Dr. David Snyder a real household name in the world of NLP and in the world of hypnosis and influence and also around Attraction Relationships. He has a very versatile skill set. He is here to discuss the relevance of learning the psyche of relationships so people can create more meaningful connections with each other. This episode serves as a guide for listeners to understand the concept of love and relationship and their dynamics. Today, David shares all about the patterns, dynamics, and roles men and women play in forging great relationships. 

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Episode Timeline:

[0:18] Meet Dr. David Snyder, our guest for today.

[01:14] What led Dr. David Snyder into behavioral psychology?

[06:26 ] Dr. David Snyder developed a system for his sake because his desires weren’t met.

[09:22] How couples have fewer problems when they are alike at the beginning of the relationship.

[10:47] The importance of behavioral flexibility.

[11:01] Why looking after ourselves matters. 

[12:44] How behaviors affect the relationship and its outcomes.

[15:14] The value of patience in forging relationships.

[20:16] Why people don’t learn until they’ve suffered enough.

[21:24] The idea of cognitive dissonance.

[22:12] Self-awareness and how it relates to relationship building.

[22:48] The concept of vulnerability and intimacy.

[25:37] Importance of CO-ED workshops.

[27:30] Do life experiences accumulate over time and affect relationships?

[28:22] Patterns of Interaction and what it entails.

[30:33] NLP perspectives on cognitive filters.

[32:00] Why attention is the currency of relationships.

[35:16] Stages in relationships.

[38:28] Why divorce is rampant nowadays.

[39:51] Unmasking the theory of the magic hoo hoo.

[40:33] Introduction of the billion wicked thoughts books.

[41:45] How to understand the meta structures and psyche of relationships.

[50:45] Why corporate dating is different.

[56:47] How the dynamics of the relationship are changing.

[59:35] Male and female perspective on problems.

[01:01:51] The concept of safe spaces.

[01:03:44] Barriers to connection.

[01:06:26] Magic mantra for men on relationships.

[02:07:43] Most useful advice around love and relationships.

[1:17:49] How to connect with David.