Ever wonder why your message makes perfect sense to you—but somehow gets completely misunderstood? In this episode, we unpack a powerful communication model from Kellie Fowler that reveals where communication goes wrong and how to improve clarity, understanding, and connection.

Learn the six key parts of effective communication, as well as discover how your choice of words, delivery method, environment, and awareness of your audience can make or break a conversation.

Plus, grab our FREE Communication Process Handout at InsightMaximizers.com/handouts and start communicating with more confidence and less confusion.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free coaching consultation, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

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Unlock better communication and deeper self-awareness with the Johari Window, the psychology tool that helps uncover blind spots, improve relationships, and explain why other people know you're stressed before you do.

Learn how self-awareness, emotional insight, and healthy feedback can help you grow without turning every conversation into an accidental therapy session.

Grab our free Johari Window handout at www.insightmaximizers.com/handouts.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas, who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free consult for coaching, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

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Boundaries aren't just set—they're communicated. Sometimes out loud… sometimes with a smooth, strategic exit. 😏

We're talking public pivots after a private check-in (hello, PAUSE), how to say "I need a minute" without lighting the room on fire, and when to deploy your pre-planned Trigger Ping Pong Prevention Plan.

From honest convos with your inner circle to ninja-level subject changes with strangers (pocket pivot, anyone?), this episode is your guide to staying in control—without over-explaining or overreacting.

Because not every moment needs a speech… sometimes it just needs a pivot.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free coaching consultation, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

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The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from the external things to preparing ourselves from within for handling whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.

Boundaries, but make them stick.

Say it calmly, say it clearly and mean it. Because if you won't follow through, it's just a suggestion.

We break down the 6 no-skipping steps (plus the unspoken side-eye step 👀), what to do when people push back, and why your behavior, not your words, is the real boundary.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free coaching consultation, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

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• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightmaximizers

The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from the external things to preparing ourselves from within for handling whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.

Pivot or boundary? Plot twist: sometimes it's both. 💁‍♀️

We're cutting through the boundary buzzwords to get real about what they actually are (hint: not about controlling other people). From childhood lessons to full-blown boundary chaos, no boundaries, brick walls, and everything in between, we're unpacking it all.

Plus, the truth about expectations, personal power, and why your "no" isn't a group project.

Grab the free handout at www.insightmaximizers.com and start drawing lines like you mean it.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free coaching consultation, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/insightmaximizers/

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightmaximizers

The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from external things to preparing ourselves from within to handle whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.

Blindsided mid-moment? That spike you didn't see coming can launch you straight into fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.

Today, we talk real-time pivots using PAUSE, breath, and choice when emotions surge. Walk away, stand steady, say nothing, ask a question, or simply refuse to match intensity.

Because sometimes the most powerful response is: Not today, Amygdala.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby, a Certified Professional Coach, works with a team of coaches in Texas and serves people across the United States. To schedule a free coaching consultation, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/insightmaximizers/

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightmaximizers

The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from the external things to preparing ourselves from within for handling whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.

When conflict turns into trigger ping pong, somebody has to stop swinging.

This episode explores how an internal pivot by one or both people can prevent emotional volleys from spiraling. Create a Trigger Ping Pong Prevention Plan, choose your pivot word, and agree on how to pause before things escalate.

Pause before the paddle.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free consult for coaching, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/insightmaximizers/

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightmaximizers

The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from the external things to preparing ourselves from within for handling whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.

Pivoting creates movement, and it starts on the inside.

In this episode, we break down the nuts and bolts of an internal, personal pivot: noticing the body's signals, PAUSE-ing, assessing emotions and facts, choosing what fits, and moving forward with intention.

When we stop fixating on the problem and focus on what we need, we build new neural pathways and real momentum.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free coaching consultation, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/insightmaximizers/

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightmaximizers

The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from the external things to preparing ourselves from within for handling whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.

Tiny shifts. Big results.

Like the invention of Formula 409, sometimes it takes a few (hundred) tries to get it right. This episode explores inside wins and outside wins—how an internal pivot protects our integrity and often leads to calmer, stronger external outcomes.

Pause. Pray. Pivot. Because when we win on the inside, the outside tends to follow.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby, a Certified Professional Coach, leads a team of coaches in Texas and works with people across the United States. To schedule a free consult for coaching, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/insightmaximizers/

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightmaximizers

The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from the external things to preparing ourselves from within for handling whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.

Assumptions, expectations, and why they love to mess with our plans.

This episode looks at how unconscious expectations turn into assumptions—and how that often prompts a pivot. Suze shares a real-life wedding example that proves: different expectations = very different emotional outcomes. The fix? Check your expectations, get the facts, and practice acceptance before reality does it for you.

We close with a powerful reminder from the Big Book: acceptance isn't optional—it's the pivot.

Suze Gadol Anderson lives in Eugene, Oregon. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, practicing in Texas and Oregon. Request a free consult to work with Suze at https://www.yourauthenticinsights.com.

Jenni Hubby is a Certified Professional Coach with a team of coaches in Texas who works with people all across the United States. To schedule a free consult for coaching, visit https://www.jhubconsulting.com/.

Find previous episodes and more about Suze and Jenni at http://www.insightmaximizers.com.

Contact Jenni and Suze at [email protected]

Join Insight Maximizers' Community:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsightMaximizers

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/insightmaximizers/

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/insightmaximizers

The Maxers Community Facebook group continues to grow! Consider joining this private group for fellow insight seekers to give and receive insights. Join us in changing how we do events. We're shifting our focus from the external things to preparing ourselves from within for handling whatever comes our way. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/524983982549427.