In 2014 I left a toxic AF, high demand religious organization. I had been holding onto so much baggage that looked and felt like anger, resentment, bitterness, disappointment. And I spent years in emotional pain because of it. Last year, a therapeutic modality found its way to me and helped me clear it. Not cope with it or battle occasional bouts of big feelings like I had before — it was gone, dissolved, painlessly.
I didn’t spend hours crying over it or reliving painful experiences.
I wasn’t angry with the pastor or God for allowing the experience or my ex husband for “keeping us at the church” — the emotional pain was gone. I still remember the things that happened, but my lens is different and I feel free despite what happened.
While I’m not a medical doctor and for liability sake can’t make any claims… I can share my experience and the perspective shift that helped me move through.
How I used to view forgiveness as someone who grew up conservative christian.
What led me to see that I didn’t have to “let go of anything” (spoiler alert: I wasn’t holding on to anything)
Why holding on to the idea of needing to forgive yourself and others may have held you back in the past
And the new perspective you can adopt that will allow you to feel lighter and move faster towards reaching your biggest dreams. If you enjoy this episode, subscribe, leave a review, share with a friend or to your Instagram stories and tag me.
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