You can upgrade anything in your life if you act like you already are it.

Your self concept is what dictates 95% of the choices you make each day.

Your self concept is housed in your subconscious.

To upgrade your self concept is to upgrade your life.

You can do this through imagination and playing out the scenes in your mind where you already have the outcome you’re desiring.

You pretend you are already living that reality.

What happens next is unreal. You start to feel it’s true.

You start to move like that version of you. Think like that version of you, and feel like that version of you.

Guess what happens next?

Results.

This is because your subconscious sees what plays in your imagination as fact, as already true, already real.

When this feeling becomes natural, from repetition and invoked emotion, our subconscious starts to believe it’s true, and thus we incorporate this new feeling into our self concept.

In this episode Pavan discusses how she upgraded her own self concept using Neville Goddard’s teachings of using our imagination and the practice of revision.

Tune into to hear more on how to upgrade your self concept using your imagination and the practice of revision.

Recommended Readings :

Feeling is the Secret

Seedtime And Harvest

The Law And The Promise

By Neville Goddard

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Allow your intuition to guide & lead you throughout your day, rather than your to-do list. It’s entirely possible to manage your obligations while still injecting inspiration into your day, so that you can live an inspired life- one that feels good & holds fulfillment.

A few key topics discussed in this episode:

• ​Rest does not have to be earned
• ​Peace is the prerequisite for you to hear your intuition and it’s nudges
• ​The higher your vibration is, the clearer your intuition will be. You can cultivate a high vibration by:
• ​Nurturing yourself
• ​Caring about how you feel
• ​Using your emotional guidance system
• ​Creating the right environment for yourself to bloom
• ​Loving yourself now for who you are, not needing a task to be done to love yourself
• ​Pouring into your own cup each day, perhaps with a morning routine
• ​Understanding that your day is not so much about the things that you do, but the energy that you carry.

Listen to all of this and more so you can start living your life inspired ✨.

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If you have been working on reaching a goal or manifesting a particular outcome, this process is for you. We can take as much outward action as we want, however, until our internal environment lines up with the outward outcome, we will not be able to entirely reach our finish line, or if we do get there through struggle and might, we likely will not be able to maintain the change for very long (you may have noticed how challenges or diets don't create lasting change).

This is because when things are incongruent between our mindset and our physical actions, there is too much of a push and pull, and our experience will always result in a turbulent journey full of bumps and u-turns, which results in feelings of defeat and even worse, unworthiness. 

In order to have a smoother ride, and actually reach the destination we're aiming for, we need to find congruence between our internal framework and our external actions. When we do this, all parts of ourselves are working together, instead of against each other. When we do this, we are a match for what we want, and things work out much smoother and quicker.

Becoming a match to what you want really means you're thinking, acting, and feeling as someone who already has what it is that you want.

In this episode Pavan details her step-by-step process in which you learn how to think, feel, and act like the version of yourself that is already living your desire.

Our current beliefs are like an operating system, when we become a match to what we want, we essentially upgrade our operating system to match that outcome.

Learn to create lasting change in your mindset and habits by upgrading your operating system so that it matches the version of you that has the outcome you want.

Steps include:

• ​Identifying what you want and how that would feel
• ​Reflecting upon what that version of you who already has that thinks, feels, and acts
• ​Identifying the self talk of this version of yourself
• ​Creating affirmations from the self talk
• ​Repeating the affirmations with feeling, until this way of thinking, feeling, and being becomes your natural and most dominant way of being
• ​Being kind and patient with yourself as you evolve through this process
• ​Ease the discomfort that accompanies change and growth
• ​Becoming the match

Download the reflection page here: https://interiorloveaffair.com/2025/03/how-to-become-a-match-to-what-you-want/

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If you want to worry less, tune into this episode to learn Pavan’s tips & methods for feeling more secure, listening to the voice of your intuition rather than the voice of your fears, why worrying is actually manifesting things you don’t want, and how to stop doing that (using techniques such as distraction, choosing better thoughts, & calming your nervous system ). Pavan shares methods that actually work in helping you worry less and trust yourself more, so you can feel better & take control of your mental health.

Work on your energy and self love to get more of what you want in your life. In this episode Pavan discusses why doing the inner work matters more than the physical actions we take:

• ​believing in yourself
• ​understanding you’re already worthy of your desire
• ​loving yourself enough to go after what you want
• ​prioritizing your energy & self care
• ​becoming the version of yourself internally that matches the version of you that has your desired outcome

Pavan also provides practical tips to improve your energy and align yourself to your desired state.

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In this episode Pavan shares more insights and tips for manifesting your desires. Learn why it’s important to take notice of why you want something, and how to bring yourself into a positive state about it so that you’re a match for it. Learn how to utilize the “nothing’s missing” technique to call in your manifestations quicker; and what you’re really doing when you’re manifesting something you want (hint, it’s about creating a version of you)

Learn how to hear your intuition better by relaxing your body and quieting your mind. Learn why raising your vibration is key to being able to hear your inner wisdom, and how intentionally relaxing will help you get there. Pavan also shares other ways to raise your vibration so that you’re able to hear your intuition more clearly and quickly. Tune in to hear more 💕

In this episode, Pavan shares a celebration and reflection of our mind, body, heart and soul, the different parts of us which are always working for us on our behalf. Pavan also shares tips to understand, soothe and love these different parts, so that we appreciate who we truly are, on our birthday, or any day of the year.

Tune in to hear my tips on how to manifest what you want smoother and quicker. Learn the key elements in training yourself to hold the right energy and mindset for calling in and becoming a match to what you want to attract. Learn why your subconscious mind is a bigger player than you may realize in bringing your desired outcomes in to your reality.

Self help books or programs don’t have to be overwhelming. You can learn to absorb content that suits your style and needs, at a pace that helps you become your best self instead of feeling like you’re failing or behind. In this episode, Pavan shares how to let your intuition lead you to the right books and content, to give yourself permission to take your time when reading and learning so you can truly absorb and apply the knowledge your soul is ready for and calling you toward, and how to make the most of the key points of what you’re reading.