Happy September, folks! We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week:

1. I'm a 30-year-old woman getting back in the dating scene after a decade. What do I need to know?

2. Does Instagram feel blatantly too ad-focused now?

3. How do you repair your reputation after dating a very toxic person?

4. Do I leave my dream job for a job with more money and better benefits?

5. I feel guilty about posting a pregnancy announcement after struggling myself with infertility.

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We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. Shouts to a listener of ours who's battling cancer.

2. My girlfriend doesn't reciprocate payments for things.

3. My wife has stopped putting effort into anything in our relationship.

4. What's the appeal of being an influencer?

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Sally deFries and Brett Merriman. Here's what we're working with:

1. How do you approach your girlfriend about upping her "style"?

2. Give me UK recs?

3. I got engaged three months ago and I think it's time to call it off.

4. Where's the line between moving on and getting my ex back?

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. When do you know you're ready to have kids?

2. Can I be nice to my Dad's girlfriend when my Mom is around?

3. Cowboy cocktail attire at a wedding plus Bozeman recs?

4. What gifts should you get for a pregnant friend outside the registry?

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. Reciprocating wedding invites?

2. I'm hesitant to start trying to conceive as a woman in finance.

3. How much is too much to ask people to spend on your birthday?

4. I'm not sure I support my friend's engagement. What should I do?

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We're back on The Mail-In fresh off a few Europe trips with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. Europe pros/cons

2. Am I right to feel weird about my girlfriend talking to exes?

3. Sally's COSTCO list

4. My friend backed out of our all-inclusive resort room, what should I do?

5. Is it ok to propose in Italy after a wedding? Photographer?

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries mixing it up. Here's what we've got:

1. The squad goes to Europe.

2. We're terrified of having a baby. What should we know?

3. How do I get over being fired from my last job?

4. How do you make the decision to switch careers from teaching?

5. Am I wrong for lying about how much money I make and having it affect our relationship?

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Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:

1. Instagram story etiquette

2. What are we watching this summer - Love Island UK or USA?

3. We're talking hall passes

4. Can I be annoyed that my MIL put my SIL on her Costco membership?

5. My wife is bummed we're having a boy when she wanted to have a girl...

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We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki in the co-host chair. Here's what we've got this week:

1. Am I overreacting about my soon-to-be mother-in-law pressuring us in wedding planning?

2. What should I do with my engagement ring?

3. We purchased a home in our mid 20s and can't seem to get on our neighbors good side.

4. We have three events in one weekend - what should we go to?

5. Is it weird to put my brother-in-law in a separate scramble group on my bachelor party?

6. Should I join an expensive health club? Is it worth the money?

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We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week:

1. My MIL is subtweeting my husband and I...

2. Should I make an effort to build a relationship with extended family after they've made it clear we're different people?

3. Is it a dork move to wear over-the-ear headphones in the office?

4. I'm having trouble adjusting to having a roommate again.

5. I've been with a girl for 2.5 years but I can't stop thinking about sleeping with other girls

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