It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

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It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain episodes

October 18, 2023 Abusive Father-In-Law, Office Lust and Schoolgirl Fantasies
What would you do if you ended up crushing on the person you hired? Is your partner making you uncomfortable in the bedroom? Lala delves into more of your relationship qualms this week!

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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19 min
October 16, 2023 Married At First Sight: Recognising and Escaping Narcissistic Abuse and Spiritual F**kboys
Lala explores the disturbing dynamics of Bradley and Shona’s relationship from E4's popular television series Married at First Sight UK. She's looks at numerous example from the programme to help you understand signs of an unhealthy relationship and red flags, from narcissistic and controlling behaviour, to emotional manipulation.

Plus Lala gets a first-hand account from Shona looking back at the turbulent relationship that has unfolded on our screens.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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MAFS UK Broadcast on E4 and produced by CPL Productions

Clip 1, 2 and 3 - Married At First Sight UK / E4 / CPL Productions. Series 8, Episode 9 - Source:
https://www.channel4.com/programmes/married-at-first-sight-uk/on-demand/73829-009

Clip 4 - Married At First Sight UK / E4 / CPL Productions. Series 8, Episode 10 - Source:
https://www.channel4.com/programmes/married-at-first-sight-uk/on-demand/73829-010

Clip 5, 6 and 7 - Married At First Sight UK / E4 / CPL Productions. Series 8, Episode 13 - Source:
https://www.channel4.com/programmes/married-at-first-sight-uk/on-demand/73829-013

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30 min
October 13, 2023 Daisy May Cooper Takes On Your Dating Dilemmas
The ICONIC and award-winning Daisy May Cooper tackles listeners dating dilemmas from dealing with a partner who is not into oral sex, to a hook up with an abrupt ending. Not one to shy away from a candid conversation, Daisy shares her personal dating encounters. Plus Daisy divulges her ultimate icks and gives a Friday night reminder perfect for the weekend ahead!

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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26 min
October 11, 2023 It was 4 Inches not 12, Anonymous Only Fans and Is My Friend’s Partner a Predator?
How would you react if your date warned you about his 'problematic' penis and then you discover he had distorted the truth? Has your curiosity or sexual awakening ever lead you to explore OnlyFans? How would you approach a friend if her husband crossed a boundary with your young daughter?

Lala dons her agony aunt hat and gives her take on these questions.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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20 min
October 09, 2023 Why We Need To Talk About Tate
Lala looks at the detrimental impact Andrew Tate is having on society. How his harmful views are influencing men, boys and even some woman and the far reaching consequences his misogynistic views have.

Plus Lala speaks about the BBC documentary Andrew Tate: The Man Who Groomed The World? exposing Tate's mysterious rise to prominence and uncovering the 'wizard' mastermind behind the cult-like organisations that Tate has been running.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

A Sony Music Entertainment production

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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly

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Clip 1 - BBC - Andrew Tate: The Man Who Groomed the World? Source - https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m001q1n6/andrew-tate-andrew-tate-the-man-who-groomed-the-world

Clip 2 - darkfire7 YouTube Channel - 'Tristan Tate addresses the Croydon stabbing of a 15 year old girl'. Source - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=An1chQwfuDo&ab_channel=darkfire7

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27 min
October 06, 2023 Apathy for Asthmatics, Perspiration Peeves and Titty Tuesday Icks
Would an inability to use a bath mat send you packing? Do beads of sweat from low impact movements make you squirm? How emotional would you get from stepping on a snail?

Lala is back with irritating and hilarious Icks! Plus fuck boy replies are back this week with some serious red flags. And to wrap things up Lala drops her Friday Night Reminder to go into the weekend embracing your aging self.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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21 min
October 04, 2023 Casual Sex, Body Count Bias and a Situationship Gone Wrong
Ever wondered why you’re swiping right but your love life's sliding left? What would you do when a situationship with your neighbours goes wrong? Is a differing opinion on body counts a red flag? Lala jumps into this week’s agony aunt question to give her take on all three questions.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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21 min
October 02, 2023 When Age Gaps Become Problematic
Lala is discussing age gaps within relationships, looking at how they manifest in both media portrayals and everyday life, and shedding light on the persistent gender-based double standards that often underpin these narratives. She explains what makes a healthy relationship and why it's crucial for the younger person in an age-gap relationship to have enough life experience, maturity, and readiness for major decisions like becoming a parent.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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Clip 1. MIRZA TikTok - AGE GAPS - Source - https://www.tiktok.com/@i.am.mirzaaa/video/7236595928017194286

Clip 2. Andrew Tate x Nelk Boys EP.52 - Spotify - Source -
https://open.spotify.com/episode/7zTZba9JE0wTuucxizRzl2?si=vyFog_44RIaD_-BVJB9IPg

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23 min
September 29, 2023 Bed Making, D**k Slapping and Second Date Icks
Is it a red flag if he doesn't ask you any questions or show interest? Would you be alarmed if his blue ticks are turned off on Whatsapp? Is it flaggy if he only sees his kids every other weekend? Lala is jumping into all of these questions.

And it wouldn't be a Friday without your icks! From making the bed on all fours, dominant to d**k slapping and second date excitement icks. Buckle up!

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears!

Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

A Sony Music Entertainment production

Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts

To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email [email protected]

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21 min
September 27, 2023 More BJ’s, Anxious Attachment and A Case of Limerence
Do you suffer from an anxious attachment style that keep drawing you to the wrong guys? How would you deal with a partner who has opposing sexual desires to you? Has your life been turned on its head because of limerence? Lala gets to the bottom of your agony aunt questions.

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

A Sony Music Entertainment production

Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts

To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email [email protected]

And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly

OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

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23 min

About It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

From the publisher's feed

Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.