It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

The Icks are back and this week La La has ‘Lifted’ the hopes of a Lighthouse Family super fan and tackles a new love interest who has never tried lasagne!!?? Plus, the body count discussion is back in this week’s listener Red Flag.

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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Your cousin’s older partner makes a move on you, how do you deal with it!? How would you help a friend in an abusive relationship and how do you recognise the red flags?  What affect does porn have on sexual computability and can you change a partner’s sexual habits? Lala answers all these question in this episode!

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Lala discusses the challenges of living with ADHD and the profound effects it has on relationships and everyday tasks. This episode explores ADHD's many layers, the addiction, compulsive behaviour, and even the inadequacies of our education system in accommodating people with ADHD.

Glossary of terms used in this episode

ADHD - Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a condition that affects people's behaviour. People with ADHD can seem restless, may have trouble concentrating and may act on impulse. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder-adhd/

PMDD - Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) is a health problem that is similar to premenstrual syndrome (PMS) but is more serious. PMDD causes severe irritability, depression, or anxiety in the week or two before your period starts. Symptoms usually go away two to three days after your period starts. You may need medicine or other treatment to help with your symptoms. https://www.womenshealth.gov/menstrual-cycle/premenstrual-syndrome/premenstrual-dysphoric-disorder-pmdd#:~:text=Premenstrual%20dysphoric%20disorder%20(PMDD)%20is,days%20after%20your%20period%20starts.

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Lala is here to dive into those areas of life we’re questioning. And to keep across the conversation head to @lalalaletmeexplain on Instagram.

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Clips 1 Andrew Tate’s Take on ADHD

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fajtDSGhBrI&feature=youtu.be

Clip 2 Jeremy Abramson Take on ADHD

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Lala is joined by the phenomenal Grace Campbell to help navigate the turbulent waters of love and dating. How would you feel if your bestie hooked up with your ex? Would you be alarmed if your date was into water sports? Lala and Grace answer these questions in today’s episode.

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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How do you spot the 'f**kboys' fresh out of relationships looking for casual encounters?

How would you react if you discovered your partner had been hiding a new-born child and baby mum? Is disappearing after sex to wash your penis something to be worried about? Lala gives you her take as she tackles your dilemmas!

DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embarrassing. Lala is here to shed light on those areas of life we’re questioning.

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What's your body count? Why does it matter? No... Really. Why does it matter?  Is it a weapon to shame women who like casual sex? Or a way for men to make a smart judgement about their partners? This week Lala runs the numbers and the figures don't look good for body count obsessed men... 

DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embarrassing. 

Lala is here to dive into those areas of life we’re questioning. And to keep across the conversation head to @lalalaletmeexplain on Instagram. 

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Clip 1-  Austin Lupercio comments made on his own Instagram account @ hehighcaliberman 

Clip 2 -  Brian Atlas comments aken from his dating podcast Whatever which was then reposted by the Instagram account @masculineplanet

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Lala unravels the hilarious layers of this week’s Icks stories sent in by the listeners and she’ll be replying to your red flag queries ranging from love bombing to extreme jealously.

Plus, she sets you up for a fabulous weekend with her Friday Night reminder to make sure you have an enjoyable weekend centered around self-care, ensuring a weekend devoid of negative encounters.

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 

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Would you give your boyfriend a free pass to be with another man? How would you tell your friend that is sharing too much of their sex life? Would you share your annoyance when a date gets rearranged?

In this week's episode, Lala takes on these questions and shares her thoughts.

DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embarrassing. Lala is here to shed light on those areas of life we’re questioning.

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Lala is speaking with Grace Campbell about the harsh truths surrounding rape, sexual assault, and the justice system. They look at the daunting task of reporting rape, the seemingly insurmountable challenges that survivors encounter in proving their cases in court and the stigma victims face after a verdict is not guilty.

DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embarrassing.

Lala is here to dive into those areas of life we’re questioning. And to keep across the conversation head to @lalalaletmeexplain on Instagram.

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How would you approach a covert narcissist? What are your stag do’s and don’ts? How do you get back into the dating scene after a huge betrayal?

Lala tackles it all in this week’s episode, answering your questions.

DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embarrassing. Lala is here to shed light on those areas of life we’re questioning. And to keep 

across the conversation head to @lalalaletmeexplain on Instagram.

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