?
Need tips for traveling with a newborn

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56min
April 04, 2025My Wife Hates My Family
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we're working with:
Is one AirPod the move at a bar by yourself?
Help! My mother-in-law is using psychological warfare on me...
Should we combine finances before getting married to make things easier?
How should we handle my wife hating my immediate family?
Is it lame to have a low key bachelor party in the city you and your friends already live in?
Banff area recommendations

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59min
March 28, 2025Do I Attend The Bachelor Party? Feat. Dillon Cheverere & Dave Ruff
We have a throwback full house Mail-In for y'all today featuring Dillon Cheverere and Dave Ruff to go along with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki. Here's what we're working with:
I'm a social drinker and she's sober - is that a dealbreaker?
What's the etiquette on watching shows you normally watch with your spouse when you can't watch them together?
Solo trip to Europe for 3 weeks
Go-to karaoke songs when I'm out with my girlfriend's family for the first time?
My older brother crashed out and is now trying to match with my friends on Hinge
Are you under any obligation to attend the bachelor party if you're not a groomsman?

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1h 3min
March 21, 2025Should You Have Photos Of Your Ex on Instagram?
Happy Friday! We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki. Here's what we're working with this week:
Am I the asshole for wanting to exclude stragglers from our book club?
How do I get my neighbors to stop fighting?
What's your take on your partner having Instagram photos of their ex?
Any tips for putting yourself out there in social settings?
Am I overthinking this meaningless Hinge convo?
Am I a psycho for wanting to drive to a bachelorette party solo?

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1h 4min
March 13, 2025Can You Have Platonic Female Friends?
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries on the mics. Bright and early from Austin, TX. Here's what we've got:
I really don't want to attend my friend's wedding
Can I call someone out for ghosting?
I'm getting laid off. What should I do while I'm "fun-employed"?
Need to say no to a family trip but I feel guilty...
Am I allowed to have female friends?

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52min

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