It Ain’t Wrong to be Strong Podcast

Exchanging time for a paycheck is the worst way to make money.

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I never forget the moment I asked the driver of a black Ferrari how he managed to get one and he replied

"You won't get one working for living, exchanging time for a paycheck"

Money isn't everything but if that's your motivation, good luck to you. It's ok to love money. If you're sick of slaving away, building someone else's dream like I was, then this podcast episode may just help plant the seed. It may just get the ball rolling and help you think bigger.

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We're not mean't to slave away building someone else's dream, exchanging time for a paycheck. We're here to be all we can be, not a fraction there of. Working in a job you hate saving for retirement is not living your best life. Start creating, start taking risks and start thinking bigger.

Everything that ever happened to you is a result of the way you were thinking and the choices you made. Regardless of what happened and who did it, you can always find the lesson, take ownership and move on.

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It isn't easy but at some point you need to look in the mirror and ask yourself who was really responsible for the mess you're in. At some point you need to man up, accept responsibility for yourself, dust yourself off and head back into battle..

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Life isn't easy. It isn't meant to be so get used to it. Learn to be your own hero and hold yourself to a higher standard. Keep moving forward with a positive mental attitude and watch what happens. 

It's not easy navigating without a map in a life you've never lived before and it's especially hard when a young man experiences racism. It can have a negative affect on their childhood and children especially don't understand it. When it was a constant thing in my childhood, throughout my teens and into adulthood, I found it easy to ignore and keep winning, but a lot of people don't. It really affects them and can drive people to depression and even suicide.

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In this episode I want to help you understand that racism exists, like bullying it will never go away so the best thing you can do is change your attitude towards people who are racist. In short, live with a positive mental attitude, embrace your unique history and backstory, using them as fuel to win, achieve and succeed.

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You got this. 

There are a lot of men out there who come up with all kinds of excuses as to why they aren't living their dream life but the number one reason in my experience of having deep conversations with men is, men feel like they aren't worthy and that truly saddens me. 

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We are all worthy of what ever we desire. It's our inner critic that holds us back and I'm here to help you silence that inner critic with this podcast episode. I hope you find it of value because motivating, energising and inspiring men is something I am truly passionate about. 

If you don't silence your inner critic and start living your best life, you're going to be a very bitter old man later in life.

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It's never easy when you decide to stop living life through other people's expectations, I get it. On the flip side, it's not easy giving up on your own hopes, dreams, goals and ambitions just because someone has a problem with it.

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Think for yourself, stop following the crowd. Be the man you really want to be, living your dream life, being your best self. Live by your own code of living. You'll be happier, more content and more fulfilled.... Filled full. 

During my mid thirties, I had to make some very difficult decisions. Do I continue hanging out with ;lazy, uninspired quitters or do I start eliminating the dead wood so I can start living my best life, achieving what I want to achieve. Show me your friends and I'll show your your future is a podcast episode inspired by one of my favourites, Dan Pena. One of the things Dan talks about in one of his YouTube videos is exactly what I had to do in my late thirties.

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It works, I've lived it which is why I'm talking about it today.  

Your inner critic is the negative voice inside your head conditioned by the system to blend in, neutralise your uniqueness, be mediocre and play small. If you want to live your best life, the first thing you need to be doing is silencing the demons in your head and kick that inner critic in the balls.

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Silence your inner critic. It won't be easy but its a necessary part of being the best version of who you are. 

There's no such thing as overnight success. You must be prepared to play the long game and take the long road if you want to build or create anything worthwhile and of value. Stop dabbling, chip away and the right people will take notice.  

Merry Christmas to you and your family from the team here at RAMMFIT ATHLEISURE. From the bottom of our hearts we want to thank everyone who has ever taken the time to support us on our journey. We are so very grateful for the opportunity to show up and be of service for the empowerment and progression of men.  

It's hard to walk, talk, think and act positive all the time but the more you do it, the more you think it's normal and the quicker you'll change your life. You'll start intimidating people around you who have low self esteem but that's not your problem. Their low self esteem is their problem to fix like you're fixing yours. You're here to win, achieve and succeed in life without violating the rights of others whether people support you or not. 

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Walk, talk, think and act with a positive mental attitude and watch what happens.