The Mail-In Podcast

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Your questions, answered. Brett Merriman and Sally deFries tackle the problems faced and questions asked by 20 and 30-somethings on a daily basis.... more

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March 12, 2026 How Long Can You Keep Seeing Multiple People?
Back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got this week:
1. A follow up on last week's pregnancy-during-the-wedding question.
2. How long can you keep seeing multiple people?
3. Is it wild to listen to podcasts at 3.5x speed?
4. My wife and I have vastly different TV preferences and need a mediator.
5. How do I pack for a 10 day Europe trip with a kid?
6. What are your thoughts on relationship etiquette for two people when one person is fresh out of a relationship but there are strong feelings involved?
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1h 16min
February 26, 2026 How Big Of An Age Difference Is Too Big?
Back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki filling in today. Here's what we've got:
1. How big of an age difference is too big when dating?
2. Should we do a registry for our new house or is that tacky?
3. Setting FaceTime boundaries with in-laws.
4. My girlfriend leaves her makeup bag in the car then blames me for not remembering to take it out.
5. Do I tell my sister I'm planning to get pregnant in the middle of her wedding planning season?
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1h 2min
February 20, 2026 Appetizers & Vacation Spots
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
1. New mom fashion help.
2. Should I feel weird about leaving my toddler with my in-laws for a weekend?
3. Bachelorette Party input on location, ideas, etc.
4. Brett & Sally's appetizer and vacation spot draft.
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1h 9min
February 12, 2026 How Do I Evaluate Moving?
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Producer Randy Trembacki. Here's what we've got:
1. Should I go to this guys wedding with old coworkers I hate?
2. Compromising with my future wife on vacation activities.
3. What factors make moving the solution? Happiness? People? Location?
4. My friends do nothing but play board games and I hate it. How do I still hang with them without participating?
5. We're doing a destination wedding in Austin this fall - where should we do our welcome drinks?
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February 05, 2026 Can I Put Grandma's Diamonds In An Engagement Ring?
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
1. Advice for handling a slacker on your work team?
2. My wife and I aren't sure whether to intervene with a couple experiencing parenting inequalities.
3. How do I go about asking her Dad for permission to marry her?
4. I have family jewels that I'd like to put in an engagement ring.
5. I helped my buddy get hired at my company a few levels below me.

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January 29, 2026 Washing Your Hands Before Unloading The Dishwasher
Back on ⁠The Mail-In⁠ this week with ⁠⁠Sally deFries⁠ and Will deFries. Here's what we've got:
This week, Sally is joined by Will (filling in for Brett who is on a ski trip) to talk a listener with intimacy issues, saving money while also enjoying your life, washing your hands before emptying the dishwasher, a new parent grabbag, lacking empathy because of your job, handling conflict, choosing where a couple should get married, and more.
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1h 14min
January 22, 2026 Should We Even Have A Wedding At This Point?
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
1. How often do you wash jeans?
2. Sell my husband on moving to Austin from PA
3. Traveling to San Diego and Napa with a 9 month old
4. Should we even have a wedding at this point?
5. I'm 23 dating a 33 year old
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1h 2min
January 15, 2026 My Wife Cheated On Me
Back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman & Sally deFries. Here's what we've got:
1. Can we get Sally's thoughts on Heated Rivalry?
2. My wife of 2 years cheated on me. Again.
3. Engagement ring shopping.
4. We've both put on a bit of relationship weight and I think she looks better now... but she doesn't.
5. We accidentally invited a third couple to a NYC trip.

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1h 10min
January 08, 2026 Where Do I Draw The Line?
Happy New Year from the squad at The Mail-In Pod. Brett Merriman & Sally deFries back on the mic with y'all. Here's what we've got this week:
1. Having trouble managing a tough relationship with my dad while being there for my mom.
2. Friendships of the opposite gender?
3. Ski trip bachelor party out west?
4. If you're in someone's wedding party do you still get them a gift?
5. Should I propose on a trip even though we have things to work out?
6. How to tell my friends I'm pregnant when they're on an IVF journey.
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1h 10min
December 11, 2025 My Encounter With A Rude Bartender
We're back on The Mail-In this week with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki. Here's what we've got:
1. What should I get my dad for retirement?
2. Throwing an end-of-year party for my law firm.
3. What should I do in a situation where a bartender was extremely rude to me?
4. My girlfriend goes out and doesn't answer when I'm there to pick her up. Should I end things?
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57min

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