It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

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It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain episodes

September 25, 2023 Why The Love Languages Aren't So Lovely
Have you heard the popular term 'love languages' used on TV programmes or across social media? They might not be the relationship magic bullet they're hyped up to be. In this episode, Lala breaks down the five love languages, unpicking parts of the book 'Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts' and she's taking a look at the background behind this popular concept. This episode might just make you reconsider those popular love language quizzes and their underlying assumptions.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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24 min
September 22, 2023 Videoing Consent, Exes Nudes and Original Source on the Balls with Sharon Gaffka
Is it a red flag if someone asks you to record a video of consent before sex? How would you feel if the person you're dating still has nudes of their execs?

Lala is joined by campaigner, podcaster and TV personality Sharon Gaffka to answer your red flag questions and share some of her icks. Some of you may remember Sharon from the 2021 season of Love Island; but since then she's leveraged her fame to drive positive change, spearheading initiatives such as an anti-spiking campaign and raising awareness for breast cancer and cervical smear tests. She is also the ambassador for the charity Refuge and hosts the popular podcast Girls Know Nothing.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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20 min
September 20, 2023 How The Russell Brand Allegations Have Revealed Social Media Misogyny
Lala delivers a special episode discussing the mainstream narrative around sexual assault and celebrity. She looks at the harmful reactions to rape allegations, particularly within online platforms, dissecting the disturbing trend of blaming victims and the culture that enables abusers, whilst also shedding light on the painful reality for those victims.

TRIGGER WARNING - This episode discusses rape and sexual abuse.

DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions.

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Russel Brand’s YouTube channel - So, This is Happening - SOURCE - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGr_PVUHn2I

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37 min
September 18, 2023 Track Your Cycle to Change Your Life
Lala is talking all about periods, looking at her personal experiences along with the historical and societal stigmas surrounding menstruation. She’s exploring the emotional, physical and mental effects of the menstrual cycle along with the spiritual power periods can hold.

Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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TED - The Power of the Period – Lucy Peach. Source -
https://www.ted.com/talks/lucy_peach_the_power_of_the_period

Recommended books: Period Queen, Wild Power and Period Power

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24 min
September 15, 2023 Polyamory Red Flag and The Power Of Forest Gump
Ever been in a relationship where you noticed something slightly off? That your gut is trying to tell you something? Luckily for you Lala is here, the aunt to your agony. In this episode she’s exploring potential red flags that occur through the nuances of physical intimacy, chatting with other people whilst in a relationship, and the mysterious case of deleted messages.

Plus, Icks return featuring armpit hair and crying whilst watching Forest Gump!

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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22 min
September 13, 2023 Lost in Translation, Love Bombing and Navigating Infidelity
How do you differentiate between someone that’s really into you or someone that’s love bombing you? Have you ever had a flirty joke not land and result in a communication break down? Is it possible to forgive infidelity whilst managing the challenges of dating someone in the military? Lala gives her insights and advice on navigating these complex situations.

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly

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20 min
September 11, 2023 'Slut Shaming' Her To Get To Him – Logan Paul vs Dillon Danis
Lala looks at the toxic culture and conversations around slut shaming women, in the wake of the recent internet feud between Logan Paul and Dillon Danis.

In the lead up to their boxing match Dillon Danis has been posting photos of Logan Paul’s fiancée, Nina Agdal with other men, in an attempt to shame and humiliate Logan Paul, whilst perpetuating the harmful narratives of women's sexuality. This isn't just about a celebrity boxing match; it's a glaring reflection of the double standards and damaging accounts about women's sexuality that persist today.

DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas.

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Clip 1 Strawberry Park YouTube Channel. The Logan Paul Dillon Danis Situation Just Got Worse… Source https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGuW10ZxQT4

Clip 2 JAMARI YouTube Channel. The Logan Paul Situation Gets MUCH WORSE. Source https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrOdDcb0Ci0

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17 min
September 08, 2023 Untamed Bush and Bringing Lube To a First Date
The amazing Grace Campbell is back for round two!! Grace joins Lala to dissect some juicy dating dilemma’s. Does penis size matter? Is turning up to a first date with lube a red flag and when should you have 'the relationship label' conversation?

Plus Grace tells us her Icks and delivers her Friday night reminder to set you on the right path this weekend.

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email [email protected]

And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly

OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

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23 min
September 06, 2023 Feeld, Female Misogynist and an Overly Familiar Ex
How do you play the ‘Feeld’? Feeld is a non-monogamous dating app. Is it possible to have fun on there and stay safe? Ever found yourself at odds with a friend whose views have drastically diverged from yours? Would you let your partner carry on a friendship with his ex? Lala gives her insights and advice on navigating these complex situations.

Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!

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Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts

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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly

OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

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24 min
September 04, 2023 Two Banana’s, A Blood Bath And a Trip to A&E
La La recalls a hilarious and unnerving encounter from her twenties. Hear how a simple festival meetup and a seemingly innocent picnic date took a shocking turn, taking in drugs, sex and more than a little bit of blood. Enjoy this ‘eye’ opening tale that almost ended in an emergency visit to the hospital and a potential man(hood) slaughter charge!

If you’ve got any dating horror stories you’d like to share please get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram.

Let's use our experiences to educate and protect each other as we navigate this journey together!

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Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts

To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email [email protected]

And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

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19 min

About It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.