There are a lot of men out there who come up with all kinds of excuses as to why they aren't living their dream life but the number one reason in my experience of having deep conversations with men is, men feel like they aren't worthy and that truly saddens me. 

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We are all worthy of what ever we desire. It's our inner critic that holds us back and I'm here to help you silence that inner critic with this podcast episode. I hope you find it of value because motivating, energising and inspiring men is something I am truly passionate about. 

If you don't silence your inner critic and start living your best life, you're going to be a very bitter old man later in life.

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It's never easy when you decide to stop living life through other people's expectations, I get it. On the flip side, it's not easy giving up on your own hopes, dreams, goals and ambitions just because someone has a problem with it.

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Think for yourself, stop following the crowd. Be the man you really want to be, living your dream life, being your best self. Live by your own code of living. You'll be happier, more content and more fulfilled.... Filled full. 

During my mid thirties, I had to make some very difficult decisions. Do I continue hanging out with ;lazy, uninspired quitters or do I start eliminating the dead wood so I can start living my best life, achieving what I want to achieve. Show me your friends and I'll show your your future is a podcast episode inspired by one of my favourites, Dan Pena. One of the things Dan talks about in one of his YouTube videos is exactly what I had to do in my late thirties.

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It works, I've lived it which is why I'm talking about it today.  

Your inner critic is the negative voice inside your head conditioned by the system to blend in, neutralise your uniqueness, be mediocre and play small. If you want to live your best life, the first thing you need to be doing is silencing the demons in your head and kick that inner critic in the balls.

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Silence your inner critic. It won't be easy but its a necessary part of being the best version of who you are. 

There's no such thing as overnight success. You must be prepared to play the long game and take the long road if you want to build or create anything worthwhile and of value. Stop dabbling, chip away and the right people will take notice.  

Merry Christmas to you and your family from the team here at RAMMFIT ATHLEISURE. From the bottom of our hearts we want to thank everyone who has ever taken the time to support us on our journey. We are so very grateful for the opportunity to show up and be of service for the empowerment and progression of men.  

It's hard to walk, talk, think and act positive all the time but the more you do it, the more you think it's normal and the quicker you'll change your life. You'll start intimidating people around you who have low self esteem but that's not your problem. Their low self esteem is their problem to fix like you're fixing yours. You're here to win, achieve and succeed in life without violating the rights of others whether people support you or not. 

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Walk, talk, think and act with a positive mental attitude and watch what happens. 

Life must go on after a loved one dies. Somehow we must pick ourselves up and keep moving forward. It's probably the hardest thing you'll ever do but at some point, grief must turn into fuel so you can honour them by living your best life, dedicating everything you do in their memory. The other option is to turn to gambling, crime, partying, drugs and alcohol and that's not a good place to be. The further you travel down that path, the harder it is to recover.  

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Don't let loss turn you into something you're not. It's not what they would want you to do. Make them proud by being your best self because that's what they would want.

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Honour them every single day.

A lot of men are unhappy because they dabble and quit at the first sign of hardship. They have a plan B mentality and they have a safety net.

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Nothing worthwhile is easy. Building confidence and self esteem isn't easy but neither is living life as a quitter or a dabbler. Choose your hardship.

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Play the long game, take the long road and give up dabbling in every new flavour of the month just because it's popular. Following the heard is an average existence and you're not here to be average. You're here to win, achieve and succeed, growing and evolving into your best self as a result. 

Life is full of risk and if you don't learn how to mitigate risk you'll never do extraordinary things. You can't spend your life under your security blanket seeking security. It doesn't exist. You're here to be all you can be, not blend in with the timid masses. 

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Listen as I give you examples of how and when to mitigate risk, especially when it comes to entrepreneurship, so you can live your best life.