Have you ever had a doctor’s appointment that left you feeling defeated, guilty, or even angry? Sometimes our fears are being dismissed and there’s a lot you can do to make sure you are heard and that your concerns are being taken seriously.
In today’s episode, I offer three actionable steps to take before and during a doctor’s appointment. Remember, an average doctor’s appointment is only 20 minutes long with the doctor so you need to take advantage of every minute with them. Ultimately, you deserve to be heard and your concerns deserve to be taken seriously. I can help you take the steps to advocate for yourself during these important appointments. Let’s go.
Show Notes:
[1:34] - This episode is all about how to advocate for yourself when going to a doctor’s appointment. Asia shares the story of a professor who was struggling with communicating with her doctor.
[2:19] - The woman in the story felt that her fears were being dismissed and it left her feeling unheard and misunderstood.
[3:06] - When we feel like our fears are being dismissed and our concerns are not being heard, it leaves us feeling guilty, defeated, and angry.
[3:55] - Asia gives three steps to take to advocate for yourself during a doctor’s appointment to make the most of the time you have with him or her.
[4:42] - The first step takes place prior to the appointment and that is to keep a journal.
[5:42] - When writing in your journal, Asia advises to be specific about how you feel using the sentence “I feel ___ when I take or use ___.”
[6:51] - The second step is to take the journal with you to the appointment. It will help with focus and support.
[7:12] - The third step is to start the appointment with your concerns from your journal. Asia walks us through this.
[8:22] - If you ever feel that it is rude to just start right in with your concerns, Asia advises to put that aside. You are not rude to go all in.
[9:03] - If you have a doctor who is not very receptive and your concerns are not being heard, confirm to the doctor that they are not hearing you and repeat your specific concern.
[10:09] - There is a difference between a doctor who is being dismissive and a doctor who is being distracted. Repeat yourself and be specific.
[11:32] - When you go in with these three steps, you are advocating for yourself. Have a sense of urgency when you begin a doctor’s appointment by starting with your concerns.
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Links and Resources:
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Asia Sharif-Clark Website